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The Tool here, I have seen alot of people ask about college game on chases site and other PUA forums, but all I have seen on how to get college girls is to essentially just sit by them in class, talk about things and go from there. I have not seen much if at all on how to cold approach college girls, get college girls to approach you, or to do what I call, Kill two birds with one stone. (study and pick up girls at the same time- YES THIS CAN BE DONE!!!) I have been fieldtesting these techniqes and tweaking them ever since I found chases site, So i have been field testing for about 7 months now, and I have come up with some techniques that are essentially guarenteed to work, some take more time and patience than others. So without further adoo here is my post on COLLEGE GAME.

College game 1. THE COLD APPROACH. With cold approach in college you have to be careful, if you are not perfect in your execution or use a cheesy pickup line and she does not take it well, there is a possibility said creepyness will be spread around the campus (especially if your well known like a football star for instance) so you must be perfect.

One of my favorite cold approaches that I first tried out I like to call (The survey) essentially you walk around campus with a notebook, and say you are taking a survey for a class. I would approach a girl and say "hey you should help me with a survey" to which most say sure. I mean who can resist talking to a handsome man. My survey was always "do you think more people should have home organic gardens? if yes or no why?" I would do this question because it appears as it is a question a class would generally ask for you to survey. Upon giving their answere I would say "thanks for the insight" then I would pause and say "hey arnt you in my so and so class" even though I knew they were not to which they would respond, if they said I dont think so, Id say "are you sure? I would definately remember someone like you" to which most girls would laugh, I would then try to get them moving with me and say "hey id like to talk to you some more you should come sit over here with me" and we would go (it helps to be attractive and confident to get them moving with you so early in the interaction) then I would deep dive asking questions like "so what do you do for fun?" (relate to the fun things) I would also ask questions like "do you travel? if not where would you like to go?") After about 5 minutes of convo I usually do one of two things, if it is close to lunch I say "hey whens your next class?" and if there was at least 3 hours inbetween I would say "you should come with me to get some lunch". If the girl said she had very little time I would say "well hey your a cool girl, and I would like to talk to you somemore, preferibly over coffee sometime. whats your cell number?" to which most if not all oblidge and once I have the digits I go on my merry way.

Now on how to get college girls to approach you I have 2 ways one of them is actually kind of humourous so ill start with that one. I notice around my campus sometimes there arw these booths with information on them like "why tobacco is bad" and "the dangers of premarital sex" or "practicing safe sex" to which there are pamphlets and other tidbits of information. One day I noticed these and saw that there was never anyone standing by them or giving out information they were just there for students to take a look at or take a pamplet. So one day I decided to stand by one and pretend I was helping out with the booth. Low and behold I would have attractive girls (well girls of all kinds) approaching me and asking me about the topic to which I would throw out a few humourous remarks and talk a bit, when I found a girl I liked and wanted to keep talking to I say "So did you come up to this booth for information on safe sex or did you come over here to flirt with the guy standing by it?" most would say I am not. I would say "you totally are and now your lying...jeeze" most girls would say yea your right haha. I then would procede to deep dive, and either move her, get the digits, or take to lunch.

The second way I get college girls to approach me TAKES A BIT OF TIME AND EFFORT! I have only had this work 3 times in a 6 month period. What I do if I want to get some studying done, I go to the library or some place that has a giant area where people can sit. (this is not my golden kill two birds with one stone techniqe but its good) I place myself far away from the big groups preferably in the back of the library looking onward at people. now each of these 3 times a group of girls, or one or two of them would sit facing me but far off in the distance near the main groups. At some point they would begin looking at me whispering to themselves and pointing. probibly after 15 or 20 mins of them doing so, one brave soul will walk all the way over to me and ask why I am over in the back all by myself. To which I would have a semi sly remark like "getting some studying done, and trying not to flirt too much" the girls would then laugh and 2 of them said something like "no flirting..too bad.." I would then procede to say you should sit by me and talk for it bit as I would pat the spot next to me. deep dive and badabing.

This next one is the GOLDEN BOY!! MY FAVORITE!! what I call the "Kill two birds with one stone" This is the real knockout Looking through my phone I can say I have forsure gotton at least 15 numbers using this technique (not counting girls I instant dated or otherwise) I have met quite a bit of women over 4 month span with this, its incredable!!

