Other/Misc changing my game in 2024

[Swati]

thanks a lot, @Chase, for your monstrous responses to my post to my FU. I appreciate it!

This one is a European one. #femaleaustic sounds about right hahaha, I find them to be pretty funny and have some good traits for a GF, above average in looks. It's weird energy they bring to the table.

You mentioned Asian autist, I heard about some the trend of the "leftover" women in asia how they getting PHDs, masters, having 2 apartments at the age of 35 and shit, now no one wants to marry them and shit LMAO!!! Got the priorities all turn messed up!

I'm quite fine with the resistance I'm facing because I will find a solution sooner or later.

As someone trying to grow in different avenues in skills maybe all PUAs have encountered this, if they are fixable enough. I'm looking to make some progress and mix up the approaches, trying day game methodically.

I felt day game was "normal" and corny HAHAHAHA

I've been avoiding the one-night stand/ night venue game recently, as I know how to get back into it since I want something different.

NOW with this current market, MOST girls are a lot more conservative, i want to go this route because I'm getting a bit tired of having casual sex.
I changed the SOCIAL FRAME completely, not in the Anglosphere. I'm learning the language, and most don't speak English.

you probably saw from my past relationship posting, that I have been irritated with some of my flings/LTRs, some ghosted me, and most of them tend to cause some degree of fighting eventually.

A couple of examples of past LTRs

I don't want to bore you with the whole year from last year.

midway past the 2023
-girl I was seeing during the summer ended up blocking me on every social media. I probably failed to connect with them on a "deep" level, she was beautiful, and I was her type, but beyond that, it didn't work socially frame-wise.

-one of the flings I still talk with started being super annoying about some politics, typical SJW because she just misses my cock or some shit. she texted me too much while I was away from her. I will eventually see her again. She picking to fight to get attention, or whatever the reason, this one is fucking other people for sure.

-This girl, I broke up with in 2023, the last couple minutes until the NEW YEAR, "a breakup she will never forget" We had seen each other for 4 months, and her brother helped her pull me back to their place. it was the funniest shit. she was being annoying. I noticed that I have this avoidance type of reaction after sex. I want to run away. Her annoying attitude, demanding, angry outbursts, and not that "beautiful" anymore just killed it for me.

These are the ones that I have some deeper level of connection, where I cared about outside of SNLs

Recently, went through bad relationships with family members, which is probably why I'm a bit more cynical than before, anyway that's not too relevant to results in PUA.

Based on your experiences conquering the out of nowhere locations without the language how were you able to do with as little as auto-rejections?

I have been told by Wings and veterans what I'm doing right now is hardcore, so yeah it's not pleasant in any way, I have felt a similar level of irritability during 2022 close to the 1-year mark in the pickup, and was looking to get consistency. NOW I want to conquer a different social frame!

Maybe my path will help some PUAs in their journey as well

 

[Chase]

@Swati,

thanks a lot, @Chase, for your monstrous responses to my post to my FU. I appreciate it!

Don't mention it, man!

This one is a European one. #femaleaustic sounds about right hahaha, I find them to be pretty funny and have some good traits for a GF, above average in looks. It's weird energy they bring to the table.

lmao. Hey, autist chicks need love too.

You mentioned Asian autist, I heard about some the trend of the "leftover" women in asia how they getting PHDs, masters, having 2 apartments at the age of 35 and shit, now no one wants to marry them and shit LMAO!!! Got the priorities all turn messed up!

Dude you should check out some of those online newspapers in East Asian countries where they allow the posting of personal ads. You will see some wacky stuff in there. Somebody showed me one a few years back of a woman who was 43 and just looking for a man to father a child with her. Father did not need to be involved in the child's life or contribute financially, but her last relationship had failed and she was out of time. Had her own apartments, good career, just wanted a kid before the last one of her eggs dried up. I was reading that ad like, "Yeah, but at 43? A kid is not something a handful of rounds of blasting in her raw is likely to deliver at that age, lol..."

I felt day game was "normal" and corny HAHAHAHA

I've been avoiding the one-night stand/ night venue game recently, as I know how to get back into it since I want something different.

Think about it this way:

• You're in a new mating market.
• You're on low momentum.
• You're dealing with language/cultural barriers.
• However, you have one (1) avenue for laying chicks, building up a rotation, and building momentum that is already ON LOCK.

I would be using that avenue if I was you.

Momentum & experience translates across game avenues.

Trust me dude... if you pull a few nightlife lays from girls from Country X, it is all of a sudden going to be easier pulling day game lays of Country X girls too, because 1.) they don't feel so foreign to you anymore, 2.) you're more familiar with some of the quirks, 3.) you're just on higher momentum in general.

You've got an ace here (your nightlife skill). I'd be using that to your advantage.

You don't have to LTR your nightlife lays. Just use them to build momentum and keep it up while you day game for LTRs.

NOW with this current market, MOST girls are a lot more conservative, i want to go this route because I'm getting a bit tired of having casual sex.

Yeah, but even in conservative societies, girls are still girls.

Actually, in conservative countries, in some ways the girls are even easier.

The liberal countries the chicks are more used to guys hitting on them and have had to sharpen their own game up too.

Conservative countries it's mostly just down to learning whatever quirk prevents average dudes from being able to lay a lot.

