Confused, did I make her orgasm or what?

[randy__bobandy]

The other night I'm fingering a girl and eating her out. She's on her back, so I've got my fingers in and up to stimulate her g-spot, and I'm going in and out quickly.

So I start out at a normal pace, and she's breathing heavily.

Then I go faster, breathing gets heavier.

Then faster, then heavier.

Then faster, then heavier.

Then it just sort of stopped. I thought I fucked up because while I have never given a girl a screaming orgasm, with other girls I have been able to feel the juices really flowing with my fingers inside them. But there didn't seem to be any with her. So after a minute or so, shes like "okay, that was good" like signaling me to stop. So what the fuck happened?

 

[Thedoctor]

Randy,

Then it just sort of stopped. I thought I fucked up because while I have never given a girl a screaming orgasm, with other girls I have been able to feel the juices really flowing with my fingers inside them. But there didn't seem to be any with her. So after a minute or so, shes like "okay, that was good" like signaling me to stop. So what the fuck happened?

First off, keep in mind that girls have different types of orgasms, and not all girls orgasm the same way. Sometimes they squirt, sometimes they clinch up and get super tight, sometimes they convulse..etc.

So I start out at a normal pace, and she's breathing heavily.

Then I go faster, breathing gets heavier.

Then faster, then heavier.

Then faster, then heavier.

I'm not saying this is true of every girl, but most girls don't orgasm like guys do (meaning you don't just keep going harder and faster and harder and faster). Typically, if she's close to orgasm, do not switch up anything you're doing. Based on what you said, I'd imagine she was getting real close, but you changed up the rhythm.

-John