There's this place I often go to for beers and taking my mind off things. I have a few friends there, including the owner, and I have been a regular for a few years now.
From time to time I use it as a proving ground for the techniques I learn on GC, or just to flirt lightly with the female clientele.
Also, I do get drunk there, eventually, so I have sometimes been somewhat 'outgoing' on a few occasions.
By this I mean there is this girl I am not entirely interested in, but wouldn't mind a joyride with either, who started calling me a creep after this episode I am about to tell.
She lives right next door so I see her there quite often, and I noticed many signs of attraction from her (she is constantly flirty/bantering with me, touches me, bumps into me etc.), although she has an official boyfriend - but I never actively seduced her.
One time her sister was in town and they came together. Things started getting sexual with her sister from the outset, and she started acting jokingly protective towards her, like an older sister would. Eventually the three of us were kind of tipsy and her little sister starts being all flirty and caresses my chest insistently commenting my muscles and mockingly belittling them. Shortly thereafter the older sister joins the fun and starts touching and caressing me the same way.
Neither of them is really that attractive to me but this was kind of sexual and they have a little spark that turns me on anyway. I never intended to seduce either of them, and wanted to see how much I could get away with, so I tell them that they are turning me on and start touching their boobs in public (ahah that was crazy fun). At some point I suggested the three of us head upstairs to her apartment to really see how much fun we could have. The little one reacts with mock contempt, but she was dripping and started giving me 'the eye', whereas the older one starts bitching and says that what I am doing is not appropriate and that they can touch my chest but not otherwise and that will be it, immediately spoiling the sexual vibe.
After this episode our mutual friends tell me she told them (and another girl, I was told, was there to support her claim by nodding her head - although I barely even spoke with her) that I am "smarmy". She started acting a little colder although I wouldn't say she's aloof, just friendly. She never said this to my face.
I am thinking whether I should confront her and let her know that she should at least have the honesty of telling things to my face or shrugging it off as if nothing ever happened.
What's your advice?
From time to time I use it as a proving ground for the techniques I learn on GC, or just to flirt lightly with the female clientele.
Also, I do get drunk there, eventually, so I have sometimes been somewhat 'outgoing' on a few occasions.
By this I mean there is this girl I am not entirely interested in, but wouldn't mind a joyride with either, who started calling me a creep after this episode I am about to tell.
She lives right next door so I see her there quite often, and I noticed many signs of attraction from her (she is constantly flirty/bantering with me, touches me, bumps into me etc.), although she has an official boyfriend - but I never actively seduced her.
One time her sister was in town and they came together. Things started getting sexual with her sister from the outset, and she started acting jokingly protective towards her, like an older sister would. Eventually the three of us were kind of tipsy and her little sister starts being all flirty and caresses my chest insistently commenting my muscles and mockingly belittling them. Shortly thereafter the older sister joins the fun and starts touching and caressing me the same way.
Neither of them is really that attractive to me but this was kind of sexual and they have a little spark that turns me on anyway. I never intended to seduce either of them, and wanted to see how much I could get away with, so I tell them that they are turning me on and start touching their boobs in public (ahah that was crazy fun). At some point I suggested the three of us head upstairs to her apartment to really see how much fun we could have. The little one reacts with mock contempt, but she was dripping and started giving me 'the eye', whereas the older one starts bitching and says that what I am doing is not appropriate and that they can touch my chest but not otherwise and that will be it, immediately spoiling the sexual vibe.
After this episode our mutual friends tell me she told them (and another girl, I was told, was there to support her claim by nodding her head - although I barely even spoke with her) that I am "smarmy". She started acting a little colder although I wouldn't say she's aloof, just friendly. She never said this to my face.
I am thinking whether I should confront her and let her know that she should at least have the honesty of telling things to my face or shrugging it off as if nothing ever happened.
What's your advice?
