School has finally resumed about a week ago but I decided to resume on Tuesday of this week. This is a field report of how I spent Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday
[bold]Tuesday[/bold]
I don't have accommodation anywhere close to school so I have to come all the way from home. I take two buses to school and three back home. As I arrive school I call up my friend who had asked me some days ago when I'm resuming. I'll call him Suits (because he fucking loves the TV series - Suits and is a law student ). So I meet up with Suits in some place we call "love garden". It's beside my faculty and as usual there are a whole lot of people there. He starts complimenting me on my dressing and how fresh I'm looking (lol). I just decided that the first day I resumed would be to just relax and observe. And plus during the holiday, I planned how I'll be approaching five girls during weekdays as I go about my studies and during the weekend days triple of that and here I was feeling overwhelmed and nervous as fuck. My friend then tells me that I should introduce him to my female friends/course mates and I tell him I haven't seen any of them. After spending some time together I head for my class. Everyone is so happy to see me and they all compliment my necklace. I always wear a gold necklace but this time around I put a ring as a pendant and added another non-metallic black long neclace with an ivory pendant. All the girls are just flirty and while some ask me who have I married or I'm I looking for a wife, others ask me if the ring was for them. I give them all the same reply
Me: didn't I tell you I got married?
Girl: really? or just a quizzical look
Me: oh you didn't get the memo. It was a week ago and I got married to myself. Talk about self love.
When others ask or comment on the ring as a pendant I just reply "I had to put a ring on it"
After class and everything I head home. I basically didn't approach anyone. when I arrived my neighbourhood and saw NewGirl, She's from my report here: Field Report. Let me quote the part where I met here from the above FR
As reached my neighborhood I see a little girl in front of me and I hear someone calling out to her. As I look towards my not so far left I see NewGirl. I smile and wave to her while walking. She waves back with a quizzical look and gives me a fast and forced smile. Like she didn't know me. I didn't act fazed, I just smiled and walked off. I felt kinda retarded. Why do girls do that?! Another girl did the same thing on Thursday but I'll talk about that one later. What do you guys think. She didn't recognize me? (I doubt that), or she didn't expect me to wave and act like we are old friends? You experienced guys should have something to say about it. Have you had girls act like this to you?
Observations
1. I can't get rid of being nervous but that shouldn't stop me from approaching girls
2. Although I was really tired and all sweaty after coming from school, I should have not just walked away from NewGirl after waving at her. If I was sweaty I could have just wiped my face with my hanky. There and then I could have built some rapport and grab her number. Silly me! What do you guys think?
Wednesday
After alighting from my first bus to school, I head towards the second and lo and behold, there's this really hot girl sitting next to me. I observed her yesterday and even teased a friend of mine that she was staring at him. She just joined our class from a diploma program and she's the hottest I've seen amongst all the female diploma students that joined us. She's what you guys call a perfect 10. So I'm sitting beside her and I observed that she's reading a book by Chinua Achebe, one of our texts (we study English). I'm nervous so I just decide to relax, we still had a long way to go. She then drops the book on her laps and starts making use of her phone. After hesitating a bit, I use a situational opener. I'll call her PrettyFace
Me: what book are you reading? (I grab the book from her). Oh Achebe is a nice writer
PrettyFace: nods in acknowledgement
Me: Let me guess, you're studying English
PrettyFace: nods
Me: 200 level
PrettyFace: nods again (I give her a smile and go back to my former sitting position, facing front)
I wait for some seconds hesitating and trying to figure out what next to say when I remembered how I failed to re-engage NewGirl and I didn't even get to know her name. "Fool me twice, shame on me" goes the saying.
Me: what's your name
PrettyFace: mumbles something
Me: what? I put my ear closer to her
PrettyFace: mumbles again
Me: you said?
PrettyFace: PrettyFace
Me: oh PrettyFace (and she replies yea)
I didn't say anything again until we reached our destination. I alight first and she follows suit. immediately she starts walking really fast and I had to catch up with her.
