Date Plans Couple Asked Me to Fuck The Wife -- First Time Bull

[Regal Tiger]

Currently working at a strip club and this couple came in. At first I thought that both of them were into me, but long story short he just wants to watch

Any advice? I've done a lotta stuff but this is a new one for me and it's happening tomorrow


Current plan of action: gauge what they're into, safe words and whatnot. Escalate once I've got an idea of what they're into

 

[DoWhatWorks]

@topcat ’s done similar with a GF/BF before

From what he told me, have no big deal sociable vibes then naturally escalate when it makes sense

 

[Skills]

Just remember to be neutral don't take sides if they have mini disagreements, try no to be a pimp or greedy or sneaky and get info or game behind hubby back.... Always pay attention and respect to hubby before making moves....here is a lay report:

My first cuckhold adventure (Tales from the club) - The Skills Method

Going to cover many aspects of night life and the beauty of night game and why is better than any other game… First what is a cuckhold: “Not simply a … Continue Reading →

www.theskillsmethod.com

 

[topcat]

Nice.

Yeah I’d suggest not to make assumptions including about the use of safe words or anything like that. They may not have any nor care about them.

Go in relaxed and friendly, with general chit chat and get to know them first. Small talk, call backs to the night you met them. Compliment them in their open mindedness.

Theirs high chance they know what they’re doing and will move to get the ball rolling on their own, read body language but if they aren’t shy (which it doesn’t sound like they are) they’ll probably just get right to the point. At around this point establish things they are comfortable with and less comfortable with. Then get to it and give her a good time.

In these situations you are basically a prop. As skills said work around and with the couple. Check in with the woman especially but also the man that they are comfortable, sometimes verbally but watch body language too.

 

[TomInHo]

It’s not hard really especially since they have experience. Just chit chat with them socially then you can introduce sexual talk like what kinks they’re into, how they found the lifestyle, kinds of fantasies they would like to explore

Also don’t be shy to share some of your sexual exploits too in a calibrated manner of course

When they get comfy you can then do some light escalations on the woman and usually by then the guy will give you the green light to go all the way because you’re a cool guy that’s just there to help them improve their sex life

 

[Regal Tiger]

I could be totally off base here, but I get the feeling that the wife is clearly in charge here and I don't think this is new to them. The guy himself talked to me a little bit that night, moreso than the girl actually. At first I thought they both wanted to fuck me, which I wouldn't be into at all. But I've been talking to her a little bit today just trying to get a baseline

It seemed like she wanted for me to just come straight over and get right down to it immediately but I suggested to chill just a little bit first. So either this is their first time and they're looking to me for guidance (lol the blind leading the blind) or it's like their billionth time and it's just like changing underwear for them at this point. I'm not sure which, but with how the guy was amping me up a bit I lean more towards it not being their first time


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Actually yeah, typing that out I don't think it is for them. I assumed the girl was more in charge just because she's the one I'm talking to over IG but with how the guy was talking to me maybe they just already have their rules set in place and they think I'll fit into them super well? It's happening tomorrow but here's a question, especially at @topcat since it seems you've done this a few times:

What should I know about them? As in, what should I be looking for do you think?

I'm personally uncomfortable with just going in and getting straight to it which is why I wanted to chill for like 10-20 minutes first and try to get a general feel for both of them outside of them being drunk. I'm big on self-preservation, can you tell lol

It's a new experience so I find it more mentally fascinating than sexually stimulating at the moment, which could also be why I want to try and get a general feel for them first. Not sure, just feel like it's the best thing to do in this situation

 

[Regal Tiger]

It’s not hard really especially since they have experience. Just chit chat with them socially then you can introduce sexual talk like what kinks they’re into, how they found the lifestyle, kinds of fantasies they would like to explore

Also don’t be shy to share some of your sexual exploits too in a calibrated manner of course

When they get comfy you can the do some light escalations on the woman and usually by then the guy will give you the green light to go all the way because you’re a cool guy that’s just there to help them improve their sex life

Makes sense and sounds like a good general game plan that I'll probably default to

 

[topcat]

I could be totally off base here, but I get the feeling that the wife is clearly in charge here and I don't think this is new to them. The guy himself talked to me a little bit that night, moreso than the girl actually. At first I thought they both wanted to fuck me, which I wouldn't be into at all. But I've been talking to her a little bit today just trying to get a baseline

