A girl texted me this morning that she's sunburned all over and peeling. Is this a good chase frame?
Marty, your response to this is great
I'd probably cut down the "I'm not taking the bait so easily
" I know why you put it in there -to amplify the frame and get her to invest more into grabbing your attention but it's not really necessary.
I'm also a fan of Casa's "You're just trying to get me to picture you in a bikini."
BUT! Because I'm a sexual monstrosity and every woman I meet knows it, I'd actually do this instead,
Her: "I'm sunburned all over and peeling."
Me: "And you still expect me to sleep with you?
" (you can substitute "sleep with" with multiple things).
This has been working for me. I've recently cut down all the question marks/emojjis i've been sending over text by a large bit. It makes the girls ask more questions to contribute to the conversation (Law of Least effort
) Also, if I send a text without a question mark and she doesn't respond. I don't lose anything, since i didn't ask a question.
Casa,
I assume you're dealing with younger girls because the use of or lack of emojis really makes no difference to them - but as you get a little older (I'm actually excited I can say this for a change cuz I'm one of the youngest guys on the site haha) it's actually better to use the emojis to convey emotion. Otherwise your texts can look bland, and read bland as well - but overloading texts with them makes you look try-hard as well.
The difference isn't so huge that it's a dealbreaker, but it's not so insignificant that it doesn't make a difference at all.
Her: "Hey Richy Rich, what trouble you been causing today?"
Me: "None as usual. I'm a good boy remember."
or
Her: "Hey Richy Rich, what trouble you been causing today?"
Me: "None as usual =P I'm a good boy, remember? >=D"
One reads kinda bland, the other reads kinda fun and mocking (and I was mocking her because the day before she said I was a good boy).
-Richard
