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Hydragoon21

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Hey all,
First post, but I've been following Girls Chase for a while, and I'm trying to put what I've been learning into practice.

So, I met a girl online (OKCupid) and had dinner with her on date #1. It went really well, we seemed to click, and she said she wanted me to hit her up again. She texted me right afterwards to say she had a blast with me, etc., and kept in touch via texting until inviting me over to her place for a movie about five days later.

During the movie, we sat next to each other, and I tried to put my arm around her and hold her hand, but she just wasn't acting receptive. She was laughing and having fun with me, but it felt a lot more like friendship than flirting -- and the night ended with a hug.

With another girl I'm dating, she was touching me and responded when I kissed her, so I know when there are signals of attraction. What's going on with "movie date" girl??
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

PrettyDecent

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Hydragoon,

How long did you wait before making a move? If you waited too long she could've just went cold.

Could also be a clumsy escalation? Sometimes, for whatever reason, you're just not 100% smooth with your touching and escalating that night.

Possibly something else? There's a lot of variables involved, so it'd need an FR to truly find the problem.

Nick
 
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