COLLEGE STUDENT CANT GET LAID PLEASE HELP!

[Anonymous]

ok so im im college and I have made much progress with girls. at first i couldnt even talk to any girl because I was scared. Now Ive hit new stumbling block. Ive been moving fast with girls. I go out with them and talk and ect and things seem to be good. But what am i suppose to do after I take them out? Im trying to get them in bed fast. Ive taken alot of girls out but no sex has happened. After I take them out what do i do next? take em out on a 2nd date then hope I get sex then? or should I invite them over to watch a movie immediately after we go out the first time? In addition should I be clear on what exactly this outing is. Should I call it a date or should I just say hey lets hang out?

 

[Verisimilitude]

Darth Jones,

The answer to your question is you just need to keep trying. Until she either ignores you or it gets to a friends point. Obviously don't take this too far (aka don't be creepy) but a second date is fine and I would recommend something at your place or low key close to your place. Bc then its an easy transition to the bed. But while I know you want to get rid of your V card as soon as possible (I do too!) take it in steps and don't get discouraged. You already sound down on yourself, and there is no reason to do that. Instead, get up and start doing things!

 

[Penguin]

Darth Jones,
Moving fast applies to the entire process from getting a girl on a date to sleeping with her. As the man, you must take responsibility for progressing the interaction, rather than waiting around for something to happen. Therefore, after an hour or so has passed on the date you should be thinking of getting the girl back to your place. To make it comfortable for the girl to say yes, have an excuse for the two of you to go back to yours (e.g. a movie). Like cccrunner said, your date location should be close to your bedroom, making it easy for you to get her there. When you get back to yours, continue to move fast and aim to kiss within 10 minutes. Get her to take her shoes off at the door, and have no chairs in your room so she will sit on your bed. If this didn't happen on the first date for some reason, then simply do it on the second date as soon as possible.

You don't have to specify that it's a "date", just invite her for the activity e.g. drinks. It's optimal to not make a big deal out of the date and act like it's a very casual occasion.

Hope this helped. It sounds like you will have no problem getting laid with many girls, if you just take the initiative to help girls be alone with you.