LR Country Girl

[Estate]

Hey guys,
So... I'm breaking my own rules here, I usually don't write FR/LR but I'm thinking of starting to write at least "lite" versions of some interactions (to still preserve some privacy) but keep the motivation up. I have a habit of just forgetting about things after a week or two if I meet another girl, but when I lack motivation, I don't make enough effort. A little reminder helps keep the momentum up.

Some of these will be over the past few months. Here goes one... this was actually from just over a month ago.

Rolling Solo
A week prior to this I was at a bar with 2 friends. Our usual night. They'd stand around bitching about how every girl was stuck up, she was too tall, she was too short, every girl there was ugly, there were no girls there, blah blah. As usual I'd grow bored and go talk to some girls... and as usual these 2 guys would either try to blow me out or in this case, as things were going well, one of them blew up and go seriously mad that he had seen the girl first and I had cock blocked him (sure dude, I haven't seen you approach a girl in over a year. Their rules basically consist of not approaching ayone ever but if someone else in the group does, they insist that they already liked the girl, any girl in the room basically, as we are all cock blocks.)

So this weekend I decided it was time to go back to going solo.

I decided to hit up one of the busy downtown areas of Boston. Since things are slow to kick off on a Friday, I made my way there around 10.30pm. It's a big bar, 3 big rooms, band playing in the back room. It was still filling up as I rolled in. So I hit the bar to grab a beer to chill and scope out the room, Sox game on in the background. Made some small talk with some girls passing through, if nothing else, I might see them again later.

Do you know the band?
An hour passes and I'm still really doing the same. Time to get something going. The front room is fairly quiet. A lot of couples there since they are just sitting in booths or whatever, people are coming from the other room to get drinks since there's no wait. So time to hit the backroom. There's a country band playing. I'm dressed up, dark jeans, white shirt and blazer... way over-dressed for the Bro-y crowd but this tends to be the norm. My version of peacocking and damn does it work. Within a few minutes 2 women had already approached me to comment on my style. We bantered a bit, the first I wasn't into but was trying to be pleasant (I'm still a little too nice to be bitchy to girls I'm not into, I'll make small talk and let it trail off until they get the hint...), the other was cute but about 5"1'. We got seperated after a few minutes but that was cool... I'd see her again

Next a guy approached me and started paying me compliments. First impression was he was gay and trying his luck because of how I was dressed but I quickly learned he was runing some MM PUA game and was trying to use me as social proof while working the room a bit. Cool, he seemed like an ok guy but his game was a bit too out there for me to get on board with.

I lost my friends
I went to grab another drink to the side of the stage. Just as I was served an absolute gorgeous blonde came up to me from behind. Long blonde hair, blue eyes, about 5"7', at a guess, tight body... mmm... my type exactly.

- Her: I lost my friends, will you come with me and help me find them?
- Me: I like this song, stay with me, if they are cool friends they'll come find you here (gently wrap my arm around her waist and pull her in while I say it into her ear.)
- Her: OMG! You won't help me?
- Me: Oh they'll find you, we'll have a better time here.
- Her: *bitchy look disappears, wraps arm around me* What's you name?
- Next five minutes: blah blah blah.

By this stage we're just bantering, she's throwing a few tests at me but I'm either responding by, or throwing her a little look like "Aw... cute, you're testing me", and she immediately drops it again and gets closer.

Soon her friends are back... they want to know who I am. I chat to a couple of them, they like me, one of them insists that she twerks for me.... HAHAHA (One advantage of being foreign is you can play dumb about some things like "Oh, a twerk? What's that? Some kind of American thing? You should show me."... hahaha)

While this is going on I'm keeping my peripherals on the blonde. I can see she's a little jealous now. She's not leaving but she's pretending not to care while also keeping me in her sight. The girls decide it's time to go dancing and they start to run off... the blonde grabs me as they run off and says "Come on, we're going dancing!" grabbing my hand and trying to drag me to the dancefloor. I gave her another "Aw, so cute" look and held firm where I was... then pulled her back into me.

- Her: Ugh, you just failed the first test
- Me: Oh, haha, did I?

I slowly pushed her back against the corner... put my hand around the back of her head and started making out like crazy.

We did that for a while, her friends came back... and I got the "we're going to the bathroom" line...
I know what that can mean, but I figure it's another test, this girl seems intent on just seeing how I react to things so I just look unphased and she comes back... sure enough she did.
I grabbed her and said "NOW we go dance", I wanted and excuse not to let me or her get distracted by her friends again.

