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pks391

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If something a girl did made me angry and if she asks me if im angry at her, is it necessary for me to tell her that I'm angry as well as why? If yes, then what would be the most appropriate way to communicate it. I'm asking because I've heard that the best way is to stay non-reactive and/or move away. Please tell me an appropriate way of handling such a situation.
 

ray_zorse

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Depends on context, can you make it an FR? Then we can give specific advice.
Ray
 

pks391

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Ok its like this girl didn't accept my compliance request so i started ignoring her and once 2 am in the morning she texted me asking me if i was angry i told her m sleepy now. So she said forget it you don't deserve. I'm unable to understand the appropriate manner to SHOW a girl I'm upset without looking lkke a pussy ordisplaying that I'm emotionally affected by her
 

ray_zorse

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Umm well it's hard to see why you would be angry about her refusing compliance, she is a free agent after all... and in saying you were tired I presume you were just being truthful and the opposite of thirsty, so I cannot see any major problem, but again without a detailed FR I have no real idea.
Ray
 

pks391

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Hey Ray,
I understand, but giving a detailed FR is hard since there are too many factors in play.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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