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Challenge for Greatness #1

Lawliet

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Hey seducer bros,

Let's do a challenge and see how everyone tackles it
I'm planning to start a series, if mods don't approve, you can change the title

Idea here is going for greatness, that is, no nexting.
Side note, no girls are hurt; no effort is expended, just challenge for intelligence and food for thought.

Anyone feel free to join! Even the elites are welcome to chip in too!

Rules:
1. You can't change the scenario. No adding or subtracting. But you can give conditional (if it was...I would)

2. No nexting, but you can give some warnings or caveats to how you would have done instead of the guy.

3. Ultimately, have fun. This is all relaxing. No need to troll or flame

4. Debate is possible, but keep it friendly.

5. Optional. At the end of your "how to tackle" response, you can give some tips on how YOU would avoid the scenario altogether.
You can provide feedback AT THE END on what YOU would have done instead of the guy in example.
Which is all good for thought. But in your tackle response, DO NOT next for sake of going for greatness.

Here we go!

Scenario:
You're with a girl out. Everything is going well. Vibe is there. She's comfortable and you're enjoying yourself.
Just as everything is going smoothly, she suddenly becomes uncomfortable. You ask her about this.

Girl: I...I don't think we should continue seeing each other.
Guy: Why do you say that? / What's wrong?
Girl: What if you disappear...

Translation: I don't want to have emotional association with you because I don't want to become attached to you and get hurt when you're gone (i.e. break up, split, etc.). I don't want to fall in love (or be dependent). Insecurity

Challenge
1. How would you tackle her insecurity?
Hints: Avoiding Provider / Committment point / Promise gives up power

2. How would you respond at the moment?
Hints: Check hints 1

3. How would you proceed with her without making her fall in love but will stick around?
This one actually applies to all girls. Chase's style - be with girls, but don't make them fall in love so they won't get hurt

4. Chase's level: How to make her emotionally associate with you WITHOUT making her fall in love?
Hints: Check "Emotional Association: Why you need it to be successful with women"

5. Feedback for the guy
What you would have done instead? How would you avoid this scenario altogether?

NO NEXTING in your challenge response
I'm sure some people will say, it's a cluster B. Get out of there!
For the sake of a challenge, so no skipping.

Most importantly, have fun!

Yours,
Lawliet
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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