Spent the next while switching between dancing and making out on the floor. She was grinding up against me, was wearing jeans and a flowy top so I started with my hand on her hips and began to move it around to her stomach, under her top to keep her close......
Man... that stomach was TIIIIIIGHT! MMMMM.....
If she wasn't close enough I put one hand around her hips while my other is inside her jeans pocket and pulled her right in and she's grinding HARDER.

The sexual tension is growing...
She leans back:

- Her: Where do you live?
- Me: <Name of place> (About 15 minutes away.)
- Her: That's no good, I live 5 minutes away.... (I know what that means...)
- Me: I'm tired of dancing, let's get out of here...

And that my friends... is a wrap...

PG13 up to here, I'll leave the rest of the night up to your imagination.

 

[RDawg]

Estate

Great job on the lay!

- Her: I lost my friends, will you come with me and help me find them?
- Me: I like this song, stay with me, if they are cool friends they'll come find you here (gently wrap my arm around her waist and pull her in while I say it into her ear.)
- Her: OMG! You won't help me?
- Me: Oh they'll find you, we'll have a better time here.
- Her: *bitchy look disappears, wraps arm around me* What's you name?
- Next five minutes: blah blah blah.

Nice work, this is smooth and dominate!

While this is going on I'm keeping my peripherals on the blonde. I can see she's a little jealous now. She's not leaving but she's pretending not to care while also keeping me in her sight. The girls decide it's time to go dancing and they start to run off... the blonde grabs me as they run off and says "Come on, we're going dancing!" grabbing my hand and trying to drag me to the dancefloor. I gave her another "Aw, so cute" look and held firm where I was... then pulled her back into me.

- Her: Ugh, you just failed the first test
- Me: Oh, haha, did I?

I slowly pushed her back against the corner... put my hand around the back of her head and started making out like crazy.

I like the way you lead here and basically tell/show her how things are going to go down

We did that for a while, her friends came back... and I got the "we're going to the bathroom" line...
I know what that can mean, but I figure it's another test, this girl seems intent on just seeing how I react to things so I just look unphased and she comes back... sure enough she did.
I grabbed her and said "NOW we go dance", I wanted and excuse not to let me or her get distracted by her friends again.

Spent the next while switching between dancing and making out on the floor. She was grinding up against me, was wearing jeans and a flowy top so I started with my hand on her hips and began to move it around to her stomach, under her top to keep her close......
Man... that stomach was TIIIIIIGHT! MMMMM.....
If she wasn't close enough I put one hand around her hips while my other is inside her jeans pocket and pulled her right in and she's grinding HARDER.

The sexual tension is growing...
She leans back:

- Her: Where do you live?
- Me: <Name of place> (About 15 minutes away.)
- Her: That's no good, I live 5 minutes away.... (I know what that means...)
- Me: I'm tired of dancing, let's get out of here...

And that my friends... is a wrap...

PG13 up to here, I'll leave the rest of the night up to your imagination.

Solid work here too! This last part here sounds exactly like how some of my pulls go lol. Right when the girl's asks "where do you live?", you know it's on

Overall, great work! Keep it up buddy

- Rdawg

 

[PinotNoir]

Reading this I felt like you were just bored during the entire interaction haha, like nothing new.

Anyway, awesome to read a LR from you, as it's interesting to see each person's unique style shine through a bit. So thanks for sharing.

I wonder why your friends are like that. Most of my male friends are pretty good about trying to egg each other on to approach women when we're at a bar. It seems kind of strange to me that your friends are like that.

 

[Estate]

Cheers!

Haha, not bored at all. But yeah, my style tends to be strong and silent type. I'm not very "in your face".
Once you've done the same thing a few times, you can sort of lay back and let it play out to get to the end goal. If I overthink things trying to find the perfect line or comeback all the time, I just mess myself up.

Often girls mistake me as shy or quiet before talking to me (which I once was) but then actually seem pleasantly surprised by how strong and dominant I can be. In a weird way I think it works for me. Like she'll think I'm just a "nice guy" and am easy to lead on but then suddenly I turn the tables.

I'm probably introverted by nature which is why Mystery Method, etc just never felt normal for me... I think I lead with actions more than words even. Like when a girl is throwing tests at me, I don't really try to concoct the perfect response to "Zing!" her... I just let her say her thing, give that little smirk like I know what she's doing but it's sort of cute anyway, and once it's out of her system, I just take control back by leading her somewhere or kissing her or whatever.

On the friends thing, I just don't know. I can probably only name 2 or 3 guys I've known in my entire life who were genuinely good with girls. Unfortunately my best wingman in Boston moved away about 12 months ago. He was awesome.
Most other guys just don't know what they are at but have no desire to change things. These 2 in particular are just hung up on the "whoa is me, why don't girls like me, they're so stuck up" thing. Most guys I've known only love the opportunity to see you fail to land a girl you've approached and tear you down over it, even though they don't approach themselves. I guess it's an ego boost to just tear someone else down instead of building them up when it's something they can't/won't do themselves.
I've offered advice/support to them in the past about various situations with women they've been in but it falls on deaf ears so I leave it go.

