Recently went to this club with some coworkers. I got out of work late, went to change my clothes at my co-worker's place and then we ended up at the club rather late like around 12 am. I showed up sober bought a round of drinks and then went scouting. Saw a girl and I immediately started dancing with her, I've learned that I can't pull a girl in half-heartedly to dance. For some reason, I've been doing it half-heartedly but doing it with intent and a bit more forcefully works, however, if she's not about it shes not about it.
We break things off because shes also there with her coworkers and we were getting pretty hot with the grinding. So I grab another drink and I'm talking to my coworkers and I look over and I and this tall hot chick lock eyes and I extend my arm, she smiles and looks down and then grabs my hand and we begin to dance. I'm so just attracted to this girl it is crazy. We dance for a while and she mentions she needs to go to the bathroom but continues to dance, I tell her to go to the bathroom and I try to grab her number. She says "What don't believe I'll come back?". Which wasn't my thought at all. I just wanted her number. I look at her skeptically and say "Oh no I know you'll come back."
I go back and dance with my coworkers who are upset I didn't get her number but I had a feeling I would get her number. I continue dancing and after some time she comes back in and some other tall black dude scoops her up. He buys her a drink so I figure she's gonna dance with him a bit I just need a moment to get her. So I decided to just dance with another girl, this time an incredibly short girl who moves well. Me and the short girl dance for a while and I keep my eye on the tall girl but I eventually forget about her and just enjoy dancing with the short girl. She teaches me how to salsa and we Salsa while the other black dude is failing. He gets her number and I was talking to the short girl about getting the tall girl since the short girl eventually tells me she has a bf but loved dancing. She wants to help break them up but I know my chance will come.
Eventually, she walks away from him and I don't remember how I ended up next to her but she asks me for the last dance and she takes me to the other side of the dance floor where things turn up. We dance and I'm going for the makeout because I want to kiss her and the entire time she's making this face like she's unsure and would be doing it basically in front of that other black dude whose kiss she rejected. I make a face back like I get it but this is awkward now and eventually, we start making out and she was a great kisser, we pull apart and I ask her if she's free and if she's single, she says yes. However, I dropped the ball here because my clothes and ID for work were still at my coworkers' place that spending the night out wasn't an option for me. I ask if she's free Monday to come over and she obliges and says she'll come over and before she leaves she tells me not to "Leave with other hoes" my coworkers were texting me as I was giving her my phone to put her number in so she was skeptical of me being a player, but I was just honest that it was my coworkers.
Either way over text she has been scarce and not responsive as much as I want to keep her on, I'll move on. I invited her over since today is Monday and I've gotten no response, oh well. On to the next one!
I think I did well the only thing I did not do was invite myself back to her place, I know why I didn't do it and why I didn't want to do it and i think that is what cost me the lay, I thought I'd still be able to get her to come over today but it looks like the emotions have either cooled off or she already got laid. oh well.
We break things off because shes also there with her coworkers and we were getting pretty hot with the grinding. So I grab another drink and I'm talking to my coworkers and I look over and I and this tall hot chick lock eyes and I extend my arm, she smiles and looks down and then grabs my hand and we begin to dance. I'm so just attracted to this girl it is crazy. We dance for a while and she mentions she needs to go to the bathroom but continues to dance, I tell her to go to the bathroom and I try to grab her number. She says "What don't believe I'll come back?". Which wasn't my thought at all. I just wanted her number. I look at her skeptically and say "Oh no I know you'll come back."
I go back and dance with my coworkers who are upset I didn't get her number but I had a feeling I would get her number. I continue dancing and after some time she comes back in and some other tall black dude scoops her up. He buys her a drink so I figure she's gonna dance with him a bit I just need a moment to get her. So I decided to just dance with another girl, this time an incredibly short girl who moves well. Me and the short girl dance for a while and I keep my eye on the tall girl but I eventually forget about her and just enjoy dancing with the short girl. She teaches me how to salsa and we Salsa while the other black dude is failing. He gets her number and I was talking to the short girl about getting the tall girl since the short girl eventually tells me she has a bf but loved dancing. She wants to help break them up but I know my chance will come.
Eventually, she walks away from him and I don't remember how I ended up next to her but she asks me for the last dance and she takes me to the other side of the dance floor where things turn up. We dance and I'm going for the makeout because I want to kiss her and the entire time she's making this face like she's unsure and would be doing it basically in front of that other black dude whose kiss she rejected. I make a face back like I get it but this is awkward now and eventually, we start making out and she was a great kisser, we pull apart and I ask her if she's free and if she's single, she says yes. However, I dropped the ball here because my clothes and ID for work were still at my coworkers' place that spending the night out wasn't an option for me. I ask if she's free Monday to come over and she obliges and says she'll come over and before she leaves she tells me not to "Leave with other hoes" my coworkers were texting me as I was giving her my phone to put her number in so she was skeptical of me being a player, but I was just honest that it was my coworkers.
Either way over text she has been scarce and not responsive as much as I want to keep her on, I'll move on. I invited her over since today is Monday and I've gotten no response, oh well. On to the next one!
I think I did well the only thing I did not do was invite myself back to her place, I know why I didn't do it and why I didn't want to do it and i think that is what cost me the lay, I thought I'd still be able to get her to come over today but it looks like the emotions have either cooled off or she already got laid. oh well.