Which pretty much always comes down to some nuance of leading, IMO -- "stronger leading than what average guys do but with the right calibration to the society so it's neither too imposing nor too weak for the girl."

I changed the SOCIAL FRAME completely, not in the Anglosphere. I'm learning the language, and most don't speak English.

you probably saw from my past relationship posting, that I have been irritated with some of my flings/LTRs, some ghosted me, and most of them tend to cause some degree of fighting eventually.

A couple of examples of past LTRs

I don't want to bore you with the whole year from last year.

midway past the 2023
-girl I was seeing during the summer ended up blocking me on every social media. I probably failed to connect with them on a "deep" level, she was beautiful, and I was her type, but beyond that, it didn't work socially frame-wise.

-one of the flings I still talk with started being super annoying about some politics, typical SJW because she just misses my cock or some shit. she texted me too much while I was away from her. I will eventually see her again. She picking to fight to get attention, or whatever the reason, this one is fucking other people for sure.

-This girl, I broke up with in 2023, the last couple minutes until the NEW YEAR, "a breakup she will never forget" We had seen each other for 4 months, and her brother helped her pull me back to their place. it was the funniest shit. she was being annoying. I noticed that I have this avoidance type of reaction after sex. I want to run away. Her annoying attitude, demanding, angry outbursts, and not that "beautiful" anymore just killed it for me.

These are the ones that I have some deeper level of connection, where I cared about outside of SNLs

Why did the summer girl block you?

The SJW fling, sounds like she just wasn't high value enough to keep your interest, and knew it.

Unforgettable breakup girl, similar deal to SJW fling girl.

Some degree of commitment phobia is natural in PUAs. Lots of us have some degree of avoidant attachment. (25% avoidant, 75% secure, according to attachment style quiz results for me... which still results in me preferring to keep one foot out of my relationships for a long time...)

Recently, went through bad relationships with family members, which is probably why I'm a bit more cynical than before, anyway that's not too relevant to results in PUA.

Based on your experiences conquering the out of nowhere locations without the language how were you able to do with as little as auto-rejections?

I have been told by Wings and veterans what I'm doing right now is hardcore, so yeah it's not pleasant in any way, I have felt a similar level of irritability during 2022 close to the 1-year mark in the pickup, and was looking to get consistency. NOW I want to conquer a different social frame!

Maybe my path will help some PUAs in their journey as well

Well, first off:

1. Being foreign is a DHV. Speaking English is also a DHV. The girl having to speak English (which she is probably not fluent at, but probably understands at least a little of) is her having to invest to talk to you. Same deal if you are using a translation app on your phone.
   
   
2. Guys that think the language barrier makes it harder IME are guys who are overly focused on verbals over nonverbals. IMO, language barriers make things much SIMPLER. If you are talking to a girl, and she has no idea what you are saying, and you have no idea what she is saying, but she is throwing off a bunch of interested signals and trying hard to make that work, you're golden. Just keep leading her forward, making whatever simplistic conversation you can, until you end up alone together. Then bang. She's not thinking "long-term future with foreign man who has no job here, owns no property here, with whom I cannot even communicate with" when she ends up alone with you. She is just thinking "once-in-a-lifetime hookup with a sexy foreigner from a faraway land!"
   
   
3. This is still cool if you want an LTR anyway. Because you just shag her, then have her come over again another time and shag her again, then keep shagging her. If you end up staying where you are, and keep trying to talk to this woman who has no idea what you are saying and who you have no idea what she is saying, sooner or later one of you is going to learn the other's language just from trying to communicate.
   
   
4. You really should be making use of all your available options. Not night gaming because "that would be too easy" and "I want an LTR" is not the right call. You need to night game to get comfortable with the local girls faster if you are good at night game. Go out, SNL some girls off of night game, do some online, and suddenly the day game gets easier too, because all these girls start to feel familiar and layable because you have already laid others like them (via nightlife, etc.). You can very much do "bang a bunch of girls from night game + online game, then get an LTR from day game" IF you are consciously cross gaming. The contrast also helps LTR girls stand out a lot more: you bang a few slutty club girls with artistic jobs or who are schoolteachers or whatever, then you meet a chick via day game who is total girlfriend material, and you both recognize it right away but also aren't shooting yourself in the foot slow-gaming it or anything because you've been shagging girls off nightlife/online too.

(some of this is just general good practice that applies anywhere, and I know you know this stuff, but maybe aren't doing all of it. Some of it is specific to language barrier situations)

Also, I don't know how long you're staying, but often it's good not to commit to an apartment location right away. That way you have time to scout out the city and figure out where the spots you like to pick up from are, the spots that are good for dates, etc., then find a place that's right near one or the other. Ideal logistics are just a smart way to make the whole pickup process easier, which makes it easier for you to stick with it (and also run through a whole bunch of girls in a hurry / secure that GF when you find one who's qualified).

tl;dr:

1. You've got a big advantage over local guys.
   
   
2. Language barriers serve as filters for clearly interested girls. They also force greater investment on the girl's part.
   
   
3. If you LTR a girl you have a language barrier with, one or the other of you will learn the other's language over time.
   
   
4. You should be night gaming to build momentum and get familiar with the local women. Don't leave your best tool for momentum/abundance/familiarizing yourself on the shelf just because it's sub-optimal for getting GFs. Use it to build what you need to make getting GFs from day game simpler.

Hope that helps

Chase