Chase frame working only working on interested girls.

[kristian]

I dont know about you guys, but Ive tried chase framing on different type of girls and I see the following pattern:

They only work on girls that are interested and already have some sense of humor.
I tried the same thing on girls that arent that into me, believing it could make them start to chase, but they usually act dumb, or take offense.

So my question is, could you make a girl interested using chase frame? Or is this a tool to find out a womans interest levels?

 

[Drck]

Try to simplify things...

If the girls is interested in you, if she likes you, many things will work... On the other hand, if she is not interested you can't probably do much to change her feelings... She's already decided and you won't change her mind - unless you chose another approach, e.g. long(er) lasting persistence. But in such case there is a high risk that you will be perceived as needy...


1) Good Fundamentals + Sexy vibes --> That will increase her interest in you... That is how she rates your sexiness, ideally she should be excited to talk to you...
2) Once she is interested, show genuine interest in her. Show her that you like her, that you are interested in her - without telling her directly. Don't overdo it, even subtle things are good enough... Simply vibe with her (sometimes you can, other times it is impossible). That is how she decides whether you are potential mate...
3) If she remains interested, you got to move things forward. Take her for a coffee, setup a date,... That is how you show your confidence. You can't leave it up to her, you have to do it. If you don't move forward, she will start shifting your to the friend zone or beta zone...
4) If she is compliant, keep moving forward. Once she stops, take a step back, let her cool off, and then repeat...

Also build up your value as a man; simply show her that you like her a lot, but at the same time don't chase, "let her go" without bombarding her with attention or texts... "Draw her in"... That will automatically make her keep comming after you and investing into you, should she remain interested...

 

[Frost]

It makes sense since (if I recall correctly) the central premise of chase frames is backwards rationalization. This means that if a girl likes you, and she does something that you use in your chase frame, she will think at some level that she must have done this because she's attracted to you. Of course this doesn't usually happen on the conscious level, but it's more like planting a suggestion and leaving it to grow by regularly enforcing the frame.

So naturally if she's not interested, and you use a chase frame, she's gonna be like "nope, that's not what it is". Unless you are a very persuasive and charismatic person that has people question their realities and accept your suggestions right away. But in this case I don't think you would be on this forum XD