KILL TWO BIRDS WITH ONE STONE!!! What I do is I find a lounge, a place with a lot of comfortable chairs or couches, I sit somewhere in the middle of all of it, somewhere where a lot of chairs/couches are forward facing me, I take a seat and begin to study. Somewhere along the line an attractive girl (well hopefully) will position herself in one of those spaces in front of you, you should notice somewhere along the line a bunch of IOI's like her playing with her hair, pointing her feet towards you, putting on lip gloss, big key one is when you glance up and look at her she quickly looks away, and constantly does this. After noticing this a few times I will look up at the girl and say confidently "hey! do we know eachother? or are you looking at me because your curious to meet me?" most are quite surprised at this statement and I have had many simply say what highschool they went to, to which ill say thats cool I went to such and such, I then quickly try to move them so I will say "hey you should come sit by me and talk for a bit" to which most comply. I then begin to deep dive, get their number, pretty much the same tactic as stated before.

So here in this long post is the process of my college game, It is ever growing, so if you have comments, questions, or concerns feel free to ask.

CHEERS

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Re: College Game

This is interesting. Very good post Tool. I am relatively new to game, so I have not tried these techniques at all. I will put these in good use. Thanks a lot for the bold suggestions.
 

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Yea no problem Rationalis, I hope you see great success when you try these as I have, Thanks for commenting, I love getting feedback
 

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Hey The Tool,

Very good informative posts, I say it's very simple approaching college girls outside of class. Residence Halls, organization meetings, dining halls, talent shows, coffee shops, lobbies, the library, and etc... Girls are everywhere in college and they're there in abundance. To approach them, just pay them a compliments and give your name. Example, "That's a really nice jacket *pause* I'm Dave, and shake her hand."

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Hey Dave thanks for the input, Indeed it is very simple to just approach girls and give a complament, but I find it gives quite a bit of power to the girl also if I were to do this often I would be known as that (creepy complament guy). As simple as it is I like to just sit back relax and have the girls come to me especially via my "kill two birds with one stone technique" plus when I notice IOI's I am more so guarenteed interest than just walking up to her, plus its not bad that I am getting homework/studying done in the process ;)

Thanks for the input, I hope more of you put input as well, at the posting of this comment there are 44 views, yet 2 comments, I would appreciate more feedback infact I encourage it, so all who read, please contribute or complament the post. (an ego boost is always good)

Cheers

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Re: College Game

Warning: some constructive criticism on the way.

With the cold approach technique that you mention, you say that you start out by saying you have a survey for the girl. Sure, this is a decent conversational technique for hooking, but it isn't really all that good for cold approaching. I honestly don't enjoy indirect cold approaching, as it seems kind of weak to me.. The girl is most likely thinking, "This guy is obviously interested in me, but he keeps trying to hide it. Why does he want to do this? Is he afraid to show his interest, or does he just want to be friends?" The hook point isn't exactly weak, as it could transition into something better, but staying on neutral topics that don't get to know the girl, nor directly state interest in the girl just seem like the guy is wasting her time. You are on point with moving her and getting her compliance, but then again you already had it if she hooked on the topic of speaking. But you are again taking her to more of an interview type setting as it seems, instead of really getting to know her. I've been guilty of this at times, but those topics are pretty uninteresting ones that she'll hear by just about every guy that gets into a conversation with her.

Something more powerful than saying a girl should go and get lunch with you is to tell them, I'm going to lunch, and you're welcome to come along if you want to. Saying that they should go to lunch with them is a lot like trying to force your frame that you want them to go with you, instead of leading her to lunch. Telling them they are welcome to come along is great for allowing them to truly decide, since if they truly do like you (which is the whole point of it) they will either come along or try to come up with an excuse to which you can persist a little if it seems like she genuinely liked you but is trying to make excuses.

Quick note on the number close: it is better to get her number at a high point in the interaction, rather than getting it at the end. Getting it at her peak interest will come along smoothly and make more sense than you leaving her as the guy who she gave her number to just so she could get away from the conversation.

For the part on getting girls to approach you, that is pretty damn creative and funny. My technique of getting girls to approach me is to do indirect approach through a light social circle, such as you just meet the girl through a group gathering or a loose tie with some new friends, but there are a lot of ways to do indirect. Often times women simply won't approach and strike up conversations with men they like, because they want him to make a move; instead, they'll just try and get him to notice her so that he'll start the conversation, which isn't a bad thing because she is still chasing you, but is trying to hide it so society doesn't know that she is chasing after you and so that it doesn't seem blatantly obvious that she likes you.

