Conversation out of control

[14sherif]

So lately ivee been following the advice that i should let the woman talk - no 'pumping' valuee.. chilled out
Its been working for me very well until today..

I was with a girl who was very talkative very interesting but i couldnt direct the conversation - she was like a machine! Had i not been trying to pick her up id
think that it was a great conversation but how do you guys steer the conversation in a dating.. sexy kind of frame.. verbally i mean - i had the physical touch and eye contact down today but i was verbally lost!


Appreciate all the advice - feel free to ask for clarification too as i know my description may seem confusing to some!

 

[Franco]

14sherif,

My current girlfriend was like this on our first date. The key is to maintain sexual fundamentals and physically move the interaction forward.

Girls like this can actually be quite easy to pick up simply because guys tend to get lost in how "fun" the girl is and how fun her conversation is that they forget about being sexy and instead try to "befriend" her. This is NOT what you want to do.

Instead, be calm and let her talk and then just reply with whatever feels right to you. But always maintain good posture and flash her sexy smiles when she talks about something that you know about or understand well. Other than that, you just need to move things fast with her by inviting her home and escalating physically. You'll find that girls like this will give little LMR most of the time because most guys are afraid to move things fast with them thinking that these girls are different and want you to be friendly first.

- Franco

 

[Just_Dave]

To add to what Franco said, I also use a combination of the bored look and sexy smile. A bored look comes when she begins talking of things that don't interest me, and the sexy smile is for things of interest. I like these girls since they have a lot of energy and seem fun and exciting. I will suggest to the girls to go on an adventure with, which normally ends up in my home.

 

[Estate]

If she's already talking a lot, then you don't have much work to do. She's already interested...
... all you need to do is pick up on what she is saying and use it to steer the conversation in the direction you want when you are able to briefly interject. All you need to do is just not mess up, she's already doing all the work.