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Hi gents!
Here's a straightforward question: in the pursuit of becoming an excellent seducer (or achieving anything great), is it better to view the process of a series of problems or a transformative process of becoming someone new?
I tend to see it mostly as the latter but I'm thinking it may not be a good mental model.. it kind of implies that one is never quite there, good enough etc. So, bad for self-esteem and how you project yourself..
What are your thoughts, opinions? Does the question even make sense for you?
Best,
Rakkum
Here's a straightforward question: in the pursuit of becoming an excellent seducer (or achieving anything great), is it better to view the process of a series of problems or a transformative process of becoming someone new?
I tend to see it mostly as the latter but I'm thinking it may not be a good mental model.. it kind of implies that one is never quite there, good enough etc. So, bad for self-esteem and how you project yourself..
What are your thoughts, opinions? Does the question even make sense for you?
Best,
Rakkum