Ok so I had an early morning class (early being 9am lol). I went to it and arrived at 8:45. I had arranged for Anna, a girl I had met once previously, to meet me there.
But I was early. So why not do a little warmup first
So I asked a nearby girl, fairly cute, if I could sit down at the table she was at, at the cafe outside the classroom. She said yeah and I deep-dived her about her degree. Eventually, I got distracted (and also didn't want to scare the original girl off) and started giving the girl I was talking to slightly less attention. Usually this gets them to invest more into me, to try to take my attention. However, that only works if they are fairly invested (or very interested) in you. So the girl I was talking to eventually went into the classroom (albeit whilst inviting me along with her) and I declined, because I had said I'd meet Anna (who is cuter) outside at this particular spot.
Ha. Not sure what was the right play there, but things worked out in the end (also I am typing this after a very long night, it's almost 6am, I'm a bit loopier than usual).
Tits. Anyway.
So Anna shows up. I start off deep-diving her. I barely remembered her name from the last time we'd met, (only actually remembered it because of FB) simply because that was a night full of girls (I detailed it in another report actually). I don't remember the exact words, but as we had the same degree essentially I related to her, but not overmuch. Learned my lesson from last week xD
During the hour-long class, I mostly ignored the shit out of her. I would occasionally make a side comment her way, but I don't think I ever actually looked her in the face the whole time.
What can I say. I'm a dick. The class wasn't even that absorbing. But I was curious what I could achieve with aloof game, my current experiment.
She kept glancing at and even staring at my face every five minutes or so. Peripheral vision. And yeah it worked
Afterwards, we went to the library. I left for a quick meeting I had to attend, but told her to wait. Then, she helped me work on my CV. Compliannnnnnceee. But that's not all.
After my CV was done, I asked her if she wanted to take a walk. She said sure. I said, hey, I'm going to this bar and this pub and this nightclub to try to find a job. She tagged along and we walked through the lovely old part of the city, all the while talking. I steered the conversation slightly more naughtily (is that a word) by talking about teenage rebellion and the various dirty things we all used to get up to. Or rather, I got her to tell me about it. I find that saying much more than a few sentences about myself lately, to relate, has been detrimental.
So yeah. That happened. During the return journey from this expedition, I led her to a place for lunch. We ate. She got way more comfortable with me and started telling me the stranger (yet endearing!! she's a lovely girl) things about herself.
But it was still only flirty via facial expression. Time to up the ante. After lunch, we both had to attend the same meeting. I pulled out one of my favourite moves. I went and tried to tickle her. She was very ticklish.
Note:
This move works whether they are ticklish or not, so long as you yourself are ticklish. Either you end up tickling them, breaking the touch barrier, and teasing them...or when they say no, just say, "oh..." letting it hang, smile somewhat sheepishly, and look away. They (almost always for me at least) will look at you, and slowly smile mischievously and say "ohhh you are!" Which leads to them touching you. It's also a low pressure way for them to initiate contact, and I enjoy grabbing their hands as they try to tickle me and just holding them.
It's a good move. It works for me.
Anyway, we are seated in this lecture hall, in a boring-as fuck meeting, and I'm tickling her and leaving my hand on her leg. This turns into her tickling me and me grabbing her hand and holding. She would always let me hold her hand for a few seconds, and then snatch away.
Girl. Chill. It's just hand-holding.
Whatever. I begin to worry she's a bit conservative, but she's actually fairly engaging and I decide to see what happens.
What happened was simple: After the meeting we parted ways. I ended up walking back to my dorm kicking myself mentally.
Fucking hell.
But then, later during dinner, my best friend here mentions that his FWB and Anna, (who is his FWB's flatmate) are coming over later for our pre-drinks in the pantry, before going out clubbing with us tonight. I am relieved I will have a second shot with Anna before she goes cold, but worried, because Katrina and Daisy will both be at pre-drinks (and Katrina interrogated me about Daisy yesterday, specifically our climb up the mountain). Social circle game is complicated folks. For those new to this whole weeklong saga (it started a week ago exactly, actually), Daisy is someone who flirts heavily with me, but I have not actually been with despite rumors, whereas Katrina I apparently hooked up or made out with whilst blackout, last Wednesday. I am on good terms with both, but the rumour mill is churning.
