CONFUSED!!! Was this an escalation window or slight coincidence?

[dsdezzy]

So there is this girl in one of my classes, we are in the same group for a project. She seems interested in me in class. When everyone is leaving for class, I notice she isn't walking her normal route (in the opposite direction of mine). We talk on our walk from class, I asked her to one of my fraternities' date parties and she mentioned how she had a test, meeting, etc. (she's a senior, so it could be legitimate). I persist, she hesitantly declines and she added if she wasn't so busy then maybe...
I change the subject, we talk some more, and we are close to where she lives at this point. We part ways and as I'm walking in the other direction she says, "So are we parting ways?"
A couple seconds later, I was wondering if that was her way of trying to spend more time with me (only because she walked with me from class, considering we haven't done that before).
Any thoughts?

 

[trashKENNUT]

dsdezzy,

I change the subject, we talk some more, and we are close to where she lives at this point. We part ways and as I'm walking in the other direction she says, "So are we parting ways?"
A couple seconds later, I was wondering if that was her way of trying to spend more time with me (only because she walked with me from class, considering we haven't done that before).
Any thoughts?

What is her emotion, or tone? Neutral? Angry? or positive?

YOu must have hit home on the conversation on the way back to her house. She probably needed comfort if she is asking you and she is positive.

Zac

 

[dsdezzy]

She was positive/neutral during our interaction. I will add that when we did have good conversations while we were working on our project last night. I noticed as we were closing up shop, she offered to stay with me and another person in my group, but the other person said it wasn't necessary (damn him! I wanted to go for the pull). I'm certain of attraction. What do you mean by comfort?

 

[trashKENNUT]

dsdezzy,

She was positive/neutral during our interaction. I will add that when we did have good conversations while we were working on our project last night. I noticed as we were closing up shop, she offered to stay with me and another person in my group, but the other person said it wasn't necessary (damn him! I wanted to go for the pull). I'm certain of attraction. What do you mean by comfort?

You should have counter-offered and tell the other person that you will stay with her and he/she can go off first. Do it normally and the other person won't suspect anything. Sometimes, the other person will offer to stay, Keep persisting that he or she needs to go. Don't force him or her out after three tries or when it gets awkward badly.

Comfort means she needed some reassurance from you. You can use Chase's "Pattern Interrupt" or my post on "Do you this with every girl". Chase responds to that post. The post doesn't exactly touch on the topic itself but it should give you have a rough idea on how to move around when women are in their head.

Zac

 

[dsdezzy]

Thank you for the insight. The only problem was the third person had to be there (because his USB was in my laptop, his USB is on a lanyard with his keys); but I have realized that one of my weaknesses is getting the girl to stay in certain situations.That is something that I will have to work on.

 

[trashKENNUT]

dsdezzy,

Thank you for the insight. The only problem was the third person had to be there (because his USB was in my laptop, his USB is on a lanyard with his keys); but I have realized that one of my weaknesses is getting the girl to stay in certain situations.That is something that I will have to work on.

Most guys have this too. Even intermediate guys. This can also be situational circumstances, not you.

Zac