Cruise LR

[RustinKohle]

This is my first lay report, would like to thank the girls chase team for all the content thats helped me out along the way.

It was the 4th day of the cruise, and i was walking through the casino to the bar. when out of the corner of my eye i see an absolute dime sitting alone on the slots, and my initial reaction is "why is that fine ass girl all by herself??" darker hair, blue eyes, full but not big lips, high cheek bones, just gorgeous. nevertheless, i had plans to meet people at the bar, so i stayed the course. i chat for a few minutes, then that same girl comes and sits with a seat space between us. Not long after she started smoking her cig she taps me on the shoulder and asks me to hand her the ash tray, to which my "game on" instincts kicked in, no way i could not talk to this girl. It started off with some small talk about how the vacation had been going so far, she was having fun but she was with her family so nothing wild and crazy. This was the juxtaposition to mine, where i came with a huge group of my friends whom had been acting a fool all week. she started showing me pictures of her swimming with dolphins and on the beach and she subtlety said she had triple Ds and was 4'11. i was in disbelief so i asked her to stand up. Began comparing hand sizes (mine were noticeably larger even with her acrylic nails). come to find out she actually doesnt really live that far (im northwest of chicago, shes southeast) which is when she really started getting closer to me and hooking. i began a deep dive and thats when she told me some pretty personal stuff (dad sells drugs, left his ex wife for her mom who is about 10 years younger than her, she dropped out of college due to a friend raping her when he said he was going to console her about her friend committing suicide). At this point i could see her getting emotional, so i needed to calm her down a bit, i put my hand on the upper part of her thigh and began rubbing it, looked into her soul, and said something along the lines of "im sorry *short pause* you have to be incredibly strong to get thrrough all that". she cracked a flattered smirk and went back to happy. i began sharing some of my personal pain with her to reward her openness with me. I then invited her to come smoke with our group since she loved weed but didnt have any. on the deck i put my arm around her and she naturally fit into my posistion. (parts on the deck are a bit hazy, i had been drinking all day, but i do remember lightly turning her chin towards me to kiss her, and she happily obliged)

At this point, our designated dinner was about to start, so we arranged to meet up at the casino spot after and she made me pinky promise id be back I knew it was on like donkey kong after that. when i returned she had changed into more "comfortable" clothes. we shared a drink and then went back to my room. I let her walk in first, and she turned around and slightly biting her lip. i pick her up and put her on the bed, and were making out, soft and sensual turned into hot heavy quickly. i get on top and slowly take her pants off, to my delight, no panties! Her pussy was my desert that night, she was arching her back and i had a hold of her hips to keep her close to me. I gave her som good head, then it was my turn, i honestly didnt let her suck my dick to long because i was ready to go to pound town. i started off with adapted missionary because we did develop a really good connection and i wanted to capitalize on that. even pulling her as tightly as i could her titties still bounced under me (the triple Ds were not a lie, at all). After she came in that posistion, i got up and turned her around to get a view of her ass (also big and beautiful) in side doggie. she had a side tattoo which was facing up in this posistion, i went a while in this one but the bed made this one a bit tricky so i flipped her into regularly doggie so i could stand up. her ass had me in awe when i was fucking her. she started bouncing it off my dick and quickly caught her stroke and had her screaming "right there right there!" and this is posistion where i blew. she layed down and gave me a beautiful little kitten smileand snuggled for a bit before i was hard again. She took liberty to ride my dick, which i was pleasantly surprised with her skill at (she was a cheerleader and dancer, i probably shouldnt have been). i could see her getting tired, so i decided to reward her with a finishing move. i rolled her over, put her legs up to her hand, hands around her neck, and pounded her. Ive had a lot of success using my arms to pull her body into my stroke with this one, seems to have the same effect as squeezing a girls shoulders in adapted missionary. this is where i busted my second nut, and i was exhausted from this on top of all the other activity that day. we snuggled for a while and in conversation she stated she was going to have to give me her number. We got dressed, and went back to the deck to smoke a little more.

After everyone had left to hit the club, she asked me to walk her to her room, and being the gentleman i am, i escorted her safely. My only questions for the GC forum community is now that reality has set in shes been pretty short with me over text. The next day we hung out for some time, introduced me to her dad, called me babe, and was adamant about seeing me after the cruise was over. do i text her like any other girl at this point, or does it require a different approach since we already banged and shes a few hours away?

Again, thanks to the GC team, this is the kind of girl i never thought id pull when i first discovered the site. she checked off just about all my boxes for personality and worldview, she was even so hot the other girls in my group were telling me "damn dude, thats a catch right there!" i know theres more of these girls out there, cant wait to bang more of them in the future!

 

[Regal Tiger]

General Advice for one of your questions:
Chase has an article up somewhere, but the gist of it is this:

After sex you should only slightly change. Become a little warmer towards her to keep her from buyer's remorse. Other than that, just keep doing what you're doing and being the exact same person.

Texting wise, you'll have to find a comfortable and reliable method. My cousin, for example is 10 years older than me and got into the old school cocky funny stuff and he really shines in texting. Me, I don't give a shit other than sharing memes that make me chuckle and setting up the next meet, so I don't text much, if at all.

Once you have a reliable method/system that you can lean on when you need to, then you branch out into another one in case you ever need it for a particular girl.


Specific Advice about girl being short with you:
Also, things might be going a little too fast. You banged on the first day, awesome. She's calling you babe and introduced you to her dad = very bad.
You're heading hardcore into boyfriend mode with her.

If that's what you want, then cool, be a boyfriend. Though it sounds that, that isn't what you yourself want and it sounds like you're giving her mixed messages about it.

Based on the limited information in your post, it sounds like she's being short with you because she's picking up on the mixed messages. You've already done some boyfriend things with her (met her dad, she's calling you babe and etc). But you're also not being a boyfriend with her in other areas. So in some ways you're communicating that you want to be her boyfriend, and it sounds like that's what she wants too. In other ways you're communicating to her that you're not available for that.

So in a way, you're moving backwards relationship-wise. This is going to make any woman upset, especially if she wants more than you do.


Moving Forward:


Downplay the boyfriend stuff, unless that's what you want. Try to talk about some of your ambitions and mention stuff about your freedom. That you have so much that you want to accomplish that you like having your freedom to pursue those goals. You don't need to do this very much, but having a conversation about it should give her a massive hint.

Though because at this point you're effectively taking something away from her, she very well might leave you because of it. Don't worry about it, as long as you wish her well and tell her that she's always welcome to come back to you there's a fair chance that you can text her in 5 months and start banging her again without any hard feelings.


EDIT: advice about being far away:
If you're unable to see her once a week or so because of distance, call her once a week. It's preferable that it's not on any kind of schedule that she can pick up on. You want it to be natural, but you'll need to call her up every once in a while if you're unable to see her. This helps keep the embers burning a little bit.

Good luck!