Pre-drinks arrives. Anna and my mate's girl aren't arriving till later. I am talking to my friend, and he mentions he thinks I could get with Anna. I say something like "probably." Daisy is nearby and shoots a look at me. Five minutes later she's right next to me, poking me.
Don't cockblock me, wait your turnnnnnnnn.
Suffice to say, I wasn't sure what would happen when Anna arrived. Luckily, Daisy, Katrina, and their whole circle of girls went to the club fairly early, before Anna even got to pre-drinks. Whew. Anna and my friend and everyone talk to other people. I talk a bit but just chill, cause I wasn't feeling very talkative and can't compete with the whole BMOC loud game (except through contrast-being smooth, mysterious, and aloof).
So they are socializing, I do a bit of it too, then we head to the club. At this point, Anna has not interacted with me much, and I am not sure it will happen. My aloofness is failing me!
Lol. Or I just didn't see it working till it did. I was joking with her the whole time, not completely ignoring her, mind you. It's just I interspersed that with being sort of lost in my own world, staring off, either quizzically (think daydreaming) or broodingly.
We finally get in the club. Daisy walks past me as I walk in, and pokes me, before disappearing into the night, yet again. This girl.
I decide that I have no idea what Daisy's playing at, so why bother play along? I begin to physically escalate on Anna as we get drinks. My arm is around her waist, hooked into her jeans as we order. I don't say much, just lightly talk a bit.
To clarify: I am never really like completely silent. It's just little snarky comments, smirks, jokes, and a bit of teasing, but I never remember exactly what I say, because the body language and physical escalation are what is actually doing the talking. That I remember very well.
I am interrupted however, by Daisy, who is now freaking out cause she lost her phone. I call another friend, one of her girl squad, to deal with her. Anna gets a bit jealous, and goes off. I sit by the bar sipping beer by myself, nonchalantly (they can come back to me lol).
Eventually (maybe five minutes later, if that) they do. I go right back to escalating on Anna, and we head to the dance floor. My hand on waist becomes a hand on ass fairly quickly. Once my hand is on her ass, I figure I'm good to kiss her. So I do. She laughs and goes with it.
Holy shit. I've never been kissed so intensely. It was almost uncomfortable, the passion this girl had. Must've been a while for her, although I don't see why, she's easily more attractive than most of the girls in the club. She jokes about how bad she is at dancing to the electronic music that is playing, so I take her to a booth in the back of the club and makeout with her more heavily. Then I just say:
I already knew it was close-whereas mine was a twenty minute walk away.
So we walk. I very endearingly (or stupidly) take a few wrong turns, but she steers me, and my hand is around her waist the whole time. We make it up to her place. Here, once in the room, no words are spoken. Although she has trouble breaking away from kissing me to take any clothes off, I manage to rise to the challenge
This girl was kinky. I choked her (actually I do that with most girls) lightly, and pulled hair, spanked, spat on, etc. We went at it for a good while, and I was dripping with sweat by the end.
Then I notice my phone is ringing nonstop. It's Daisy. She needs me. I pick up and figure out what's going on. She's with a guy who won't take no for an answer or something, and needs me. I explain that "a friend" is having trouble with a pushy guy to Anna, and she consents to let me leave without the gratuitous post-sex cuddles (idk if gratuitous should be there, but it seems to fit). I do think she is fairly annoyed though. I text her after leaving, saying
Anyway
I hurry off to see Daisy (who I find out is also switching to that class, fuck). This could be a whole separate FR, but basically there was no sex, no kissing, a fair amount of nudity nonetheless, the promise that we were just friends, my lips on her boob, and her finding out I am ticklish. Oh and she fell asleep on my shoulder as we watched a film. I also stank of sex from Anna, which may have been part of Daisy's resistance lol.
So that's that. I wanted to bang this out quickly as I won't have time later today or tomorrow likely. This just happened, Imma go shower now and get rid of that smell.
Key takeaways:
1) Experiment. Sometimes things you don't think will work, do, and sometimes they don't. You'll never know unless you try.
2) Girls generally don't like it when you try to sleep with them already smelling of sex. Or maybe you guys could pull it off, idk. Hey hey.
3) You can get a whole shit ton of experience and field work in pickup done in a single night. Even if the night seems shitty at first.
4) Errand dates are in fact excellent.
Ok I've got to shower, eat something, and sleep a bit before classes. I'm too tired to think of a quippy way to end this.