It seemed like she wanted for me to just come straight over and get right down to it immediately but I suggested to chill just a little bit first. So either this is their first time and they're looking to me for guidance (lol the blind leading the blind) or it's like their billionth time and it's just like changing underwear for them at this point. I'm not sure which, but with how the guy was amping me up a bit I lean more towards it not being their first time


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Actually yeah, typing that out I don't think it is for them. I assumed the girl was more in charge just because she's the one I'm talking to over IG but with how the guy was talking to me maybe they just already have their rules set in place and they think I'll fit into them super well? It's happening tomorrow but here's a question, especially at @topcat since it seems you've done this a few times:

What should I know about them? As in, what should I be looking for do you think?

I'm personally uncomfortable with just going in and getting straight to it which is why I wanted to chill for like 10-20 minutes first and try to get a general feel for both of them outside of them being drunk. I'm big on self-preservation, can you tell lol

It's a new experience so I find it more mentally fascinating than sexually stimulating at the moment, which could also be why I want to try and get a general feel for them first. Not sure, just feel like it's the best thing to do in this situation

Yeah that’s pretty typical from what i’ve seen. It’s the woman’s idea ultimately, the boyfriend/husband gets on board (it gets him off or some sort of subtle supplication to keep his woman). The man then is responsible for finding and vetting safe men.

I get the mental curiosity over sexual stimulation part. It’s how i felt about it too, got off more in the novelty of it and also controlling a new vibe and giving the couple a good time.

My advice: don’t overthink it, go in there and be cool. I get the self preservation part, i felt it too and not to scare you but anything can happen. More than likely nothing will. If you’re scared don’t go. If you’re gunna go, don’t be scared.

10 mins for chit chat is likely enough, but you can’t gauge this beforehand. Just go with the flow. If comfort setting needs to be done it should be because they want to vet you beforehand over drinks or whatever. They seem to have done the vetting already at the club. If you go in asking for more comfort to get in the right headspace they might get the idea that this ain’t for you (and they’d be right).

It’s a fun experience my dude. Go in, relax, enjoy the woman alongside her man. Give em an experience to remember.

Oh also, go into this sober.

 

[Skills]

Tiger, you are over thinking with the safe words(don't mention this)etc... Sometimes women in charge, sometimes dude in charge... Sometimes is mutual, read the lay report I linked also maybe this post can give you an idea:

Swinger club game - The Skills Method

This is more for advance players that have been in seduction for at least couple of years and are getting consistent results. The second group I recommend this is for … Continue Reading →

www.theskillsmethod.com

 

[Skills]

It’s not hard really especially since they have experience. Just chit chat with them socially then you can introduce sexual talk like what kinks they’re into, how they found the lifestyle, kinds of fantasies they would like to explore

Also don’t be shy to share some of your sexual exploits too in a calibrated manner of course

When they get comfy you can then do some light escalations on the woman and usually by then the guy will give you the green light to go all the way because you’re a cool guy that’s just there to help them improve their sex life

I would not mention sexual exploits.... Just say you have experience with the lifestyle... lifestyle is a code for sexual open community.... remember that word tyger

 

[Regal Tiger]

Haha yeah, I appreciate all the advice everyone. Deep down I'm just an anxious nerd who wants to know everything


And I do like to show off so I'll probably bring in my A game

 

[Regal Tiger]

Not gonna lie, got nervous and then when I got there everything was cool and comfortable. But I forgot to hydrate properly and had a few issues. Managed to soldier through and they were cool, apparently I was better than I gave myself credit for because they already invited me back next week lol

It was definitely interesting

 

[Skills]

Not gonna lie, got nervous and then when I got there everything was cool and comfortable. But I forgot to hydrate properly and had a few issues. Managed to soldier through and they were cool, apparently I was better than I gave myself credit for because they already invited me back next week lol

It was definitely interesting

Write a lr

 

[Regal Tiger]

Write a lr

I would be it would be pretty lame, I literally didn't even do all that much. I was basically chosen lol

When I met them I talked to them for like... maybe 3 minutes total? Went over and talked for around 10 or so just asking basic questions about what they wanted out of everything as well as hobbies and then we got started