*Church girl* need some advice

[bigboionamission]

Hey guys, I being a regular reader of girls chase and I love the work of chase & crew, but I often have a hard time applying the content with my busy life

This is my first post on the forums, so please don't crucify my grammar.

Like, I said I have a hard time applying the content of girls chase, especially cause there is a lot to consider towards "interacting with the opposite sex" and sometime I get lost, so I need some clear advice.

So there's this girl I have small crush on. She is beautiful, shy and robust. She goes to my church so I'm guaranteed to she see her every week. I'm getting along with her, but our conversations are mostly quick, situational & safe topics. Basically, I am a newbie working on social and conversational skiIls. I have little bits of sexual vibes but that mostly inappropriate jokes like "that's what she said". Plus, she sometimes does things, I ask her for. Another thing to note, her best friend loves to shit-stir and constantly asks if I like someone at church [not sure if her friend is asking for her ] I usually downplay this or act bored.

My boys know I have an interest in her, so they decided to write this on a note and give it to her. *face-palm*. There goes any sort of mysterious vibe. She knows I like her so I have to make a move. Now, I have never taken risks with girls and this girl runs my social circle, she's the hottest, so if I fuck up, I'm screwed. If i dont do anything that's a pussy move and she loses respect for me.

Here's the problem, I don't have any game, I'm vulnerable to buckle against social pressure (church) or peoples opinions (new guy mentality I guess) and I'm about to take a big social risk, which i never do. I want to fuck her but I don't know any game plan and I still struggle with conversations (some girls cannot drop their phones!!!). Should I go for it ?, risk my reputation and at least try? Or should work on myself? Regret not trying, practice elsewhere and lose her respect?

I know there are other girls out there but i want to give this a try. Any advice on how to escalate the situation will be gladly accepted and game plans will also help.

Until next time
Bigboi out

 

[DonAngelo]

I'm getting along with her, but our conversations are mostly quick, situational & safe topics.

My boys know I have an interest in her, so they decided to write this on a note and give it to her. *face-palm*. There goes any sort of mysterious vibe. She knows I like her so I have to make a move. [/quote] I'd just go and tell her: "Any creepy note have been delivered? I'm suiting someone" (with a witty face and laughing like it's no big deal").

Here's the problem, I don't have any game,Should I go for it ?, risk my reputation and at least try? Or should work on myself? Regret not trying, practice elsewhere and lose her respect?

You won't lose the respect of ANY woman if you are wanted by many more likely it's the other way around, girls love the most wanted and they feel built up and secure when they are dating a wanted sex machine.

I know there are other girls out there but i want to give this a try. Any advice on how to escalate the situation will be gladly accepted and game plans will also help.

There is no "script" that we can give you more powerful than your calibration.

Tell us more about your age and her age, how long you've met this girl, how many women have you dated? how many have you taken to bed?

With all that info all i can say is you will not accomplish anything with her, you are being too emotional and not rational, don't worry we all have but it's more of a combination of "Changing mindset and practicing". You can't just absorb all the info and apply it to one girl you have, there is no script you can just read and translate to your life just go out and start practicing, with her and any girl you like.

If you like her just ask her out, maybe you will have some approach tension but it will come off the more you approach, but remember this:

There are plenty of hotter girls out there, just build yourself on your fundamentals and your lifestyle overall, become an interesting man and the rest will come easy, trust me.

Cheers, DonAngelo.

 

[bigboionamission]

I'm getting along with her, but our conversations are mostly quick, situational & safe topics.

My boys know I have an interest in her, so they decided to write this on a note and give it to her. *face-palm*. There goes any sort of mysterious vibe. She knows I like her so I have to make a move.

I'd just go and tell her: "Any creepy note have been delivered? I'm suiting someone" (with a witty face and laughing like it's no big deal").

lol good banter

Thanks I feel better about the situation

Tell us more about your age and her age, how long you've met this girl, how many women have you dated? how many have you taken to bed?

With all that info all i can say is you will not accomplish anything with her, you are being too emotional and not rational, don't worry we all have but it's more of a combination of "Changing mindset and practicing". You can't just absorb all the info and apply it to one girl you have, there is no script you can just read and translate to your life just go out and start practicing, with her and any girl you like.

If you like her just ask her out, maybe you will have some approach tension but it will come off the more you approach, but remember this:

There are plenty of hotter girls out there, just build yourself on your fundamentals and your lifestyle overall, become an interesting man and the rest will come easy, trust me.

Cheers, DonAngelo.

I'm 17 and she's 17, honestly I don't remember the first time I met her (lol) but it's at least 3-4 months, so I understand when u say nothing can be accomplished. I haven't had sex or kissed a girl. I had chances to date some girls (school shit) but every time I pussyed out and told myself I can't handle the responsibility of a girl's emotions, ironically this gets girls more upset.

Sadly, I've been sheltered my whole life, my parents won't let me join the gym, party, go out or do anything because I'm the only child. The fact I'm an introvert does not help at all, I've tried hanging out with interesting people, but most high school kids want to smoke weed and trap everyday. The player cliques are tight, and I find it hard to communicate with career ambitions people with a sex drive. Overall, communication skills is not my strongest point, so I think surrounding myself with high ambitioned and similar minded people is the right path to being a sex machine. (Btw- any tips on how to improve my lifestyle will help).

Ya, I do need a mentality change, more practice and probably a mentor. But, I recently started a blog on tumblr [probably the most interesting place I know ]to explore my options, and get myself some exposure (lol). Thanks for the advice, I think I'll push this situation to the back of my mind, ignore whatever shit my friends give me and keep practicing those approaches.

Anyways for now, peace