XOXO
Byron
But I was early. So why not do a little warmup first
So I asked a nearby girl, fairly cute, if I could sit down at the table she was at, at the cafe outside the classroom. She said yeah and I deep-dived her about her degree. Eventually, I got distracted (and also didn't want to scare the original girl off) and started giving the girl I was talking to slightly less attention. Usually this gets them to invest more into me, to try to take my attention. However, that only works if they are fairly invested (or very interested) in you. So the girl I was talking to eventually went into the classroom (albeit whilst inviting me along with her) and I declined, because I had said I'd meet Anna (who is cuter) outside at this particular spot.
Ha. Not sure what was the right play there, but things worked out in the end
(also I am typing this after a very long night, it's almost 6am, I'm a bit loopier than usual). Tits. Anyway.
So Anna shows up. I start off deep-diving her. I barely remembered her name from the last time we'd met, (only actually remembered it because of FB) simply because that was a night full of girls (I detailed it in another report actually). I don't remember the exact words, but as we had the same degree essentially I related to her, but not overmuch. Learned my lesson from last week xD
During the hour-long class, I mostly ignored the shit out of her. I would occasionally make a side comment her way, but I don't think I ever actually looked her in the face the whole time.
What can I say. I'm a dick. The class wasn't even that absorbing. But I was curious what I could achieve with aloof game, my current experiment.
She kept glancing at and even staring at my face every five minutes or so. Peripheral vision. And yeah it worked
Afterwards, we went to the library. I left for a quick meeting I had to attend, but told her to wait. Then, she helped me work on my CV. Compliannnnnnceee. But that's not all.
After my CV was done, I asked her if she wanted to take a walk. She said sure. I said, hey, I'm going to this bar and this pub and this nightclub to try to find a job. She tagged along and we walked through the lovely old part of the city, all the while talking. I steered the conversation slightly more naughtily (is that a word) by talking about teenage rebellion and the various dirty things we all used to get up to. Or rather, I got her to tell me about it. I find that saying much more than a few sentences about myself lately, to relate, has been detrimental.
So yeah. That happened. During the return journey from this expedition, I led her to a place for lunch. We ate. She got way more comfortable with me and started telling me the stranger (yet endearing!! she's a lovely girl) things about herself.
But it was still only flirty via facial expression. Time to up the ante. After lunch, we both had to attend the same meeting. I pulled out one of my favourite moves. I went and tried to tickle her. She was very ticklish.
Note:
This move works whether they are ticklish or not, so long as you yourself are ticklish. Either you end up tickling them, breaking the touch barrier, and teasing them...or when they say no, just say, "oh..." letting it hang, smile somewhat sheepishly, and look away. They (almost always for me at least) will look at you, and slowly smile mischievously and say "ohhh you are!" Which leads to them touching you. It's also a low pressure way for them to initiate contact, and I enjoy grabbing their hands as they try to tickle me and just holding them.
It's a good move. It works for me.
Anyway, we are seated in this lecture hall, in a boring-as fuck meeting, and I'm tickling her and leaving my hand on her leg. This turns into her tickling me and me grabbing her hand and holding. She would always let me hold her hand for a few seconds, and then snatch away.
Girl. Chill. It's just hand-holding.
Whatever. I begin to worry she's a bit conservative, but she's actually fairly engaging and I decide to see what happens.
What happened was simple: After the meeting we parted ways. I ended up walking back to my dorm kicking myself mentally.
Fucking hell.
But then, later during dinner, my best friend here mentions that his FWB and Anna, (who is his FWB's flatmate) are coming over later for our pre-drinks in the pantry, before going out clubbing with us tonight. I am relieved I will have a second shot with Anna before she goes cold, but worried, because Katrina and Daisy will both be at pre-drinks (and Katrina interrogated me about Daisy yesterday, specifically our climb up the mountain). Social circle game is complicated folks. For those new to this whole weeklong saga (it started a week ago exactly, actually), Daisy is someone who flirts heavily with me, but I have not actually been with despite rumors, whereas Katrina I apparently hooked up or made out with whilst blackout, last Wednesday. I am on good terms with both, but the rumour mill is churning.
Pre-drinks arrives. Anna and my mate's girl aren't arriving till later. I am talking to my friend, and he mentions he thinks I could get with Anna. I say something like "probably." Daisy is nearby and shoots a look at me. Five minutes later she's right next to me, poking me.
