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Something i’ve been working on is inspiring women to chase. i’ve come to realize women love the chase as well so i want to tweak my game to give them that opportunity to chase
i’m also just realizing how mutual the game is, i should expect her to reciprocate/make effort when i leave space and if she doesn’t, she might not be attracted to me (still figuring this out)
Anyway, this is a usual saturday night and i go to my usual spot. i greet my friend who happens to be a bouncer and i go inside. it’s a lively atmosphere, super packed and good music. One annoying thing about going out in NYC on the weekends is that everyone is out so all the venues are packed. Seduction was pretty much impossible for the first couple of hours until 1AM but i kept walking around making pings here and there to see who bites. The girl of the night was a curly headed brunette who i saw while walking by. I complimented her hair and kept moving (i couldn’t make conversation because she was in a circle with her friends and the dance floor was too packed).
After about an hour, i saw her at another part of the venue. This time, i went up to her and re-opened with “you never told me your name btw”. She smiled and told me her name and i told her mine. I started some polite conversation with where are you from and before she could answer, she ejected because of something her friend said. She finished talking with her friend but i didn’t re-open. i just waited for her to re-open and when she didn’t, i started walking away.
Just before i leave that side of the venue, she comes up to me and says “are you leaving?”. I say “do you want me to stay?” while smiling and i stayed and moved her to a corner of the venue.
Here we talked about what she does, what i do, i did some cold reads, cracked some jokes, basic stuff. i wasn’t expecting her to remember me much after this.
She suddenly says she has to dance with her friends so she left (this happens a lot in night game and it’s hard to tell if they got bored of me and are using their friends as an excuse or if it’s a genuine thing)
Anyway, i’m not too bothered so i left that area and go talk to some other girls. It’s the same thing, pinging here and there, talking with friends etc. I see her another time during one of my trips around the venue and ask her if she was leaving. She said they were going to get drinks so i just said okay and that i’ll see her around. After about half an hour, it’s almost closing time and i spot my girl dancing with her friends in the middle of the venue. We made eye contact and she smiled at me so i know she’s definitely into me. i also spot another girl in front of me who was making very brief eye contact and just angling her body towards me - it was subtle but not for the intended recipient - moi.
Eventually the new girl comes closer, about a feet or 2 away and i compliment her necklace. She eats up the compliment and we go into full on conversation, she starts to touch me a little bit as well.
She says she needed to get some drinks for her friends and after getting them she leaves to rejoin her friends (here we go again).
A couple minutes later, the bar is almost closed and everyone will be getting kicked out soon. I notice my first girl’s circle has gotten smaller with some of her friends leaving so i stop the cool guy act and go up to her asking if she’s a dancer. She laughs and says no but i spin her around and we danced for a little bit. I then invite her to another more lowkey bar and she tells me to tell her friend since they’re trying to figure out where to go (she’s into me but tied to her group - not surprised though, she was visiting her best friend and it seems she had just met the other girls in the group - I’m guessing ASD wouldn’t let her do as she wanted)
I talk to her friend and they decided to come with me. Funnily enough, one of the girls in her group is a girl i had hit on in the past at the same venue. She was also into me but i couldn’t make it work because of the friend thing as well. i just pretended like i didn’t know her and she seemed to do the same.
We go outside the venue, talk a little bit and leave for the second venue.
Gonna cut the report here, i didn’t get the lay but we were out for one more hour talking and playing games at the new bar. We kissed at some point and I tried to go for the pull but she wouldn’t because she wanted to leave with her friends.
I honestly don’t think her friends would have minded but we agreed to do something the next day
Not expecting much because i’ve had girls who excitedly wanted me to get their numbers but ghost after i text (literally happened the day before lol)
i’m also just realizing how mutual the game is, i should expect her to reciprocate/make effort when i leave space and if she doesn’t, she might not be attracted to me (still figuring this out)
Anyway, this is a usual saturday night and i go to my usual spot. i greet my friend who happens to be a bouncer and i go inside. it’s a lively atmosphere, super packed and good music. One annoying thing about going out in NYC on the weekends is that everyone is out so all the venues are packed. Seduction was pretty much impossible for the first couple of hours until 1AM but i kept walking around making pings here and there to see who bites. The girl of the night was a curly headed brunette who i saw while walking by. I complimented her hair and kept moving (i couldn’t make conversation because she was in a circle with her friends and the dance floor was too packed).
After about an hour, i saw her at another part of the venue. This time, i went up to her and re-opened with “you never told me your name btw”. She smiled and told me her name and i told her mine. I started some polite conversation with where are you from and before she could answer, she ejected because of something her friend said. She finished talking with her friend but i didn’t re-open. i just waited for her to re-open and when she didn’t, i started walking away.
Just before i leave that side of the venue, she comes up to me and says “are you leaving?”. I say “do you want me to stay?” while smiling and i stayed and moved her to a corner of the venue.
Here we talked about what she does, what i do, i did some cold reads, cracked some jokes, basic stuff. i wasn’t expecting her to remember me much after this.
She suddenly says she has to dance with her friends so she left (this happens a lot in night game and it’s hard to tell if they got bored of me and are using their friends as an excuse or if it’s a genuine thing)
Anyway, i’m not too bothered so i left that area and go talk to some other girls. It’s the same thing, pinging here and there, talking with friends etc. I see her another time during one of my trips around the venue and ask her if she was leaving. She said they were going to get drinks so i just said okay and that i’ll see her around. After about half an hour, it’s almost closing time and i spot my girl dancing with her friends in the middle of the venue. We made eye contact and she smiled at me so i know she’s definitely into me. i also spot another girl in front of me who was making very brief eye contact and just angling her body towards me - it was subtle but not for the intended recipient - moi.
Eventually the new girl comes closer, about a feet or 2 away and i compliment her necklace. She eats up the compliment and we go into full on conversation, she starts to touch me a little bit as well.
She says she needed to get some drinks for her friends and after getting them she leaves to rejoin her friends (here we go again).
A couple minutes later, the bar is almost closed and everyone will be getting kicked out soon. I notice my first girl’s circle has gotten smaller with some of her friends leaving so i stop the cool guy act and go up to her asking if she’s a dancer. She laughs and says no but i spin her around and we danced for a little bit. I then invite her to another more lowkey bar and she tells me to tell her friend since they’re trying to figure out where to go (she’s into me but tied to her group - not surprised though, she was visiting her best friend and it seems she had just met the other girls in the group - I’m guessing ASD wouldn’t let her do as she wanted)
I talk to her friend and they decided to come with me. Funnily enough, one of the girls in her group is a girl i had hit on in the past at the same venue. She was also into me but i couldn’t make it work because of the friend thing as well. i just pretended like i didn’t know her and she seemed to do the same.
We go outside the venue, talk a little bit and leave for the second venue.
Gonna cut the report here, i didn’t get the lay but we were out for one more hour talking and playing games at the new bar. We kissed at some point and I tried to go for the pull but she wouldn’t because she wanted to leave with her friends.
I honestly don’t think her friends would have minded but we agreed to do something the next day
Not expecting much because i’ve had girls who excitedly wanted me to get their numbers but ghost after i text (literally happened the day before lol)
