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Never having the ability to fully relate with someone and.coming.off.to mysterious has been a problem for.me. people cannot.relate to.me as much add I want then too. Cod reading works in many ways, including yourself.
I started reading a book on cold reads, basically a "psychic" wrote it. Basically giving away hours secrets to his readings was could reading at its best and being able to recover from bad reads.
While talking to woman in my five years of being in the pua, ive always had.problems with trying to.come.off mysterious but not so mysterious that I was told I was secretive, or boring. I'd cross into one or the other in my seduction and it was driving me crazy.
Her"so what do you do?"
Me"im a stripper,
"
Her"hahaha, no seriously?"
Me"seriously, I am a stripper are you looking for a private dance already? So what do you do?"
Her"I do xyz."
Me"oh, blah blah blah how did you get into that, did you ever dream of something bigger than that?"
Her"why are you so secretive? What are you hiding?"
Me"nothing, I do xyz"
Her"oh well nice meeting you"
Or something asking these lines. So I started cold reading on myself. Sort of so people could relate better. It blew my mind for ever how certain people were getting so many hours online and I couldn't get any, then it clicked.
"I'm the type of guy, who, likes to get crazy and become very adventurous also while kicking back on the beach with sandals on in the sun. A guy who can dress up, but also dress down."
Notice a pattern? These are specifically from a guys profile who, was giving out dating advice. Not until I started reading about cold reads did I pick it up and he wasn't explaining it. I would part his profile, get his but when I posted my own nothing. These specifically are called rainbow read in the psychic world. They include everything. Including the complete opposite of each other and almost everyone can relate to them, just like chases article on horoscopes.
Her"what do you do for fun?"
Me"well, I like to do adventurous things, but also just be able to kick back and relax, you know what im talking about?"
Her"yea I totally do, like what kind of things?"
Me"well you know just from outdoors things, to kicking it at home hanging out with someone you care about! How about you, like snowboard, watch movies what do you mean ?"
Her"oh, I do love top snowboard or is like to learn."
Me"I heard it's hard sounds like you have done a lot of research into it? What have you learned I really dont know anything about getting started"
Her"oh yea, just never got the courage to go"
Here, I haven't given her anything but have changed and added things from cooks reading on myself, while doing what chase says by keeping the subject on her and you learn a whole lot about what she is into, by giving her a list of things by cold reading things she might be into too. Really got to pay attention to say the stereotypes sometimes like the way she dresses, things she wears words she says. You can get a lot of cold reads or of people, while also using it on yourself, to give out little information so she has nothing really top judge you on whole also giving the illusion that you and her are alike.
I started reading a book on cold reads, basically a "psychic" wrote it. Basically giving away hours secrets to his readings was could reading at its best and being able to recover from bad reads.
While talking to woman in my five years of being in the pua, ive always had.problems with trying to.come.off mysterious but not so mysterious that I was told I was secretive, or boring. I'd cross into one or the other in my seduction and it was driving me crazy.
Her"so what do you do?"
Me"im a stripper,
"Her"hahaha, no seriously?"
Me"seriously, I am a stripper are you looking for a private dance already? So what do you do?"
Her"I do xyz."
Me"oh, blah blah blah how did you get into that, did you ever dream of something bigger than that?"
Her"why are you so secretive? What are you hiding?"
Me"nothing, I do xyz"
Her"oh well nice meeting you"
Or something asking these lines. So I started cold reading on myself. Sort of so people could relate better. It blew my mind for ever how certain people were getting so many hours online and I couldn't get any, then it clicked.
"I'm the type of guy, who, likes to get crazy and become very adventurous also while kicking back on the beach with sandals on in the sun. A guy who can dress up, but also dress down."
Notice a pattern? These are specifically from a guys profile who, was giving out dating advice. Not until I started reading about cold reads did I pick it up and he wasn't explaining it. I would part his profile, get his but when I posted my own nothing. These specifically are called rainbow read in the psychic world. They include everything. Including the complete opposite of each other and almost everyone can relate to them, just like chases article on horoscopes.
Her"what do you do for fun?"
Me"well, I like to do adventurous things, but also just be able to kick back and relax, you know what im talking about?"
Her"yea I totally do, like what kind of things?"
Me"well you know just from outdoors things, to kicking it at home hanging out with someone you care about! How about you, like snowboard, watch movies what do you mean ?"
Her"oh, I do love top snowboard or is like to learn."
Me"I heard it's hard sounds like you have done a lot of research into it? What have you learned I really dont know anything about getting started"
Her"oh yea, just never got the courage to go"
Here, I haven't given her anything but have changed and added things from cooks reading on myself, while doing what chase says by keeping the subject on her and you learn a whole lot about what she is into, by giving her a list of things by cold reading things she might be into too. Really got to pay attention to say the stereotypes sometimes like the way she dresses, things she wears words she says. You can get a lot of cold reads or of people, while also using it on yourself, to give out little information so she has nothing really top judge you on whole also giving the illusion that you and her are alike.