Me: where are you headed
She: to my department
Me: Faculty of law... art I mean (I fucking fumbled with my words. I talk slow so I don't know if that makes it less bad)
She: yea I'm going to the faculty of art
Me: that's where I'm going too
As she says all of these she isn't giving me full attention and she keeps on walking fast. I walk beside her without saying a word as we head for the campus shuttle. She gets in first and I follow suit. In the shuttle again, silence. I didn't know what to say. As I give the driver my money he complains that he doesn't have change. I use this as an opportunity to say something to her
Me: shouldn't they be the ones to get change for us
She: yea (she gives me a look that shows she supports my statement)
Once we alight she starts walking fast again and I had to say something
Me: you walk really fast you need to slow down
She: yea I'm late for class (little did she
know that we were going for the same class). I try to deep dive her while walking and I ask her how it's like studying English. She says she doesn't really know as she did diploma. I said oh. I should have still persisted and made more conversation with her but I didn't. We keep on walking in silence as we reached the faculty. I now walk in front of her and she's right behind me. Before stepping into the art theater where we have our class, I look behind me at her and give her a quizzical look that says are you following me or you are going for the same class with me. I then step into class. After the class I couldn't get a hold of her. Later that day when I didn't have any class I decided to follow William Gupta's advice on walking so I could find girls to approach. I headed to some faculty where there are lots of people in groups. I couldn't find someone I could approach so I find an empty bench and sit there. There where two girls not too far from my left who seemed like they were waiting for someone. We'll call em Girl1 and Girl2. Girl1 isn't good looking at all while Girl2 is just OK. Through my peripheral vision I can see Girl2 pointing at my bench that they should sit there. They walk over and I adjust. Girl2 sits beside me. Wow! This was the second time that day a girl was positioned beside me. And remember NewGirl positioned herself close to me from my other FR.
Me: looks like you're both waiting for someone
Girl2: yes the person will soon be here
Me: what faculty are you from
Girl2: this faculty
Me: and you? (Referring to Girl1)
Girl1: xxxx
Me: What's your name
Girl2: I'm Girl2. What's yours
Me: Mystique
Me: What about you? (Referring to Girl1)
Girl1: Girl1
Me: OK
Before I could continue the conversation she receives a call from the person they're both waiting for. She stands up tells me goodbye. Pfft she disappeared.
Observations
1.I should have concentrated on Girl2 rather than going back and forth between both of them
2.I should have found a way to show personal interest on her maybe by giving her a direct compliment or something
3.I should have been conscious of the fact that she'd soon be leaving thereby speeding the process and doing a number close
4. Although she wasn't hooked, I should have still grabbed her number and see how it goes. No?
So what do you guys think?
I keep on walking and as I walk past I observe that to my right there's a girl all on her own listening to music with her ear piece. I walk back and sit beside her and as I start talking I realise she might not hear me so I say
Me: hey can you hear me?
(She takes off the earpiece) I saw you from afar and I hesitated at first but I just had to tell you you look really cute as you were listening to music with your earpiece on (she gives me a slight puzzled look and didn't say a word). Is this your faculty? (She nods. God damn it! Isn't she going to say something). I stood, said bye and walked off.
Observation
I should have just kept on talking. She seemed like a really shy girl and with time she might have opened up.
Thursday
I missed some classes so while we were all in class waiting for the lecturer I collected a female friend's note to copy. As I'm writing a pretty girl just entering the class walks to me. We'll call her ThickAss coz she's got an amazing ass
ThickAss: I anyone sitting there (at my left where she's standing there's a free sit, towards my right no one is sitting there but there are books indicating some of the sits are taken. She was referring to those sits)
Me: yea (she looks around trying to find another sit)
Me: why not sit here (I point at the free sit at my left)
ThickAss: we're two (she wants to keep a sit for a friend of hers too) I shift the books beside and move a sit by my right.
Me: come sit here (she now realises that I made room for her)
ThickAss: thank you. Thanks a lot (she gave me that face like I just saved her life)
Me: you're welcome
She sits beside me while I continue writing, I needed that note completed and it wouldn't make sense to write and talk to her. Soon a guy sits beside her towards the left. It's the guy she was keeping a sit for. They start talking and they share an earpiece together listening to music from the guys phone. It's obvious they're just friends. As I'm writing a course mate of mine walks to me leaning over at my right while ThickAss is at my left. I'd like to give you guys a bit info on my relationship with her. We'll call her CuteSexy coz she's got cute and sexy facial expressions and overall even though she's a 7, she's really sexually appealing. We have a touchy-feely relationship we flirt with each other a lot and there's always sexual tension between us. She has a boyfriend too who I happen to have met by coincidence without her knowledge and he doesn't know his gf is my course mate. I'm always flirting with every cute girl in my class. Quite touchy-feely
CuteSexy: I have been looking at you and you seem really serious this semester (she gives me a cute look. I remember Chase said he learnt some facial expressions from a particular girl in college. Each time I see CuteSexy I remember Chase story)
Me: I'm just trying to complete a not I missed (I say this smiling. I was gonna use as much pre selection as I can use to get ThickAss)
CuteSexy: Is that so
Me: Did you walk all the way here to tell me that or rather isn't it coz you miss me
CuteSexy: miss you? (Another sexy look again)
Me: I hold eye contact with her and say "you know the answer to that". She smiles and I get back to my writing. I later opened ThickAss
Me: what's your name
ThickAss: I'm ThickAss
Me: ThickAss I like your dress, it suits your complexion and makes you stand out. It makes you look cute. That was what I was gonna say instead this is what I said "I like your dress, it suits your skin" I felt like I was tripping on my words
ThickAss: thank you (she smiles and I smile back)
Me: are you a student of English
ThickAss: yea. Although I did diploma in law but I dropped to English.
