How're you doing folks?
Chase often expounds the importance of warmth in seduction, stressing that it's essential for girls to open up to you; that coming off as too aloof is deteimental for a man's vibe.
However, most likely due to my limited experience, I've been finding it very difficult to combine warmth anf masculinity. Whenever I try to display the two characteristics, I feel a split in my personality. Almost feels like they're mutually exclusive.
This is further exacerbated by my (again, limited) experiences with some very famous, powerful men.
I've been lucky enough to meet and chat with some of them, and although their personalities have varied, two things were common: 1) masculinity (they have to develop a killer instinct to succeed) 2) somewhat aloof and detached, only mildly engaging. Now these guys weren't super serious like your stern watchman, but were always composed, aloof and slightly aggressive.
I've also watched Sean Connery's Bond movies, trying to study his character in detail, and while he's socially graceful and witty, he's not exactly a warm guy. Kinda cold, to be honest.
Val Kilmer, in The Saint, is warm, but in a feminine way - or at least in the sculpture scene.
Of course, if Chase himself learned a ton from them, there's ton I can (and will) take away from the movies.
But I can't seem to balance warmth and masculinity, at least in a way that suit my personality/identity.
Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated
Chase often expounds the importance of warmth in seduction, stressing that it's essential for girls to open up to you; that coming off as too aloof is deteimental for a man's vibe.
However, most likely due to my limited experience, I've been finding it very difficult to combine warmth anf masculinity. Whenever I try to display the two characteristics, I feel a split in my personality. Almost feels like they're mutually exclusive.
This is further exacerbated by my (again, limited) experiences with some very famous, powerful men.
I've been lucky enough to meet and chat with some of them, and although their personalities have varied, two things were common: 1) masculinity (they have to develop a killer instinct to succeed) 2) somewhat aloof and detached, only mildly engaging. Now these guys weren't super serious like your stern watchman, but were always composed, aloof and slightly aggressive.
I've also watched Sean Connery's Bond movies, trying to study his character in detail, and while he's socially graceful and witty, he's not exactly a warm guy. Kinda cold, to be honest.
Val Kilmer, in The Saint, is warm, but in a feminine way - or at least in the sculpture scene.
Of course, if Chase himself learned a ton from them, there's ton I can (and will) take away from the movies.
But I can't seem to balance warmth and masculinity, at least in a way that suit my personality/identity.
Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated
