So following the advice of the User "Gentle_Phrases" i catch the bus to the beach to approach women and work on my game. the first approach on the bus didn't go well (lol it never does), the second women taught me a lot about positive vibe and life, spirituality overall Really changed my perspective and opened my eyes to a lot of things (Mind blowing conversation but she was 50 tho so yeah) i felt more confident and happy after talking to her.
When we get close to the destination i see this brunette that i found attractive but she was a seat or two ahead of me. So we get off the bus she was ahead of me and after that pep talk with the second woman i realized that i would not catch up to her if i didn't say anything and that i would miss out on a great opportunity i figured that it was worth a shot. So i said excuse me and she turned around and stopped. She was maybe Russian or Ukrainian judging by her accent. i asked her if she was walking the boardwalk and she didn't quite understand i asked if she didn't speak english that well this kinda confused her and she said that her english wasn't good? i clear this up and tells me that she was looking for a friend, so i ask her "where her friend was at" so that maybe i could help find her and meet two woman and hang out with them. She starts saying thank you so much but she would rather meet her by herself (without me) i let her walk away without pushing a little bit more. She wasn't rude with the rejection . i should of just told her from the gate that i thought she was cute and tried for a number or at least asking "are you sure?" joking and teasing her a bit. What do i need to work on and how can i improve with this, especially with spitting game to Foreign woman that don't really know a lot of english? i feel like i'm stuck on this level of interactions with women i could of talked all day with the second women, but with most women i cant even make it that far into a conversation with them. it starts good but then i get written off quick. Am i trying to establish too much too soon? Or build rapport when i don't really need to? Please help
When we get close to the destination i see this brunette that i found attractive but she was a seat or two ahead of me. So we get off the bus she was ahead of me and after that pep talk with the second woman i realized that i would not catch up to her if i didn't say anything and that i would miss out on a great opportunity i figured that it was worth a shot. So i said excuse me and she turned around and stopped. She was maybe Russian or Ukrainian judging by her accent. i asked her if she was walking the boardwalk and she didn't quite understand i asked if she didn't speak english that well this kinda confused her and she said that her english wasn't good? i clear this up and tells me that she was looking for a friend, so i ask her "where her friend was at" so that maybe i could help find her and meet two woman and hang out with them. She starts saying thank you so much but she would rather meet her by herself (without me) i let her walk away without pushing a little bit more. She wasn't rude with the rejection . i should of just told her from the gate that i thought she was cute and tried for a number or at least asking "are you sure?" joking and teasing her a bit. What do i need to work on and how can i improve with this, especially with spitting game to Foreign woman that don't really know a lot of english? i feel like i'm stuck on this level of interactions with women i could of talked all day with the second women, but with most women i cant even make it that far into a conversation with them. it starts good but then i get written off quick. Am i trying to establish too much too soon? Or build rapport when i don't really need to? Please help