"So did you come up to this booth for information on safe sex or did you come over here to flirt with the guy standing by it?" most would say I am not. I would say "you totally are and now your lying...jeeze" most girls would say yea your right haha.
This isn't that bad of an attempt at a chase frame, but I don't like setting a frame in a question like this. Asking it in this fashion assumes that you don't know if they just wanted to flirt with you, and you need some sort of proof. I actually don't even think a chase frame is really needed in this situation, especially if you aren't throwing out anything that shows interest on your part until later. If she seems to think she has control over you, saying something along the lines of, "This was a nice excuse for you to talk a cute guy, I don't blame you for taking it." seems to be more fitting.. But I just don't see the means for using this when you really don't need to.

you should notice somewhere along the line a bunch of IOI's like her playing with her hair, pointing her feet towards you, putting on lip gloss, big key one is when you glance up and look at her she quickly looks away, and constantly does this.

I'm not really sure that these are IOI's.. Lots of girls play with hair, put on lip gloss, and look away when confronted with uncomfortable eye contact. Eyes often wonder around, and she might thinking, "Why does this dude keep staring at me?" IOI's aren't really used before getting in a conversation with her, and they are very hard to detect. I prefer to not look around for IOI's as much as I look for moving towards my ultimate goal of sleeping with an attractive girl if I so choose.

Wrapping this long reflection up, it seems you got a lot of phone numbers, but have you actually slept with or gone on a date with any of these girls? Instant dates with them like you explain as getting her to go to lunch with you could be useful, but are you doing anything after these instant dates besides deep diving and getting their numbers? I can see how these techniques are useful for getting numbers, but I don't really see how this is useful for ultimately getting her to sleep with you.
 

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AH THANKS RTB! I love it when I get some constructive critisism, thanks for taking the time to go over things and deconstruct my process and point out ways to improve it, much appreciated. But yes, as to your point on the numbers, I'll admit I do get alot of numbers that do not end in sex, for in all honesty out of all those numbers I got, I can only say that 2 of them led to the desired outcome of sex and I have only had 6 dates out of all of them and I know I can get much better . Thanks again for the tips.

P.S I'll definately be reading your tips over and over again for a week or two untill it sticks, great work.

Cheers

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Two Birds = Chilling

Hey Tool,

I was out today when I was talking to one of my friends, and he started cat calling to a girl who happened to be his friend. I was leaning on the wall arms crossed looking at other girls when she came by. The less I said as my buddy talked, the more she became more interested in me. I have a girlfriend so I didn't really care. However, I did screen her just for fun to see if we were a match. She was cool, not really my type kind of short. But as the interaction ended I could tell she wanted more.

Although our approaches were different, I can say that your Two Birds technique does work for all those curious. I have also tried this in the hot tub at my school too and gotten great results.

Just Dave
 

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Interesting, I shall definately take what you did while in that interaction with your buddy and that girl, appearing uninterested makes her interested. Nicely done. Thanks for confirming my "Two Birds" technique (will definately help with the skeptics and those afraid to try it out) its definately a way to get results without putting on those "try hard pants"

Hot tub at your school? awesome. I am curious as to the situation that is presented and the words you choose with the ladies perhaps you could lay some down for me, I have never tried game at the hot tub or pool at my campus. so a little insight as to what you do would be most appreciated.

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Tool,

Slightly off-topic here, but I live in an apartment complex with a hot tub close to the university I attended, and young college girls often come out on Friday or Saturday nights to chill. It can be a great environment to practice your "deep-diving" and "hard push" techniques since the setup is so conducive to hooking up. I highly suggest looking for a nearby complex with a hot tub if you happen to move off campus. The best part about it is that there are fresh, new female tenants every year! ;)

- Franco
 

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Hot Tub game

The Tool said:
Interesting, I shall definately take what you did while in that interaction with your buddy and that girl, appearing uninterested makes her interested. Nicely done. Thanks for confirming my "Two Birds" technique (will definately help with the skeptics and those afraid to try it out) its definately a way to get results without putting on those "try hard pants"

Hot tub at your school? awesome. I am curious as to the situation that is presented and the words you choose with the ladies perhaps you could lay some down for me, I have never tried game at the hot tub or pool at my campus. so a little insight as to what you do would be most appreciated.

