Hey guys,
My friends and I are in Barcelona, which is known for its night clubs. We went to one last night and I practiced the dace floor game outlined in GC:
1. dance and have a good time w/o scanning the room
2. wait for girls to gravitate towards you
3. make eye contact
4. open with "saw you and thought you needed dance lessons"
5. take her hand and spin her
6. dance for several minutes then lead her off the dance floor
I had around 5 approaches using this technique but didnt have any success so I thought id hash out what i did here and hope my questions get answered.
I came to the club with two girls who were my friends and dancing with them gave me some preselection so I noticed other girls gravitating towards us. I used the approach outlined above and danced with ~2 girls- spinning them and grinding with them.
However, when trying to pull these girls off the dance floor I would say "lets go talk somewhere private" out of the blue. This didnt work and I think it was because it wasnt during an escalation window. I think things need to be heating up before I say this. Any thoughts?
Eventually I lost my two girl friends and tried just dancing with guys I met and doing the same approach. I found that I had much less success during these approaches, maybe because of lack of preselection.
I found that when I was dancing and trying not to be obvious that I was trying to approach girls, my head would be down and it was hard for me to make eye contact. This is just bad fundamentals.
Also, I realized from watching other guys that the ones who have success in clubs are the ones who move fast and hit escalation windows.
I think I had trouble escalating in general with girls because I dont have much practice with club game- mostly day and online game where the escalation is much slower.
I was thinking that I could improve on this by practicing more by going to more clubs or taking dance lessons so I get used to leading girls on the dance floor. Any suggestions?
Cheers,
BigS
My friends and I are in Barcelona, which is known for its night clubs. We went to one last night and I practiced the dace floor game outlined in GC:
1. dance and have a good time w/o scanning the room
2. wait for girls to gravitate towards you
3. make eye contact
4. open with "saw you and thought you needed dance lessons"
5. take her hand and spin her
6. dance for several minutes then lead her off the dance floor
I had around 5 approaches using this technique but didnt have any success so I thought id hash out what i did here and hope my questions get answered.
I came to the club with two girls who were my friends and dancing with them gave me some preselection so I noticed other girls gravitating towards us. I used the approach outlined above and danced with ~2 girls- spinning them and grinding with them.
However, when trying to pull these girls off the dance floor I would say "lets go talk somewhere private" out of the blue. This didnt work and I think it was because it wasnt during an escalation window. I think things need to be heating up before I say this. Any thoughts?
Eventually I lost my two girl friends and tried just dancing with guys I met and doing the same approach. I found that I had much less success during these approaches, maybe because of lack of preselection.
I found that when I was dancing and trying not to be obvious that I was trying to approach girls, my head would be down and it was hard for me to make eye contact. This is just bad fundamentals.
Also, I realized from watching other guys that the ones who have success in clubs are the ones who move fast and hit escalation windows.
I think I had trouble escalating in general with girls because I dont have much practice with club game- mostly day and online game where the escalation is much slower.
I was thinking that I could improve on this by practicing more by going to more clubs or taking dance lessons so I get used to leading girls on the dance floor. Any suggestions?
Cheers,
BigS