 

[sneaky_charm]

- Her: I lost my friends, will you come with me and help me find them?
- Me: I like this song, stay with me, if they are cool friends they'll come find you here (gently wrap my arm around her waist and pull her in while I say it into her ear.)

I've one question. Is the "lost my friend" excuse supposed to be a test? If you had said "Sure, let's find them", would she have thought you were a beta, making you lose immediately?

 

[Estate]

- Her: I lost my friends, will you come with me and help me find them?
- Me: I like this song, stay with me, if they are cool friends they'll come find you here (gently wrap my arm around her waist and pull her in while I say it into her ear.)

I've one question. Is the "lost my friend" excuse supposed to be a test? If you had said "Sure, let's find them", would she have thought you were a beta, making you lose immediately?

I didn't really see that as a test.. just an excuse for her to open me.
I didn't like the idea of following her around though and since it was just an excuse to talk to me there was no point in doing it. I could talk to her right there.

If I was more aggressive here.. I guess I could have used that as an immediate excuse to move her somewhere private... but I'm too nice like that..

 

[Raqimus]

Very simple and straight to the point, I also tend to try to use my nonverbals when tests come up because my mouth tends to fuck shit up for me back to thenonverbals tho could you use that "awe your so cute" look to pass virtually any test where she tries to lead you or is it more situational? Lastly what spots do you recommend for downtown in terms of bars around the commons or farther in like around cure, I try Fenway but it's more neighborly there the info would be appreciated and good report it's similar to what I want to pull off!

 

[Estate]

Hey man,
Didn't realize we had more Bostonians here.

So I'll admit that my friends would say I'm quick witted but when I don't know someone, my introverted side can come out. That's why relying heavily on non-verbals and just leading works well for me.
On the tests, what I do is a little tilt of the head, a little smirk and heavy eye contact. She knows that I know she's testing me, then just break it by moving her, changing subject, whatever. It works a lot but some girls will persist. In that case, it buys you a few seconds to have a good comeback if you're not as quick on the draw but a that point the usual advice applies... like agree and amplify, remain unphased, talk slow, etc, etc.

As for where to go:
I'm a believer that you can game anywhere but you have to tailor it to your surroundings and the crowd. I just turned 30 so I'm a little bit over the college crowd. Any bars or lounges downtown where there's a mix of mid-20's and young professionals are what I like. I'm partial to a cheesy cover band though so most Fanueil bars, Landsdowne, Burren, some parts of Seaport during the week and oh... the hidden gem... Nix's Mate in the downtown Hilton... doesn't draw huge crowds but you've got the live music and guaranteed girls all dolled up for the night.

I haven't done the club scene in a while, personal preference. It does attract some smokes but I find a big part of the scene is being seen and being known. You can work around that with tight game for sure as most of those guys have, as I said, zero game, just a lot of BS talk about their "money" but the knockon is that I rarely met women around there with a lot going for themselves. They hang out there to be seen and meet those guys... if you go elsewhere in the city you're much more likely to find "non-party" girls who probably have a lot more going for themselves than just clubbing every night. Besides that, the club seen is dominated by Asian guys/girls students for some reason. If you're into that, it's a gold mine, if not, waste of time. That's just personal preference.

The student bars are pretty easy. Most guys just wear the "bro-uniform". Even an ounce of style makes you stand out exponentially. Not being hammered drunk is a bonus too since a lot of guys get super-aggressive by mid-night around here (the pseudo-Irish alcohol tolerance they seem to believe they have.)
If you do the student bars, I find the girls to be sort of "floofy". The GC style is great for me because it's easy to roll up to a bar, even alone, and strike up some suave conversation with those around you. In a college bar, you really can just drop all that. You can literally open a girl by asking what her favorite vegetable is, it doesn't matter, she likes you or she doesn't. Instead of being super-smooth, just lead the interaction, be able to at least dance a little and go for the make-out. It's a pretty easy set-up.

The upscale places can be tougher but very worth it. Tougher because there's no loud music, girls are huddled together over tapas at a table, they won't be drunk and they don't create a lot of opportunities for you. But if you're willing to stick it out you'll meet some really top notch women in these places.

 

[Raqimus]

Alright cool, I'll head towards and try hitting up some bars tomorrow since I've never really tried my hand at them. On the nonverbals I'll try that for a while for shit tests then lead a bit thanks. Tons of info I can use maybe I'll see ya round dude