Me: oh. Don't worry you'll enjoy it
ThickAss: OK
We get interrupted by her friend who starts talking to her. A friend of mine, GB then walks over to me. He sends me his latest rap single and walks away. After listening to it for a while, he comes back. I tell him I'm still listening and he goes again.
Me: hey ThickAss, wanna listen to a cool music by my friend who just came over (I then give her one ear)
ThickAss: what's his name
Me: GB
We both listen to it in silence and she says she likes it. I tell her that I'm going to call GB so she can tell him. She says no but I insist and call him. She then tells him that she likes the song. I didn't really deep dive her as her friend kept on talking to her and she sometimes stood up to check her phone she was charging in class and my friends kept on talking to me. I wasn't bothered coz I didn't plan on closing that day. The next time I see her in class I'll deep dive, get her number and push for an instant date. After leaving the class on my way to the coffee shop I see PrettyFace with a friend.
Me: Hello PrettyFace (there and then it happened again. She gave me that quizzical/puzzled look. This time around I felt it was a sort of challenge or a test so I give her a skeptical look and hold eye contact with her)
PrettyFace: I'm sorry my mind is just not here (I still hold the skeptical look)
Me: yesterday...
PrettyFace: oh!
Me: I guess we turned out to be in same class...course mates (slight fumbling with my words here)
Pretty Face: yea
Me: see you around
PrettyFace: alright.
I later left for home. Phew! I finally typed all of this. What are your thoughts?
[bold]Tuesday[/bold]
I don't have accommodation anywhere close to school so I have to come all the way from home. I take two buses to school and three back home. As I arrive school I call up my friend who had asked me some days ago when I'm resuming. I'll call him Suits (because he fucking loves the TV series - Suits and is a law student ). So I meet up with Suits in some place we call "love garden". It's beside my faculty and as usual there are a whole lot of people there. He starts complimenting me on my dressing and how fresh I'm looking (lol). I just decided that the first day I resumed would be to just relax and observe. And plus during the holiday, I planned how I'll be approaching five girls during weekdays as I go about my studies and during the weekend days triple of that and here I was feeling overwhelmed and nervous as fuck. My friend then tells me that I should introduce him to my female friends/course mates and I tell him I haven't seen any of them. After spending some time together I head for my class. Everyone is so happy to see me and they all compliment my necklace. I always wear a gold necklace but this time around I put a ring as a pendant and added another non-metallic black long neclace with an ivory pendant. All the girls are just flirty and while some ask me who have I married or I'm I looking for a wife, others ask me if the ring was for them. I give them all the same reply
Me: didn't I tell you I got married?
Girl: really? or just a quizzical look
Me: oh you didn't get the memo. It was a week ago and I got married to myself. Talk about self love.
When others ask or comment on the ring as a pendant I just reply "I had to put a ring on it"
After class and everything I head home. I basically didn't approach anyone. when I arrived my neighbourhood and saw NewGirl, She's from my report here: Field Report. Let me quote the part where I met here from the above FR
Here's how my encounter with her went:
As reached my neighborhood I see a little girl in front of me and I hear someone calling out to her. As I look towards my not so far left I see NewGirl. I smile and wave to her while walking. She waves back with a quizzical look and gives me a fast and forced smile. Like she didn't know me. I didn't act fazed, I just smiled and walked off. I felt kinda retarded. Why do girls do that?! Another girl did the same thing on Thursday but I'll talk about that one later. What do you guys think. She didn't recognize me? (I doubt that), or she didn't expect me to wave and act like we are old friends? You experienced guys should have something to say about it. Have you had girls act like this to you?