Don't cockblock me, wait your turnnnnnnnn.
Suffice to say, I wasn't sure what would happen when Anna arrived. Luckily, Daisy, Katrina, and their whole circle of girls went to the club fairly early, before Anna even got to pre-drinks. Whew. Anna and my friend and everyone talk to other people. I talk a bit but just chill, cause I wasn't feeling very talkative and can't compete with the whole BMOC loud game (except through contrast-being smooth, mysterious, and aloof).
So they are socializing, I do a bit of it too, then we head to the club. At this point, Anna has not interacted with me much, and I am not sure it will happen. My aloofness is failing me!
Lol. Or I just didn't see it working till it did. I was joking with her the whole time, not completely ignoring her, mind you. It's just I interspersed that with being sort of lost in my own world, staring off, either quizzically (think daydreaming) or broodingly.
We finally get in the club. Daisy walks past me as I walk in, and pokes me, before disappearing into the night, yet again. This girl.
I decide that I have no idea what Daisy's playing at, so why bother play along? I begin to physically escalate on Anna as we get drinks. My arm is around her waist, hooked into her jeans as we order. I don't say much, just lightly talk a bit.
To clarify: I am never really like completely silent. It's just little snarky comments, smirks, jokes, and a bit of teasing, but I never remember exactly what I say, because the body language and physical escalation are what is actually doing the talking. That I remember very well.
I am interrupted however, by Daisy, who is now freaking out cause she lost her phone. I call another friend, one of her girl squad, to deal with her. Anna gets a bit jealous, and goes off. I sit by the bar sipping beer by myself, nonchalantly (they can come back to me lol).
Eventually (maybe five minutes later, if that) they do. I go right back to escalating on Anna, and we head to the dance floor. My hand on waist becomes a hand on ass fairly quickly. Once my hand is on her ass, I figure I'm good to kiss her. So I do. She laughs and goes with it.
Holy shit. I've never been kissed so intensely. It was almost uncomfortable, the passion this girl had. Must've been a while for her, although I don't see why, she's easily more attractive than most of the girls in the club. She jokes about how bad she is at dancing to the electronic music that is playing, so I take her to a booth in the back of the club and makeout with her more heavily. Then I just say:
I already knew it was close-whereas mine was a twenty minute walk away.
So we walk. I very endearingly (or stupidly) take a few wrong turns, but she steers me, and my hand is around her waist the whole time. We make it up to her place. Here, once in the room, no words are spoken. Although she has trouble breaking away from kissing me to take any clothes off, I manage to rise to the challenge
This girl was kinky. I choked her (actually I do that with most girls) lightly, and pulled hair, spanked, spat on, etc. We went at it for a good while, and I was dripping with sweat by the end.
Then I notice my phone is ringing nonstop. It's Daisy. She needs me. I pick up and figure out what's going on. She's with a guy who won't take no for an answer or something, and needs me. I explain that "a friend" is having trouble with a pushy guy to Anna, and she consents to let me leave without the gratuitous post-sex cuddles (idk if gratuitous should be there, but it seems to fit). I do think she is fairly annoyed though. I text her after leaving, saying
But am ignored. Oh well. Will see her in class tomorrow. I bet you she'll want to sit next to me againSweet dreams
Anyway
I hurry off to see Daisy (who I find out is also switching to that class, fuck). This could be a whole separate FR, but basically there was no sex, no kissing, a fair amount of nudity nonetheless, the promise that we were just friends, my lips on her boob, and her finding out I am ticklish. Oh and she fell asleep on my shoulder as we watched a film. I also stank of sex from Anna, which may have been part of Daisy's resistance lol.
So that's that. I wanted to bang this out quickly as I won't have time later today or tomorrow likely. This just happened, Imma go shower now and get rid of that smell.
Key takeaways:
1) Experiment. Sometimes things you don't think will work, do, and sometimes they don't. You'll never know unless you try.
2) Girls generally don't like it when you try to sleep with them already smelling of sex. Or maybe you guys could pull it off, idk. Hey hey.
3) You can get a whole shit ton of experience and field work in pickup done in a single night. Even if the night seems shitty at first.
4) Errand dates are in fact excellent.
Ok I've got to shower, eat something, and sleep a bit before classes. I'm too tired to think of a quippy way to end this.
XOXO
Byron
