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College: Social Circle vs. Cold Approach

jackoftades819

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So I've seen two conflicting opinions about the best way to meet girls in college: meeting them in social circles or cold approach. I see merit to both sides of the argument, but I feel like there is a clear disadvantage to cold approach. I could easily get the reputation of "the creepy guy on campus hitting on everyone". Or this could be my approach anxiety, since I'm unlikely to talk to anyone in social circle too. What do you guys think?
 

Bete Noire

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Social circle is bomb, great way to not only hone those social skills but also a great way to meet new girls. Host pres until you have enough mates to host a full blown party - dynamite ^^ With cold approach, it's good shit sometimes but it has to be done right. If i see a super fit bird walking alone on campus I'll go make a comment to her, but only when i'm on the way somewhere too. Keeps it light, lets you meet knew people and you get a baller rep rather than a creepy one.

Be congruent, own that you think shes cute and it's never creepy. But don't just stand on one street corner and talk to any girls passing, people notice eventually :)

Just my two cents,

- Rob
 
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