I am a freshmen in college and in high school I never really got much attention from females. Now, I always catch girls staring at me and smiling and I just don't know what to do. I bought Chase's book, but I have not fully read it due to how demanding the school that I am attending is. Girls that stare and smile at me are very beautiful, so it is very intimidating. I am really good at talking to girls, but this is something that is new to me. What should I do? I feel like the longer I wait for an answer is the longer I keep on losing potential women. Any advice?
College student new to hot women interested in him
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Do this:
Kidding.
Check out this FR. It contains some really solid on-campus approaches that start off with eye contact.
I'll take your word for now when you say that you're good at talking to girls.
I think this article will help. Be confident, and know that hotter girls will be warmer to your opener as long as you pull off a genuine approach (no scripted lines or silly bullshit you see on SimplePickup), and know that VERY VERY few men on Earth have the balls to do what you're about to do.
She's also indicating interest by giving you eye contact, so all you have to do is pull off a decent approach. Don't pressure yourself to be perfect. Don't psyche yourself out trying to come up with an "ideal" approach. A quote from the movie Hitch puts it pretty well: "She already likes you, so all you have to do is not screw up" or something like that. These are little 18-22 year old girls, no matter how hard they try to look tough and almighty and model-like, and you're competing with little boys 18-22 years old. You're already way ahead of the game by being here. Most adults past that age have no clue what to do with women, let alone have the balls to return eye contact in plain daylight with no alcohol in their system. So even a simple "Hey, what's up?" with a smile could make her day and get her excited for you.
Remember to be warm while maintaining a sexual frame. Do not forget the sexy vibe. Do not fall into the supplicating, super-friendly category that most men fall into in front of beautiful girls. Be a bit of a bad boy. Be edgy. Be a bit of an asshole and refuse to be friendzoned.
Also give this article a read. There will always be new, gorgeous girls for you regardless of how many you fail to approach or how many girls you screw up with. Don't worry too much about your social reputation. It's only college. The girl will experience plenty of guys saying/doing dumber shit to her throughout her college years. Your reputation is worse off by being a pussy.
May the force me with you.
EDITED
Kidding.
Check out this FR. It contains some really solid on-campus approaches that start off with eye contact.
I'll take your word for now when you say that you're good at talking to girls.
I think this article will help. Be confident, and know that hotter girls will be warmer to your opener as long as you pull off a genuine approach (no scripted lines or silly bullshit you see on SimplePickup), and know that VERY VERY few men on Earth have the balls to do what you're about to do.
She's also indicating interest by giving you eye contact, so all you have to do is pull off a decent approach. Don't pressure yourself to be perfect. Don't psyche yourself out trying to come up with an "ideal" approach. A quote from the movie Hitch puts it pretty well: "She already likes you, so all you have to do is not screw up" or something like that. These are little 18-22 year old girls, no matter how hard they try to look tough and almighty and model-like, and you're competing with little boys 18-22 years old. You're already way ahead of the game by being here. Most adults past that age have no clue what to do with women, let alone have the balls to return eye contact in plain daylight with no alcohol in their system. So even a simple "Hey, what's up?" with a smile could make her day and get her excited for you.
Remember to be warm while maintaining a sexual frame. Do not forget the sexy vibe. Do not fall into the supplicating, super-friendly category that most men fall into in front of beautiful girls. Be a bit of a bad boy. Be edgy. Be a bit of an asshole and refuse to be friendzoned.
Also give this article a read. There will always be new, gorgeous girls for you regardless of how many you fail to approach or how many girls you screw up with. Don't worry too much about your social reputation. It's only college. The girl will experience plenty of guys saying/doing dumber shit to her throughout her college years. Your reputation is worse off by being a pussy.
May the force me with you.
EDITED
Aaron88,
Sounds similar to what I have experienced. I was the guy ( and kinda still is, if that makes sense ) who had no girls in grade school and junior high chasing after him. But that changed after I left junior high. I had some really pretty girls calling out to me by name ( I have no idea how they knew my name because I never spoke to them before ), staring at me and asking me if I had a girlfriend and what's my phone number.
Unfortunately, I was painfully shy, came off as way too aloof and awkward. So what happened? They stopped calling out to me and completely ignored me. I know, not being used to having girls interested then having the flip instantly switch is a bit intimidating. It's even worse if you haven't been doing anything different than any other time in your life. So then why now? Why weren't they attracted before. That's why it feels so intimidating. You have no idea why they suddenly got interested.
Well the good news is that you are at the right place. I trust that you have been upgrading your fundamentals: fashion, facial expressions, body language, facial hair e.t.c.
If you have been doing those things then people begin seeing you differently in a positive way. I know it's hard but do your best to capitalize on the interest you are getting now. Talk to everyone around you. Have fun and go for the girls that go for you if only for the learning and experience.
Troy
Sounds similar to what I have experienced. I was the guy ( and kinda still is, if that makes sense ) who had no girls in grade school and junior high chasing after him. But that changed after I left junior high. I had some really pretty girls calling out to me by name ( I have no idea how they knew my name because I never spoke to them before ), staring at me and asking me if I had a girlfriend and what's my phone number.
Unfortunately, I was painfully shy, came off as way too aloof and awkward. So what happened? They stopped calling out to me and completely ignored me. I know, not being used to having girls interested then having the flip instantly switch is a bit intimidating. It's even worse if you haven't been doing anything different than any other time in your life. So then why now? Why weren't they attracted before. That's why it feels so intimidating. You have no idea why they suddenly got interested.
Well the good news is that you are at the right place. I trust that you have been upgrading your fundamentals: fashion, facial expressions, body language, facial hair e.t.c.
If you have been doing those things then people begin seeing you differently in a positive way. I know it's hard but do your best to capitalize on the interest you are getting now. Talk to everyone around you. Have fun and go for the girls that go for you if only for the learning and experience.
Troy