LR- Country Twang

[ray_zorse]

Very inspiring brother. Sounds like you are putting the hard yards in (going out night after night) and being appropriately rewarded. I'd like to have the control over the convo that you describe, to keep her investing slightly more, in principle I know how but in practice it's quite difficult to do. Note to self: Don't lead the conversation so much. Use more silences and baiting and strong sexual EC. Reward her chasing (asking questions and investing) with more of my body and attention and EC and less of the bored look. Anyway, nice pull and it was good how you handled her tests (you didn't text me etc) and just persisted like fuck in the pulling and escalation department without chasing (I probably wouldn't have said "can't blame me for trying" though, as you somewhat chase framed yourself, you could have said "you know you want it").

Hopefully she was legit about the BC and will be more receptive when on it. And it's not a "fuck (your hand) and dump" situation, sex regret can be a problem w this kind of girl unfortunately.

Ray

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Radeng,

I lead her to my bed and take off her dress, but panties are still a no no. We get in bed and make out for a while more and now I have lost my erection and am having a bit of trouble getting it back. After a while of making out, I slip my hand into her panties with no resistance and this girl is dripping wet. I finger her for a bit and get my erection back and go for a condom to which she vehemently rejects. She then says again that she should probably leave. But she starts to tell me how she is going to be leaving in July, and this can't be more than a fling. I tell her thats fine and I am totally ok with this being no strings attached. I had to contain myself from jumping for joy.

At this point, you should say something like "wow...you're just dripping wet...but OF COURSE you don't wanna have sex. That'd be crazy, wouldn't it?" and then take your hand out of her pants and just lay back. Girls who are this bubbly are really easy to lay once you let them do all the work. Her Happy-Meal brain can't stand boredom, so the minute you start really chilling out, as long as you've made your interest very directly clear by trying a few times, she'll chase you HARD.

She's the kind girl where you pull the move I just suggested and after having normal conversation for a bit, she starts rubbing your chest and smiling at you lustily. It's really cute.

Also, when a girl is incessantly saying "I really should be going," but then she's staying in the bed with you and saying it with a really sarcastic tone, just keep giving stupid alternative reasons. One girl did this with me. I brought her home from the library and while in bed she kept saying, "I really should get going" and then proceeded to RUB MY CHEST and LAY ON TOP of me. I couldn't contain my laughter and just said dumb shit like, "ORRRRRRRRRR, you could stay" and then kiss her. After a few more exchanges, my dick was inside of her.

I honestly think I could have closed this with full on sex, but I just didn't have the will power to push through any more barriers and it was getting pretty late.

This. When she's being stern, back off and chill out. But if she's obviously playing with you, try as many times as you'd like. Don't let your ego get in the way of a lay. Can't take the resistance personally.

- Hector