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Cold Approaching

Telomere

Space Monkey
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Anyone have any links to articles or tips on cold Approaching? I've read a couple on the site, but Ive still really struggled. I just have a really hard time turning a casual encounter into a full conversation when I'm running day game. Do you guys plan out where youre going to take the Convo in advanced, or do you normally just run on the fly?

Second thing I could really use some advice on, how do you guys cold approach in bars? I seriously have 0 single guy friends to run game with (moved to a new city, still making new friends). Do you guys have any strategies you can use at a bar alone? I worry that being at a bar alone will set off red flags in their mind. I also recently turned 21, so I'm not very familiar with the bar scene.

Any advice, tips, links would be much appreciated and thanks!
 

PrettyDecent

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Telomere,

Best place to start is Chase's e-book. How to make girls chase. It'll tell you the fundamentals of approaching.

No one really cares if you're at a bar by yourself. Everybody is thinking about themselves. Once you're near a person, make eye contact. Those are the two essential ingredients for starting a conversation.

Nick
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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