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- Sep 24, 2013
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I need a pre-selection boost with a girl who I'm seeing. Until I'm exclusive with her, I am seeing other women, which I have told her. My value has taken a minor hit from appearing too invested, so what is an acceptable way of showing that I am indeed seeing other women in the meantime? When she inquires about how I've been or what I've been up to, should I say "oh, nothing too exciting, just went out for dinner", or something vague that sounds like it could be date-like? Is it a good idea to show her pictures on your phone, while scrolling by pictures of you with other women? Chase's main article on pre-selection seems to focus on having another girl actually see you in-person with another woman, although I was wondering about more indirect means of using it. I want to use it not so much to ramp up attraction, but to create a sense of urgency that I might pursue another option if things don't get serious. The main concern is crossing the line into jealousy or appearing like a player who isn't looking for a relationship.
