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Background: Saturday night. Me and a few friends go out to the bars to get some drinks and have fun.
Beginning of the night we pregame and have a beer or two before going out. My roommates Girlfriend broke up with him that morning, so he had some friends come over to go out with. I greet these new people and make new friends.
First bar we go to its pretty empty. some people get drinks and we all are chilling and chatting. Not a lot of girls to talk to so i just talk to my roommates friends.
It's a Saturday night, so all the bars are getting filled up.
We go to another bar that has a club upstairs with a DJ playing.
We enter the club part of the bar and talk and dance.
I see a girl looking at me. I make eye contact with her and she looks back at me. I go up to her and open. "Hey, how are you doing tonight?" she responds very friendly and we have a short conversation. I ask her to dance and she starts to grind on me. We are having a blast dancing. I turn her around and go for the kiss. We make out for a bit before i pull away. I suggest we go get some fresh air at a part of the bar that's outside. She agrees and we step outside. We have good conversation, and i begin to deep dive her. She mentions we need to go back upstairs and check on her friends. I lead her upstairs and we look for her friends. She finds them and we talk to them for a little. I suggest we go dance more and she agrees. We go back to the dance floor and we make out some more. She stops me and tells me that she wont go home with me. I brush it off like it has no effect on me. We dance more. I isolate her to the side of the bar and we make out more. She stops me again and tells me firmly that she wont go back with me. I say its alright, I don't care. I get her number before telling her that i am going to find my friends. I disappear to find my friends and i never see her again. She doesn't respond after i text her the next day. This girl wasn't very attractive so i didnt want to put in to much effort.
I came on too strong here i suppose, but she was very clear she wouldn't come back with me.
Girl 2/the girl i take back. I find my roommates and they are on the dance floor, which is overcrowded/full at this point. I dance and chill with my friends a bit. I see a cute blonde girl dancing, i try to make eye contact but she doesn't look my way. I decide to go talk to her anyway, i say "How are you doing tonight?" and she responds with an enthusiastic "Hello, I'm good!" Right after she starts dancing on me without me asking. I go along with it. About a minute later she turns around and starts making out with me. I kiss her back, but i also stop her and tell her "Not so fast" with a devious grin. She laughs and goes back to dancing with me. We talk very little, as it its very loud and crowded. We dance for a while and she leans back to make out again. We continue kissing and dancing for a while. I suggest we go get some fresh air outside, as it is getting hot and sweaty inside with all the people dancing, and she agrees and suggest we get a drink too. I lead her downstairs, holding her hand the entire time, and we step outside. We talk for a around 15-20 minutes while outside and i really get to know her while she is feeling very comfortable around me. The vibe between us is great and i can feel it. She needs to go back to check on her friends after we share a drink (i pay for both our drinks). We connect on a mutual friend, the girl i took to lunch a week earlier. Flirting is easy and she responds very well. We go back to the dance floor to find her friends. We find her friends, which took a while to find, and i introduce myself and i talk to them for a little. she says she wants to take her friend back, and i suggest i walk them both back. She agrees and we wait for her friend. Her friend says she staying a while longer and that we dont need to walk her back. I suggest to my girl, let's go back to my place and share a bottle of wine. She agrees and tells her friends she's going back with me. we walk back, as it is a nice night and we are hot and sweaty from the club. We talk a lot on the walk back and we have a good time. we get back to my dorm and my roommates are still out so we just go straight to my room. we begin making out and the clothes are falling off. She stops to use the bathroom and i go grab a condom. she gets back and we start making out and escalating. It's a very smooth escalation and starts sucking my dick in little time. Shes ask if i have a condom. I put one on and get to it. The sex is good, I last around 15 minutes or so. We try to go to sleep but it's not that late and neither of us are tired. I get my laptop and we watch some youtube. We watch youtube and talk for an hour or so until we go to bed. We wake up early and she leaves right after waking up. I tell her that we have to do this again and she agrees. Later the next day i send her a text: "We had a lot of fun last night. we should do it again soon." she responds saying "yea we should."
The next weekend, saturday night, she sends me a text: "You out?" sent at 1:30 at night. It was obviously a booty call, but i was out of town. I text her the day after saying: "sorry i was out at a party last night, we should hangout later this week tho." she says "Yea" and that's it. I think ill text her later and schedule a "Hangout" time.
So this is a solid cold approach that led to a LR. I hope to turn this into a FWB, which i feel is set up right.
