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So I went to the gym this morning pretty pumped up to speak to [T] the hot little Asian girl in cute workout gear who is often on a mat doing stretches, push ups etc on the other side of the gym when I meet my trainer...
I arrive, put my bag away, there's no one there apart from another hotty who I will also speak to sometime but isn't totally my line of country...she isn't in a good place for an opener so I go jump on the tready... I am pushing buttons when [T] comes in. Bingo! This is a stroke of luck. I get ready to jump off the tready and stop her as she walks behind, but she goes off into the bathroom. Oh. So I start the workout.
A minute or two in she comes out and gets on a tready with an empty one between us... I am ready for this! Is it an approach invitation? I think so...
Me: Hey! [half turn]... Come over here! [tries for an investment opener]. [Meets eyes, she looks confused but a little intrigued] [She doesn't comply but I continue anyway]. Do you always work out at this time? [TBH I've never checked her out and she's even hotter than I thought, I think maybe I've got the wrong girl... hahaha]
T: [Expression clears and she looks happy!] Yeah!
Me: Yeah! I've seen you round... I'm Ray. What's your name?
T: I'm T.
Me: Right...[thinks for a moment]...you're from X?
T: [smiles] That's right.
Me: Ohh...[jogs for a bit...lets conversation die down]...[after a while]...your name...what tone is it? up tone, down tone?
T: It's just a level tone...
Me: Oh right...[thinks for a bit..where to go from here..don't want to show off but can't think of anything to say]... I can say [says a formal expression ending in her name in a down tone]... I think it means thank you or something.
T: [she looks intrigued]
Me: Or how about the number N...[says her name in an up tone]
T: [She thinks about this for a bit and says] Yeah! [this is an incredible turn of events since I only know a few sentences of her language]...You are learning X?
Me: Oh, little...little... [jogs a little]... So your workout... you do a lot of... [not sure how to describe it, also don't want to come across like I've been checking her out which I sure have]... what kind of workout do you do?
T: Oh, I used to do a lot of weights...[at least thats what I think she said looking back but I was a little confused at the time]
Me: Right...yeah, you look hot. [Indicates arm muscle...girls sometimes don't want to look built but in my case I love it...not sure how to explain this better]. [Thinks for a bit]... I can say [tells her she looks hot in her language].
T: [Looks confused]
Me: [Tells her totally gorgeous]
T: [She still looks confused]
Me: I need to work on my tones. [smiles... jogs for a bit in silence]
T: Oh! You're saying [something bout beautiful] ... [aha! now she is investing...]
Me: Maybe! [laughs] You can teach me the tones later. [pause] Only you'd be helping the competition... [a chase frame]
T: [laughs at this]
Me: So what brings you to [country]? Studying, ...?
T: I'm a student...
Me: What are you studying?
T: Accounting and finance...
Me: Oh cool...[not sure whether to mention I've studied that too..decide not to..in retrospect I'm missing a lot of deep diving oppties here, on the other hand I wanted to keep it light since we were both jogging and long sentences a bit difficult, also I was talking across an empty tready] whereabouts?
T: [X university which is close by]
Me: [mishearing] [Y university where I study..this might have been wishful thinking hehe]?
T: No X university...Y university is too expensive! [I think I'd better not mention I'm a student especially as I'm kinda old to be one, I'm a mature age postgrad student and according to Chase's articles I need to be already successful and proven at my age].
Me: Right...[jogs for a while] You have classes today?
T: Nah, I'm going into the city today [something I don't catch]
Me: Oh right..how come?
T: For the hairdresser.
Me: No way, I bet you went last week, your hair is perfect! [It really does look stunning, very glossy, feathery cut, best I've seen in a long time]
T: [She smiles but perhaps isn't sure if this is a compliment]
Me: Yeah, I tried a new hairdresser at [shopping centre near my home] [its in the back of an upmarket hair products salon]...it wasn't bad
T: [Looking at me non committally]
Me: So I had a totally bad haircut last month, had to let it grow out again for 3 weeks and try somewhere different... was really happy with it. [yes, I know this is a male storytelling style and I should have frontloaded emotion and gotten more involvement from her..but hey I told a story and she listened]...
T: [I don't see her response cos I'm not looking]... [we jog for a bit]... OK I'd better start my workout...see you [smile]
Me: Oh sure, later then [smile and nod]. [I finish a few minutes later and do some stretches before my trainer arrives]
I don't speak to her after my workout since she's on the other side of the gym and it might be awkward..