Observations
1. I can't get rid of being nervous but that shouldn't stop me from approaching girls
2. Although I was really tired and all sweaty after coming from school, I should have not just walked away from NewGirl after waving at her. If I was sweaty I could have just wiped my face with my hanky. There and then I could have built some rapport and grab her number. Silly me! What do you guys think?
Wednesday
After alighting from my first bus to school, I head towards the second and lo and behold, there's this really hot girl sitting next to me. I observed her yesterday and even teased a friend of mine that she was staring at him. She just joined our class from a diploma program and she's the hottest I've seen amongst all the female diploma students that joined us. She's what you guys call a perfect 10. So I'm sitting beside her and I observed that she's reading a book by Chinua Achebe, one of our texts (we study English). I'm nervous so I just decide to relax, we still had a long way to go. She then drops the book on her laps and starts making use of her phone. After hesitating a bit, I use a situational opener. I'll call her PrettyFace
Me: what book are you reading? (I grab the book from her). Oh Achebe is a nice writer
PrettyFace: nods in acknowledgement
Me: Let me guess, you're studying English
PrettyFace: nods
Me: 200 level
PrettyFace: nods again (I give her a smile and go back to my former sitting position, facing front)
I wait for some seconds hesitating and trying to figure out what next to say when I remembered how I failed to re-engage NewGirl and I didn't even get to know her name. "Fool me twice, shame on me" goes the saying.
Me: what's your name
PrettyFace: mumbles something
Me: what? I put my ear closer to her
PrettyFace: mumbles again
Me: you said?
PrettyFace: PrettyFace
Me: oh PrettyFace (and she replies yea)
I didn't say anything again until we reached our destination. I alight first and she follows suit. immediately she starts walking really fast and I had to catch up with her.
Me: where are you headed
She: to my department
Me: Faculty of law... art I mean (I fucking fumbled with my words. I talk slow so I don't know if that makes it less bad)
She: yea I'm going to the faculty of art
Me: that's where I'm going too
As she says all of these she isn't giving me full attention and she keeps on walking fast. I walk beside her without saying a word as we head for the campus shuttle. She gets in first and I follow suit. In the shuttle again, silence. I didn't know what to say. As I give the driver my money he complains that he doesn't have change. I use this as an opportunity to say something to her
Me: shouldn't they be the ones to get change for us
She: yea (she gives me a look that shows she supports my statement)
Once we alight she starts walking fast again and I had to say something
Me: you walk really fast you need to slow down
She: yea I'm late for class (little did she
know that we were going for the same class). I try to deep dive her while walking and I ask her how it's like studying English. She says she doesn't really know as she did diploma. I said oh. I should have still persisted and made more conversation with her but I didn't. We keep on walking in silence as we reached the faculty. I now walk in front of her and she's right behind me. Before stepping into the art theater where we have our class, I look behind me at her and give her a quizzical look that says are you following me or you are going for the same class with me. I then step into class. After the class I couldn't get a hold of her. Later that day when I didn't have any class I decided to follow William Gupta's advice on walking so I could find girls to approach. I headed to some faculty where there are lots of people in groups. I couldn't find someone I could approach so I find an empty bench and sit there. There where two girls not too far from my left who seemed like they were waiting for someone. We'll call em Girl1 and Girl2. Girl1 isn't good looking at all while Girl2 is just OK. Through my peripheral vision I can see Girl2 pointing at my bench that they should sit there. They walk over and I adjust. Girl2 sits beside me. Wow! This was the second time that day a girl was positioned beside me. And remember NewGirl positioned herself close to me from my other FR.
Me: looks like you're both waiting for someone
Girl2: yes the person will soon be here
Me: what faculty are you from
Girl2: this faculty
Me: and you? (Referring to Girl1)
Girl1: xxxx
Me: What's your name
Girl2: I'm Girl2. What's yours
Me: Mystique
Me: What about you? (Referring to Girl1)
Girl1: Girl1
Me: OK
Before I could continue the conversation she receives a call from the person they're both waiting for. She stands up tells me goodbye. Pfft she disappeared.
Observations
1.I should have concentrated on Girl2 rather than going back and forth between both of them
2.I should have found a way to show personal interest on her maybe by giving her a direct compliment or something
3.I should have been conscious of the fact that she'd soon be leaving thereby speeding the process and doing a number close
4. Although she wasn't hooked, I should have still grabbed her number and see how it goes. No?
So what do you guys think?
I keep on walking and as I walk past I observe that to my right there's a girl all on her own listening to music with her ear piece. I walk back and sit beside her and as I start talking I realise she might not hear me so I say
Me: hey can you hear me?
