Observations Chase comment to Marty will provide an interesting insight. You probably read :)

[trashKENNUT]

I occasionally read comments and sometimes i found the comments itself to speed the learning curve. Anyway Marty noted something about women and pregnancy stuff, and Chase noted to him that while pregnancy and stds does play a factor, it's rather whether you care about her.

Whether you call her again?
Whether you lose respect for her?

Which brings me to the insight that i found.

The women i interact with never really "blame the child" nor "put the child in the spotlight". I have friends who got pregnant because the guy just keep pumping her in, and i have heard friends of friends who accidentally got it because they were not so lucky. The small percentage of "pre-cum" statistics. Here's the thing, All the conversations i had with women and friends, THE CHILD WAS NEVER A HUGE FACTOR in the conversation. Now, Of course you would not want to start cold approach and start pumping her in, and let alone pumping her in many times, because the female body can only take so much before she conceive.

The conversations i had with women who got an "unwanted child" wasn't really about the child being "unwanted". They were telling me that how he didn't care about a single shit. How he wasn't responsible and how nothing was taken seriously, or cared for after they found she conceive.

So yea,

Chase is right, Women don't behave like shit happen for no reason. and to me, I believe

Empathy for another person, is a real thing.

Zac

 

[Marty]

Re: Chase comment to Marty will provide an interesting insight. You probably rea

Chase's reply made a lot of sense to me in terms of understanding the inexperienced woman—which is what the article was about, after all.

But he also wrote in the body of the article that "experienced women are much more comfortable walking up to the brink, and confident in their ability to not go over".

That's the part that still puzzles me. You'd think that for an experienced woman, the nine bullet points he listed in his reply to me are all familiar territory. Since she knows the terrain already, what's another man to her? Surely with this level of experience, she can get the pleasure without worrying too much about the consequences. After all, she knows to take precautions.

Unless, of course, sex is not a priority for her. That's what I've noticed with a lot of women... any number of things are more important for them, including social life, studies, career, shopping, family... the list goes on. They seem to enjoy it when they have it, but prefer any number of other activities instead!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: Chase comment to Marty will provide an interesting insight. You probably rea

Marty,

Chase's reply made a lot of sense to me in terms of understanding the inexperienced woman—which is what the article was about, after all.

But he also wrote in the body of the article that "experienced women are much more comfortable walking up to the brink, and confident in their ability to not go over".

That's the part that still puzzles me. You'd think that for an experienced woman, the nine bullet points he listed in his reply to me are all familiar territory. Since she knows the terrain already, what's another man to her? Surely with this level of experience, she can get the pleasure without worrying too much about the consequences. After all, she knows to take precautions.

Unless, of course, sex is not a priority for her. That's what I've noticed with a lot of women... any number of things are more important for them, including social life, studies, career, shopping, family... the list goes on. They seem to enjoy it when they have it, but prefer any number of other activities instead!

It's amazing how one answer or comment can learn so many things. For me, We tend to overestimate women that they HATE the idea of getting pregnant.. Not saying that they want you to, but rather Women want you to care for them and protect them as much as possible.

and wow, the perspective or epiphany itself, is amazing, for my side.

Zac

 

[Franco]

Re: Chase comment to Marty will provide an interesting insight. You probably rea

Marty,

That's the part that still puzzles me. You'd think that for an experienced woman, the nine bullet points he listed in his reply to me are all familiar territory. Since she knows the terrain already, what's another man to her? Surely with this level of experience, she can get the pleasure without worrying too much about the consequences. After all, she knows to take precautions.

Chase is referring to the fact that more experienced women are less susceptible to your fundamentals for going to bed with you. She's seen it all before, so she can make more logical decisions about why she should go to bed with you (such as "will he be a provider? will I even enjoy this sex? does he have STDs? did I take my pill this month?")

If you get an inexperienced girl on a bed and sexually stimulate her enough, then she simply lets her emotions take over because she feels like she wouldn't even be naked in her bed in the first place if she didn't think you were a guy she should be with. She'll start fantasizing about passionate, movie-like sex and let her emotional mind take over her logical one. More experienced women know better than to let that happen, however!

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

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