Calls & Texts Dates going cold.

[Dormidov2]

Well i've managed to get some phone numbers, however when asking the girls which day was the best for them, they said they were free until a week after, so I had to agree, still knowing that it was a long time and it might go cold.

Following the advice about texting only talked with them about logistics, so the day before our supposed date I sent a confirmation text kinda aloof but warm, but got no answer.

Outta 4 numbers I got, 3 responded only to "reschedule" the date, and the last one didn't responded at all, even while being the most warm and happy about the date at first.

¿Am I doing something wrong with texting so little with girls if haven't established enough rapport to go on a date? ¿How to make them go in a date earlier without looking needy or desperate?

 

[bogger]

That means they don't want date with you, so you can find other girl,don't be sad,The world is wide.Keep it up man!

 

[Anonymous]

they said they were free until a week after

Seems like low interest to me. Not only that, even if her interest was "mediocre", you're being put into a lose/lose situation from the get-go.

She is setting when the date is going to happen. She's leading - taking control - setting the date on her terms. She is getting you to wait around for her. Not to mention the fact that it's a week out. So, even if she was somewhat interested and the "week" excuse was legitimate, the fact that YOU agreed to wait a week for her, and then to call or text her like a good little boy, tells her that you are not a man who is in high demand - otherwise known as desperate.

It also might not necessarily be low interest but more like "questionable" interest. She gives you her contact info, but is unsure about who she's dealing with so she throws out a shit test: not free for a week.

How do you respond?

Not sure the best course of action to go from here, but, if this happens again, maybe you should try to pressing for a sooner date. And, in doing so, casually covertly let her know you're time's more valuable than waiting around a week for someone you just met.