Damage control in seduction !

[Witcher]

Hi all
i was asking my self, wich way is the best for dealing with girls who has rejected direcly your direct opening cold approches, when you meet them again in some social events.
For exemple i have cold approached girls in my college with direct opener, with 2 have rejected me politely but direclty without give me any further chance for more talking. I just want to konw possible solution, if i meet them again what to do to re-start the seduction processe. Be sure i don't rely on these girls as my only option , but just want to know if there is ways to damange control some failed seduction.

 

[Chase]

Witcher-

If you've already been rejected by a girl you see socially, I find it's best to just be polite but otherwise largely uninterested when you see her again. Then just get her attention by using preselection / social proof, and you'll notice she starts warming toward you.

At that point, you can either wait for her to give chase, then lead her along, or you can invite her along to something socially (where it's you, her, + other people) and gauge her reaction - if she seems very excited, you still just act calm and largely uninterested, then play the host role well during the outing, charm everyone, build more social proof / preselection, and later on into the event, when you're on one-on-one conversation with you and she's flirting hard, you casually tell her the two of you should grab food some time, and grab her number if you didn't already have it, or otherwise just tell her cool, you'll text her after she says "yes."

Chase

 

[Witcher]

Ok, but for the other senario:

The girls who reject you on your cold approache, and it happen that you cross roads with her many times, but we are not in the same social circle. Who to re-set the seduction??