I guess another day I can stop her for a chat that isn't on a tready and might be a bit easier to keep going...now that we are acquainted...or possibly I f'd it up by being too boring, missing deep diving opportunities and sexual framing opportunities...writing the FR helps to see this though...will have to see what happens, not banking on anything...
cheers, Ray
I arrive, put my bag away, there's no one there apart from another hotty who I will also speak to sometime but isn't totally my line of country...she isn't in a good place for an opener so I go jump on the tready... I am pushing buttons when [T] comes in. Bingo! This is a stroke of luck. I get ready to jump off the tready and stop her as she walks behind, but she goes off into the bathroom. Oh. So I start the workout.
A minute or two in she comes out and gets on a tready with an empty one between us... I am ready for this! Is it an approach invitation? I think so...
Me: Hey! [half turn]... Come over here! [tries for an investment opener]. [Meets eyes, she looks confused but a little intrigued] [She doesn't comply but I continue anyway]. Do you always work out at this time? [TBH I've never checked her out and she's even hotter than I thought, I think maybe I've got the wrong girl... hahaha]
T: [Expression clears and she looks happy!] Yeah!
Me: Yeah! I've seen you round... I'm Ray. What's your name?
T: I'm T.
Me: Right...[thinks for a moment]...you're from X?
T: [smiles] That's right.
Me: Ohh...[jogs for a bit...lets conversation die down]...[after a while]...your name...what tone is it? up tone, down tone?
T: It's just a level tone...
Me: Oh right...[thinks for a bit..where to go from here..don't want to show off but can't think of anything to say]... I can say [says a formal expression ending in her name in a down tone]... I think it means thank you or something.
T: [she looks intrigued]
Me: Or how about the number N...[says her name in an up tone]
T: [She thinks about this for a bit and says] Yeah! [this is an incredible turn of events since I only know a few sentences of her language]...You are learning X?
Me: Oh, little...little... [jogs a little]... So your workout... you do a lot of... [not sure how to describe it, also don't want to come across like I've been checking her out which I sure have]... what kind of workout do you do?
T: Oh, I used to do a lot of weights...[at least thats what I think she said looking back but I was a little confused at the time]
Me: Right...yeah, you look hot. [Indicates arm muscle...girls sometimes don't want to look built but in my case I love it...not sure how to explain this better]. [Thinks for a bit]... I can say [tells her she looks hot in her language].
T: [Looks confused]
Me: [Tells her totally gorgeous]
T: [She still looks confused]
Me: I need to work on my tones. [smiles... jogs for a bit in silence]
T: Oh! You're saying [something bout beautiful] ... [aha! now she is investing...]
Me: Maybe! [laughs] You can teach me the tones later. [pause] Only you'd be helping the competition... [a chase frame]
T: [laughs at this]
Me: So what brings you to [country]? Studying, ...?
T: I'm a student...
Me: What are you studying?
T: Accounting and finance...
Me: Oh cool...[not sure whether to mention I've studied that too..decide not to..in retrospect I'm missing a lot of deep diving oppties here, on the other hand I wanted to keep it light since we were both jogging and long sentences a bit difficult, also I was talking across an empty tready] whereabouts?
T: [X university which is close by]
Me: [mishearing] [Y university where I study..this might have been wishful thinking hehe]?
T: No X university...Y university is too expensive! [I think I'd better not mention I'm a student especially as I'm kinda old to be one, I'm a mature age postgrad student and according to Chase's articles I need to be already successful and proven at my age].
Me: Right...[jogs for a while] You have classes today?
T: Nah, I'm going into the city today [something I don't catch]
Me: Oh right..how come?
T: For the hairdresser.
Me: No way, I bet you went last week, your hair is perfect! [It really does look stunning, very glossy, feathery cut, best I've seen in a long time]
T: [She smiles but perhaps isn't sure if this is a compliment]
Me: Yeah, I tried a new hairdresser at [shopping centre near my home] [its in the back of an upmarket hair products salon]...it wasn't bad
T: [Looking at me non committally]
Me: So I had a totally bad haircut last month, had to let it grow out again for 3 weeks and try somewhere different... was really happy with it. [yes, I know this is a male storytelling style and I should have frontloaded emotion and gotten more involvement from her..but hey I told a story and she listened]...
T: [I don't see her response cos I'm not looking]... [we jog for a bit]... OK I'd better start my workout...see you [smile]
Me: Oh sure, later then [smile and nod]. [I finish a few minutes later and do some stretches before my trainer arrives]
I don't speak to her after my workout since she's on the other side of the gym and it might be awkward..
I guess another day I can stop her for a chat that isn't on a tready and might be a bit easier to keep going...now that we are acquainted...or possibly I f'd it up by being too boring, missing deep diving opportunities and sexual framing opportunities...writing the FR helps to see this though...will have to see what happens, not banking on anything...
cheers, Ray
