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So let me get straight to the point. I'm going to tell you very briefly about my back story (literally just a small paragraph), then where I am right now, what I hope to achieve and then i'll get onto the field report.
My back story is simple. I have had issues socializing with people in the past which lead to me getting bullied for 4-5 years (age 8-13) which screwed me over mentally and got me depressed for a few years. But then at age 16, I decided that enough is enough and i worked my ass off, got rid of my depression and got back to normal. So now (18 years old, very young compared to others on this site) I socialize easily with men and I'm proud of that. However this forum isn't about general interactions with men; it's about women. The issue I have with women is that i've had so little experience with them (i went to two boy schools). But i said I will be brief so that's my back story.
Where I am right now is university. I'm 18, just started and very excited to get on with it. It's a great uni with the majority of students being girls. What I hope to achieve at first is just to get more comfortable around girls (in a sexual way, there is no place for being platonic here) as girls are initially very attracted to me (I don't want to sound like a dick but I am blessed with decent - good looks and have been working on fundamentals such as voice, body, fashion for some time). However unless I move incredibly fast (as in try to pull in the same night-- which is not easy to do for a beginner) girls eventually figure out that I do not have an abundance of women in my life and so my value and attractiveness decrease hugely (i think plummet is the right word). So if you're still reading this (thank you to those who are) here comes last night's field report.
Where Did I Go?
Student Night club
Who Did I go with?
Some new friends i've met at uni (all guys)
New girl(s) I met
Just one, also a fresher (first year student)
What Happened/the interaction
(this is my first official field report so bear with me, my memory is not great. And the text in brackets is what I thought of what happened the next day)
I notice her next and her friends next to my friend. She hasn't noticed me yet so I walk up to the new formed group and say hi to my friend.
This in a way pre opened her as she gets a good look of me. I then open her.
Me: Hey, how's your night going? (shit opener, I should have used a genuine interest one instead)
Her: Good, good. What about you?
The music is loud so I take this as an opportunity to touch her. I put my hand on her back and pull her close. She did not resist at all (I think that's good?).
Me: It's been great. (What a boring line, I could have started some repartee and said something intriguing like "i think its about to get a lot better" with a sexy smile.)
Me: So which building are you from?
Her: Blabla (we're all students living on campus so this is always a good way to get the ball rolling)
Me: Oh that's great me too, I'm [my name]
Her: I'm [her name]
Me: So what are you studying?
Her: Forensic biology
Me: Ah so you going to be some sort of sexy detective.
I accompany this line with a sexy smile and she laughs.
Her: what about you? what are you studying?
Me: Dentistry
Now at this point things go awry. Despite my not so strong opener and the fact that it took time to really connect and get going, I knew that she was attracted to me, because I took her hand to pull her close and she never let go of it. Her body had turned and was facing me entirely and she was smiling, plus there was a gut feeling too. But I didn't take any opportunity to move her, lets say somewhere quite, or a booth or a seat; anywhere. So the awkward tension began and I decided I missed my chance so I made up some shit excuse like "I have to see where my friends have gotten." and left.
Not the best start huh? We all start at the bottom. I would be really grateful for any feedback, advice and tips. And for anyone who read this all the way, thank you. I know this wasn't the best or most interesting report, but its my first one.
I will be writing another one tomorrow; lets hope that one is better.
My back story is simple. I have had issues socializing with people in the past which lead to me getting bullied for 4-5 years (age 8-13) which screwed me over mentally and got me depressed for a few years. But then at age 16, I decided that enough is enough and i worked my ass off, got rid of my depression and got back to normal. So now (18 years old, very young compared to others on this site) I socialize easily with men and I'm proud of that. However this forum isn't about general interactions with men; it's about women. The issue I have with women is that i've had so little experience with them (i went to two boy schools). But i said I will be brief so that's my back story.
Where I am right now is university. I'm 18, just started and very excited to get on with it. It's a great uni with the majority of students being girls. What I hope to achieve at first is just to get more comfortable around girls (in a sexual way, there is no place for being platonic here) as girls are initially very attracted to me (I don't want to sound like a dick but I am blessed with decent - good looks and have been working on fundamentals such as voice, body, fashion for some time). However unless I move incredibly fast (as in try to pull in the same night-- which is not easy to do for a beginner) girls eventually figure out that I do not have an abundance of women in my life and so my value and attractiveness decrease hugely (i think plummet is the right word). So if you're still reading this (thank you to those who are) here comes last night's field report.
Where Did I Go?
Student Night club
Who Did I go with?
Some new friends i've met at uni (all guys)
New girl(s) I met
Just one, also a fresher (first year student)
What Happened/the interaction
(this is my first official field report so bear with me, my memory is not great. And the text in brackets is what I thought of what happened the next day)
I notice her next and her friends next to my friend. She hasn't noticed me yet so I walk up to the new formed group and say hi to my friend.
This in a way pre opened her as she gets a good look of me. I then open her.
Me: Hey, how's your night going? (shit opener, I should have used a genuine interest one instead)
Her: Good, good. What about you?
The music is loud so I take this as an opportunity to touch her. I put my hand on her back and pull her close. She did not resist at all (I think that's good?).
Me: It's been great. (What a boring line, I could have started some repartee and said something intriguing like "i think its about to get a lot better" with a sexy smile.)
Me: So which building are you from?
Her: Blabla (we're all students living on campus so this is always a good way to get the ball rolling)
Me: Oh that's great me too, I'm [my name]
Her: I'm [her name]
Me: So what are you studying?
Her: Forensic biology
Me: Ah so you going to be some sort of sexy detective.
I accompany this line with a sexy smile and she laughs.
Her: what about you? what are you studying?
Me: Dentistry
Now at this point things go awry. Despite my not so strong opener and the fact that it took time to really connect and get going, I knew that she was attracted to me, because I took her hand to pull her close and she never let go of it. Her body had turned and was facing me entirely and she was smiling, plus there was a gut feeling too. But I didn't take any opportunity to move her, lets say somewhere quite, or a booth or a seat; anywhere. So the awkward tension began and I decided I missed my chance so I made up some shit excuse like "I have to see where my friends have gotten." and left.
Not the best start huh? We all start at the bottom. I would be really grateful for any feedback, advice and tips. And for anyone who read this all the way, thank you. I know this wasn't the best or most interesting report, but its my first one.
I will be writing another one tomorrow; lets hope that one is better.