(She takes off the earpiece) I saw you from afar and I hesitated at first but I just had to tell you you look really cute as you were listening to music with your earpiece on (she gives me a slight puzzled look and didn't say a word). Is this your faculty? (She nods. God damn it! Isn't she going to say something). I stood, said bye and walked off.
Observation
I should have just kept on talking. She seemed like a really shy girl and with time she might have opened up.
Thursday
I missed some classes so while we were all in class waiting for the lecturer I collected a female friend's note to copy. As I'm writing a pretty girl just entering the class walks to me. We'll call her ThickAss coz she's got an amazing ass
ThickAss: I anyone sitting there (at my left where she's standing there's a free sit, towards my right no one is sitting there but there are books indicating some of the sits are taken. She was referring to those sits)
Me: yea (she looks around trying to find another sit)
Me: why not sit here (I point at the free sit at my left)
ThickAss: we're two (she wants to keep a sit for a friend of hers too) I shift the books beside and move a sit by my right.
Me: come sit here (she now realises that I made room for her)
ThickAss: thank you. Thanks a lot (she gave me that face like I just saved her life)
Me: you're welcome
She sits beside me while I continue writing, I needed that note completed and it wouldn't make sense to write and talk to her. Soon a guy sits beside her towards the left. It's the guy she was keeping a sit for. They start talking and they share an earpiece together listening to music from the guys phone. It's obvious they're just friends. As I'm writing a course mate of mine walks to me leaning over at my right while ThickAss is at my left. I'd like to give you guys a bit info on my relationship with her. We'll call her CuteSexy coz she's got cute and sexy facial expressions and overall even though she's a 7, she's really sexually appealing. We have a touchy-feely relationship we flirt with each other a lot and there's always sexual tension between us. She has a boyfriend too who I happen to have met by coincidence without her knowledge and he doesn't know his gf is my course mate. I'm always flirting with every cute girl in my class. Quite touchy-feely
CuteSexy: I have been looking at you and you seem really serious this semester (she gives me a cute look. I remember Chase said he learnt some facial expressions from a particular girl in college. Each time I see CuteSexy I remember Chase story)
Me: I'm just trying to complete a not I missed (I say this smiling. I was gonna use as much pre selection as I can use to get ThickAss)
CuteSexy: Is that so
Me: Did you walk all the way here to tell me that or rather isn't it coz you miss me
CuteSexy: miss you? (Another sexy look again)
Me: I hold eye contact with her and say "you know the answer to that". She smiles and I get back to my writing. I later opened ThickAss
Me: what's your name
ThickAss: I'm ThickAss
Me: ThickAss I like your dress, it suits your complexion and makes you stand out. It makes you look cute. That was what I was gonna say instead this is what I said "I like your dress, it suits your skin" I felt like I was tripping on my words
ThickAss: thank you (she smiles and I smile back)
Me: are you a student of English
ThickAss: yea. Although I did diploma in law but I dropped to English.
Me: oh. Don't worry you'll enjoy it
ThickAss: OK
We get interrupted by her friend who starts talking to her. A friend of mine, GB then walks over to me. He sends me his latest rap single and walks away. After listening to it for a while, he comes back. I tell him I'm still listening and he goes again.
Me: hey ThickAss, wanna listen to a cool music by my friend who just came over (I then give her one ear)
ThickAss: what's his name
Me: GB
We both listen to it in silence and she says she likes it. I tell her that I'm going to call GB so she can tell him. She says no but I insist and call him. She then tells him that she likes the song. I didn't really deep dive her as her friend kept on talking to her and she sometimes stood up to check her phone she was charging in class and my friends kept on talking to me. I wasn't bothered coz I didn't plan on closing that day. The next time I see her in class I'll deep dive, get her number and push for an instant date. After leaving the class on my way to the coffee shop I see PrettyFace with a friend.
Me: Hello PrettyFace (there and then it happened again. She gave me that quizzical/puzzled look. This time around I felt it was a sort of challenge or a test so I give her a skeptical look and hold eye contact with her)
PrettyFace: I'm sorry my mind is just not here (I still hold the skeptical look)
Me: yesterday...
PrettyFace: oh!
Me: I guess we turned out to be in same class...course mates (slight fumbling with my words here)
Pretty Face: yea
Me: see you around
PrettyFace: alright.
I later left for home. Phew! I finally typed all of this. What are your thoughts?