Feedback?
Beginning of the night we pregame and have a beer or two before going out. My roommates Girlfriend broke up with him that morning, so he had some friends come over to go out with. I greet these new people and make new friends.
First bar we go to its pretty empty. some people get drinks and we all are chilling and chatting. Not a lot of girls to talk to so i just talk to my roommates friends.
It's a Saturday night, so all the bars are getting filled up.
We go to another bar that has a club upstairs with a DJ playing.
We enter the club part of the bar and talk and dance.
I see a girl looking at me. I make eye contact with her and she looks back at me. I go up to her and open. "Hey, how are you doing tonight?" she responds very friendly and we have a short conversation. I ask her to dance and she starts to grind on me. We are having a blast dancing. I turn her around and go for the kiss. We make out for a bit before i pull away. I suggest we go get some fresh air at a part of the bar that's outside. She agrees and we step outside. We have good conversation, and i begin to deep dive her. She mentions we need to go back upstairs and check on her friends. I lead her upstairs and we look for her friends. She finds them and we talk to them for a little. I suggest we go dance more and she agrees. We go back to the dance floor and we make out some more. She stops me and tells me that she wont go home with me. I brush it off like it has no effect on me. We dance more. I isolate her to the side of the bar and we make out more. She stops me again and tells me firmly that she wont go back with me. I say its alright, I don't care. I get her number before telling her that i am going to find my friends. I disappear to find my friends and i never see her again. She doesn't respond after i text her the next day. This girl wasn't very attractive so i didnt want to put in to much effort.
I came on too strong here i suppose, but she was very clear she wouldn't come back with me.
Girl 2/the girl i take back. I find my roommates and they are on the dance floor, which is overcrowded/full at this point. I dance and chill with my friends a bit. I see a cute blonde girl dancing, i try to make eye contact but she doesn't look my way. I decide to go talk to her anyway, i say "How are you doing tonight?" and she responds with an enthusiastic "Hello, I'm good!" Right after she starts dancing on me without me asking. I go along with it. About a minute later she turns around and starts making out with me. I kiss her back, but i also stop her and tell her "Not so fast" with a devious grin. She laughs and goes back to dancing with me. We talk very little, as it its very loud and crowded. We dance for a while and she leans back to make out again. We continue kissing and dancing for a while. I suggest we go get some fresh air outside, as it is getting hot and sweaty inside with all the people dancing, and she agrees and suggest we get a drink too. I lead her downstairs, holding her hand the entire time, and we step outside. We talk for a around 15-20 minutes while outside and i really get to know her while she is feeling very comfortable around me. The vibe between us is great and i can feel it. She needs to go back to check on her friends after we share a drink (i pay for both our drinks). We connect on a mutual friend, the girl i took to lunch a week earlier. Flirting is easy and she responds very well. We go back to the dance floor to find her friends. We find her friends, which took a while to find, and i introduce myself and i talk to them for a little. she says she wants to take her friend back, and i suggest i walk them both back. She agrees and we wait for her friend. Her friend says she staying a while longer and that we dont need to walk her back. I suggest to my girl, let's go back to my place and share a bottle of wine. She agrees and tells her friends she's going back with me. we walk back, as it is a nice night and we are hot and sweaty from the club. We talk a lot on the walk back and we have a good time. we get back to my dorm and my roommates are still out so we just go straight to my room. we begin making out and the clothes are falling off. She stops to use the bathroom and i go grab a condom. she gets back and we start making out and escalating. It's a very smooth escalation and starts sucking my dick in little time. Shes ask if i have a condom. I put one on and get to it. The sex is good, I last around 15 minutes or so. We try to go to sleep but it's not that late and neither of us are tired. I get my laptop and we watch some youtube. We watch youtube and talk for an hour or so until we go to bed. We wake up early and she leaves right after waking up. I tell her that we have to do this again and she agrees. Later the next day i send her a text: "We had a lot of fun last night. we should do it again soon." she responds saying "yea we should."
The next weekend, saturday night, she sends me a text: "You out?" sent at 1:30 at night. It was obviously a booty call, but i was out of town. I text her the day after saying: "sorry i was out at a party last night, we should hangout later this week tho." she says "Yea" and that's it. I think ill text her later and schedule a "Hangout" time.
So this is a solid cold approach that led to a LR. I hope to turn this into a FWB, which i feel is set up right.
Feedback?
