I was perusing that thought for a while:
Why everyone tell me to cross the bridge and be interested to others?
Crossing the bridge toward others…
I was thinking about it before trying it.
Then I told myself: "Oh well, let's do this". Of course, my results dramatically improved socially.
Now without questioning the usefulness of this, I still can't help but wonder:
Obviously, there's other people around beside me who are doing this (otherwise, I would be the only one to relate to people in my vicinity). But why they never ever came to me until I cross the bridge to them? What make them choose to cross the bridge with other people but not me? What is it that the others are doing to attract this that I don't?
Somebody knows something about that?
I'm sure many of you faced the same challenge I did.
(Sometime, I wonder if being less relatable is a de facto pre requirement to be interested by this seduction/socialization stuff)
… and please, I don't ask from a victim mentality perspective, I have no intention to stop crossing the bridge with others anyway. I'm just wondering if I'm not missing something here.
Why everyone tell me to cross the bridge and be interested to others?
Crossing the bridge toward others…
I was thinking about it before trying it.
Then I told myself: "Oh well, let's do this". Of course, my results dramatically improved socially.
Now without questioning the usefulness of this, I still can't help but wonder:
Obviously, there's other people around beside me who are doing this (otherwise, I would be the only one to relate to people in my vicinity). But why they never ever came to me until I cross the bridge to them? What make them choose to cross the bridge with other people but not me? What is it that the others are doing to attract this that I don't?
Somebody knows something about that?
I'm sure many of you faced the same challenge I did.
(Sometime, I wonder if being less relatable is a de facto pre requirement to be interested by this seduction/socialization stuff)
… and please, I don't ask from a victim mentality perspective, I have no intention to stop crossing the bridge with others anyway. I'm just wondering if I'm not missing something here.
