Long-Term Coming home to GC...!

[Motiv]

Hello all!

I realize I was a fleeting forum poster since December to January of 2013-2014, but I feel that I owe so much of the changes in my life to GC, that I decided a comeback was in order. This site is truly one of a kind, and I truly believe I owe Chase and his team of writers a debt of gratitude for the improvements they have inspired me to make in my life.

To lay it all on the table, I have actually only taken two girls to bed, so I'm not an experienced "player." Nevertheless, I think my situation is rather unique, and there are probably other men in a similar boat as me. I have recently removed myself once and for all from a deeply religious mentorship that was psychologically abusive and deeply anti-sexual. For thirteen years, I truly believed I would got to Hell for premarital sex, so I avoided contact with women like the plague. Now, at 35 years of age, I've had a girlfriend the past eight months (who was my first lay, thanks to GC), and we have a very active, healthy sex life together (4-5 times/week, if not every day).

I just want to let the board know that I have not disappeared after having benefited so much from this blog. For any male virgins out there wanting to break free of their chastity born out of religious virtue, I might be able to help in this regard because I was there for over a decade of my own youth. I now know that girls absolutely want sex, and they especially want it with a man like you, who is thoughtful about who he takes to bed! I think the hardest part is letting go of the religiously motivated connection we have fraudulently created between spiritual damnation and sexuality.

I've been an extremely independent man the last fourteen years of my life (independent from most of the normal world), which incidentally prepared me well for seduction (the ability to walk away). I count myself successful in that I now have a girlfriend who is very sexy and physically attractive, yet who also has a high flying career in collegiate-level academia, and in the end is more attached to me than I am to her, leaving me with the upper hand in the relationship power dynamic. According to her, I'm the best sex she's ever had (albeit, after having had two months of practice WITH her).

Upon mature deliberation, I've concluded that I am in fact the more monogamous type of man. I have absolutely nothing against polyamorous men. I believe I could be one if I wanted to, but I am personally more interested in the challenge of building a life with one woman who understands me and stands by my side (and whom I pleasure to no end in bed).

Here's to GC! You guys really have something special going on here, and I stand as a testimonial 100%!!

-MP

 

[PrettyDecent]

MachinePlayer,

Glad to see the update!

Yeah, we all owe so much to GC. And you have quite the testimonial to back you up!

Here's to the best of luck for you and your current gal

~Nick

 

[Franco]

MP,

That's awesome, man. I'm so glad to hear that this website was able to change your entire life around, and you're not the only one. This website changed my life too, and the more we can help men changes their lives and make themselves better, the more we can better the world out there for women as well. I'm sure your girl is quite the lucky lady.

We look forward to seeing anything you'd like to contribute.

Cheers,

Franco

 

[daviddreamer]

Nothing like a good story! Welcome to GC

 

[Motiv]

Thank you, all! Life has taken some interesting turns for the better: opening up to people in my professional field, making connections that are resulting in more work and exposure as a performing artist. The irony in all this is that I am finally more focused on pushing my passion for the violin than ever before, now that I've broken into the world of seduction. Having a girlfriend who knows how driven I am to pursue this (and keeping her on edge about holding onto me) has resulted in a very active and healthy sex life for the both of us (with each other). I realize that I settled rather quickly for someone so new to women (which Chase cautioned in his latest podcast), but I like being able to focus on my artistic passion with a woman who has come to understand and accept what I want most out of my life. It took me a little time but I finally realized I AM a byronic man by my own nature--and exuding this personality trait DOES have a mesmerizing affect on women! My apartment building is chalk full of college girls studying classical music, many with whom I now exchange flirtatious eye contact regularly, and some with whom I flirt to the point of sexual angst (usually the Korean students). Other women who have known me longer continually comment on my new outfits and necklace (which my girlfriend got me from her trip to Africa, knowing I wanted a neck piece to go with my look--advice from GC!).

It's all about committing yourself to an ideal: to spontaneously see yourself as a sexual being, who's mission is to arouse and sexually please women. I think you have to be willing to embrace narcissism on some level--at least in terms of visualizing your sexual potential. For me, it is VERY much related to performance art: each woman is like a masterpiece, just waiting to be unraveled and understood, and ultimately, played.