Chase, Franco, pros: Bad idea to approach women near where you live?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Hi guys,

I guess I am a bit paranoid tonight, not for good reason anyhow, and I know I have my own personal thread about it I could have asked this on but this really needed attention from you guys.

Right now I live in a young part of a big city and looking around, I am starting to see some familiar faces that keep popping up. Thankfully I haven't gone full PUA aggressive douchebag number/kiss close on a girl yet but I have chatted up various women in my area, some I who I have run into more than once which is kinda scaring me tbh.

There is a Trader Joes in my area I frequent and every week (only been doing this for 3 weeks though), I try to chat up a couple of hot girls there. I think some of the workers might have seen me do it and I hate to be that kind of a regular in the area.

What I am trying to say is that I fear that if I keep doing what I am doing, I might get a bad reputation in my area as being a sort of creepy dude and I approach women near where I live.

Guys I know tend to approach women at bars or nightclubs far away from their place if they do that so I was hoping you guys could maybe give me some help on this.

Like how far is going too far and what kind of a balance I should keep to avoid some unwanted troubles.

 

[Richard]

Kudos on going out and approaching; my apologies for the flack in other threads as well.

You really want to find as many places to approach as possible and fluctuate with how much time you spend at each place. When I first joined the boards there was an up-and-coming guy named AsianPersuasion who I was rivaled with for a little while (sadly, he stopped approaching) and I distinctly remember him posting stories about getting kicked out of malls, etc. because the employees and security got used to seeing him approaching women.

That aside, my hometown is 22,000 which is relatively small because I live close to Chicago, etc. and I haven't ran into this problem at all. Keep in mind that many of the women you approach in your area will likely not know each other and when a woman is out and about she's not going to remember you if you're chatting up a different chick. It would either take a) women seeing you approach in the same place every day, at the same time, etc. or b) you would need to be seriously peacocking and wearing something outlandish.

Anyway, so long as you break up your time among different places and avoiding wearing a bright red clown shoes, funny glasses, and a gorilla suit then you should be fine.

-Richard

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Kudos on going out and approaching; my apologies for the flack in other threads as well.

No hard feelings at all, as long as you are helping me get to my goal then I tend to have a short memory lol.

You really want to find as many places to approach as possible and fluctuate with how much time you spend at each place. When I first joined the boards there was an up-and-coming guy named AsianPersuasion who I was rivaled with for a little while (sadly, he stopped approaching) and I distinctly remember him posting stories about getting kicked out of malls, etc. because the employees and security got used to seeing him approaching women.

Fuck! Now that is just embarrassing. Do you think being at a place say once a week and making 2 to 3 approaches there is decent enough? I also do daygame outside on nice sunny days.

That aside, my hometown is 22,000 which is relatively small because I live close to Chicago, etc. and I haven't ran into this problem at all. Keep in mind that many of the women you approach in your area will likely not know each other and when a woman is out and about she's not going to remember you if you're chatting up a different chick. It would either take a) women seeing you approach in the same place every day, at the same time, etc. or b) you would need to be seriously peacocking and wearing something outlandish.

Anyway, so long as you break up your time among different places and avoiding wearing a bright red clown shoes, funny glasses, and a gorilla suit then you should be fine.

-Richard

Lately I have been doing a lot of approaches for walks after dinner around my high rise. I walk around, see a hot girl, and I make the approach pretty much. Luckily I don't peacock or anything but I do make a lot of approaches near my high rise but I see different faces a lot.