The Tool

Hot Tub game is a very similar process to "Two Birds", depending on your physique and confidence girls will want to meet your instantly. When you climb in the hot tub, move slowly and ease your way into the hot tub. Take up as much space that is there, the idea is to look like you just got done with a killer workout. Girls will get loud and excited to get your attention like splashing water with there feet. Even if it doesn't touch move your head a little bit. They'll apologize and then you look and say "All good" what you say doesn't matter. From here you have her open to engage in a conversation. "What brought you out tonight?" "What year are you?" "Did you come alone" The last is key because you don't want to waste time on a dead lead.

Once you've been talking for awhile and you're ready to leave ask if she's hungry. If the answer is yes tell her to grab a bite with you, and if she's not but still interested grab her number when you dry off. Keep your phone by the hut tub but not in the hot tub. Because if you grab your phone from a locker you lose a lot of momentum and then more people may be in there and you come off looking like a try hard. Talking to girls in a hot tub is cool because also have the opportunity to move closer with being weird or creepy. There's bubbles and a lot of water splashing, give the "I can't hear you face" and she'll move closer to you. It a great way to practice your game while being relaxed. If you can talk to a hot girl half naked and you can talk to a hot girl fully clothed.
 

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Indeed Franco, thanks, yea there are plenty of those where I am, get an app with some buddies (and a hottub and party it up)

Great info Dave, thanks. I am going to go to a buddies appartment friday night near campus with tons of hot girls and try this out. cant wait to see how this unfolds ;) shootin for a LR
 

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Thanks for the feedback fox. Yea as of late ive completely dropped the "survey" tactic. it was something I did as a beginner and what I find to be one of the best ways a beginner get his foot in the door. Thanks for agreeing on my process's they do work ;) and as ive become more experienced im gradually doing moreso direct but I like the fun of being gamey you know, standing by those booths with the pamphets is just good fun :)
 

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This is pure genius. I'll definitely try the cold approach. It makes indirect approach slightly easier. As for the next approach, it will take awhile, and it depends on the girl's attraction to the guy and if the girl's confident enough to walk up the guy. The "Kill 2 Birds with 1 Stone" approach makes for the need of being able to talk in a not-so-quiet environment in the library for it to work. But all and all, these approaches are definitely worth trying.
 

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Thanks Gamecrasher, Glad you like them, As for the two birds try it at a quiet part of campus where there are alot of couches/ chairs or an area away from all the groups. you will notice suddenly a lone stranger will make a presence ;)
 

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Hey Tool,

I'm implementing the "Two Birds" technique right at this very moment doing field observations of a happening hookah bar right across from my residence hall. I'm great friends with the owners and the cashiers automatically can tell I have some kind of connection around this place. And when the cute cashiers and waitresses check me out, girls at tables check me out and suddenly want to know who the "cool" guy is. It's a pretty sweet observation and another adaption of the technique already established.

Dave
 

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Awesome Dave, Another excellent place to implament it, shall try it as well (I have a FR to post up on your suggestion about the hot tub, went out on friday and saturday last week, been to lazy to post it up should do it soon.) hope to hear how your obsorvations go at the hooka
 

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I liked your "Two bird's" technique very much! I am currently in first year engineering and am willing to do some field work with your method, cross your fingers!
 

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Re: College Game

by vitusd1 » Thu Dec 13, 2012 3:18 am

I liked your "Two bird's" technique very much
Thanks Vitusd1, Glad you liked what you read and are willing to implament it. Good luck my friend. extremely curious to know how it goes. So let me know.

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Hey Tool,

Really good stuff. I am definitely going to try the library setting. I've been going lately to do exactly what you call "kill 2 birds with 1 stone", but I have just been in an observing stage. I notice I get some glances from attractive females as I walk around trying to find a good spot, but never really knew what to do from there. I sometimes notice girls checking me out when I look up from my work, but theyre usually at a distance and I feel awkward going up to them and trying to open. I am back home for break now but def gonna bust out this technique to start off the new semester. I'll find a good spot and see if I can get some success with your techniques. ill let you knw.

thanks
 
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