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Today, I had a realisation that the reason I was having trouble in conversations during daygame was only cuz I had only been talking about women, history, geo politics, career, psychology, places for the most part since last 1.5 years and cuz of that I had not practiced how to talk to women.
And when for a 2-3 months when I was building up my social circle and was talking to.lot of women.. After whatever happened with a certain bitch. That had made me really sad that I stopped talking with women altogether since this January ( in my social circle).
So, these two reasons and especially the second one really made me believe that I had lost the ability to have a conversation with women( which was making me prematurely eject and making me doubt my own abilities) but as I am practicing my conversation skills with women daily(not in daygame) , i have begin to realise my issue here.
It's just a simple thing. I have to focus more on being a better conversationalist from a seductive pov too. I have already become a great conversationalist from other povs. I can talk well, listen well but only when it was about certain topics or when the other person was leading the Convo. Talk about bad leadership .
Its crazy that I realised it today. So, will focus on leading the conversation. As I can definitely talk with people. I literally had forgot how to have a conversation with women (whether friendly or seductive).
I do not mean conversations which are logical, topic related. I only mean inter-personal (no idea if it's a word) conversations.
I hope I got my point across.
I just have to change my habits. So, this also means to have less conversations about seduction as well.
Note: also the fact I had used hit and run approach method so.much in the past...is also a habit that I quit from today. It has served it's purpose, no longer useful. Now it's just making bad behavioural patterns.
And when for a 2-3 months when I was building up my social circle and was talking to.lot of women.. After whatever happened with a certain bitch. That had made me really sad that I stopped talking with women altogether since this January ( in my social circle).
So, these two reasons and especially the second one really made me believe that I had lost the ability to have a conversation with women( which was making me prematurely eject and making me doubt my own abilities) but as I am practicing my conversation skills with women daily(not in daygame) , i have begin to realise my issue here.
It's just a simple thing. I have to focus more on being a better conversationalist from a seductive pov too. I have already become a great conversationalist from other povs. I can talk well, listen well but only when it was about certain topics or when the other person was leading the Convo. Talk about bad leadership .
Its crazy that I realised it today. So, will focus on leading the conversation. As I can definitely talk with people. I literally had forgot how to have a conversation with women (whether friendly or seductive).
I do not mean conversations which are logical, topic related. I only mean inter-personal (no idea if it's a word) conversations.
I hope I got my point across.
I just have to change my habits. So, this also means to have less conversations about seduction as well.
Note: also the fact I had used hit and run approach method so.much in the past...is also a habit that I quit from today. It has served it's purpose, no longer useful. Now it's just making bad behavioural patterns.
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