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I'm running game at a pride festival thats taking place in a park here in town. I'm sitting on a bench and notice this group of three girls about 10 feet to my right. They are standing beside another bench. They seem to be looking at me quite a bit. I go up to Girl 1 and open her indirect. She's rude to me. Then her and Girl 2 start acting aloof and ignoring me. It is very non-verbal. Girl 3 starts talking to me..she has pretty poor english:
All of a sudden...
I stop the initial conversation I have started with Girl 3 and look over at the 2 female cockblocks who are interrupting. They are sitting on the bench right next to the group of 3 girls. The cockbocks don't appear to be friends with the 3 girls - they are a separate group. I'm caught off guard. It turns into a staring contest and I'm not sure what to say:
My sleeves were already rolled up from before. I was unconsciously adjusting them...I don't know why. Probably a nervous tick.
Analysis
I think that the disinterested behaviour from Girl 1 + 2 was NOT ACTUALLY A REJECTION. I believe it was a test. I should have responded to their non-verbal snuffing by using non-verbals as well. If I had done this, and there were no cockblocks involved, then I think I could have gotten through to them.
Ideally I should have ignored the cockblocks - just like I would in a nightclub. The 3 girls I had opened weren't saying anything during the whole confrontation. Instead of staring and being serious about it, which only amplified the situation, I should have been more playful and rolled my eyes at them.
All of a sudden...
I stop the initial conversation I have started with Girl 3 and look over at the 2 female cockblocks who are interrupting. They are sitting on the bench right next to the group of 3 girls. The cockbocks don't appear to be friends with the 3 girls - they are a separate group. I'm caught off guard. It turns into a staring contest and I'm not sure what to say:
My sleeves were already rolled up from before. I was unconsciously adjusting them...I don't know why. Probably a nervous tick.
Analysis
I think that the disinterested behaviour from Girl 1 + 2 was NOT ACTUALLY A REJECTION. I believe it was a test. I should have responded to their non-verbal snuffing by using non-verbals as well. If I had done this, and there were no cockblocks involved, then I think I could have gotten through to them.
Ideally I should have ignored the cockblocks - just like I would in a nightclub. The 3 girls I had opened weren't saying anything during the whole confrontation. Instead of staring and being serious about it, which only amplified the situation, I should have been more playful and rolled my eyes at them.
