Contradiction: Disqualify boyfriend?

[Lawliet]

Hey seducer bros,

About setting expectations, we do it through our actions.
Chase says this, so does Ricardus says it too. Do it through how you interact, how much time you spend together...
However, Ricardus says he tells them "I enjoy my single life"
You can find this in "The 9 Secrets to Being a sexy man" and "Don't hurt a girl: Expectations"

So how exactly do we set these expectations?

EDIT: Said, "I like single life" or "I'm not single" when she asks or you bring it up. Got "Why are you here?"
Tempted to go explicit here

 

[foggy]

I believe you are asking how you disqualify yourself as a boyfriend?

I am the type of guy who moves around a lot. I never stay in one city for long. It pains me to have to make a commitment.

When I am deep diving a girl, we talk about feelings, hopes, dreams, future plans, travel, stuff like that. Even though I do not straight out say I am not looking for a commitment, it is pretty well implied through these sorts of topics, therefore disqualifying myself as a boyfriend.

For example, one time me and a girl were discussing whether we are the type of people to make long term plans or not. I mentioned that I don't even know what I'm doing in the next hour, so how could I ever make plans extending past that? That conveys to her that maybe I could just pack up my bags and be gone tomorrow if I really wanted to.

 

[Lawliet]

Wow your lifestyle does the work for you. Nice!

I believe girls who know other girls want you is a disqualification too.
Any thoughts on this?

Lawliet