Dating a religious girl...fucking nightmare!

[killerman]

So I'm dating a religious girl these days...Very beautiful but she has her "faith". For second date I invited her to have dinner at my place, which worked with the previous girl I fucked. She said I was moving "too fast" for her. Hell, she even said I was moving too fast when I approached her and asked her for her number when she was working on the shop floor the day I met her. Third date I got her back to my place but when I escalated she said I moving too fast and although she admitted sex was natural she wanted to move slower because she thought she was "unlike" all those other girls and more "special" than that and also because of her "faith". Sounds quite arrogant and seems to have an over inflated ego and sense of worth to be honest. Fuck, third date and the girl still won't give it up. First time this has happened to me in nearly 5 years. In that time I've fucked another 15 girls. Out of those 15 girls it took me only 1 or 2 dates to sleep with 9 of them, 3 of them were one night stands and the other 3 it took 3 dates, so I know that I'm a sexual guy who usually doesn't have problems with fucking girls quickly.

Will give it a few more dates but if after the 5th or 6th date, we still haven't had sex i'm going to have to next her. Thing is what do I tell her next time she puts up her defences when I try to escalate on her? I'm thinking of telling her that I wouldn't judge her even if she'd fucked 1000 guys and if I'd slept with her on the first date. If by the end of the 5th or 6th date she still hasn't got intimate with me I'm thinking of telling her that we shouldn't continue seeing each other as I don't date girls who have these silly little rules of when we should sleep with each other as everything should be natural. That I see sex as no big deal and a totally natural thing between two humans who are into each other, something that should be expected and that the best relationships i've had in the past were with girls I had sex with on first 1 or 2 dates as we were able to get intimate really quickly due to sparks flying and attraction being off the scale. But in this current relationship it feels totally pointless as it's not even a sexual relationship.

If there's anything that will unlock the door and get her naked in my bed that might do it, but to be honest if it gets that far I won't be bothered anymore as by that point my attraction for her will have expired. The one thing I don't want to do is blackmail or pressurise a girl as it's just unsexy and just not hot. Plus by that point I'd know that the sex would probably be really shit anyway so fuck it. Any of you guys got any ideas? Or maybe I should next her now? She's gorgeous but seriously I don't really care, there's loads of hot gorgeous girls out there and she's definitely not as special as she thinks she is.

 

[killerman]

Actually fuck it, i'm giving it one more date and if the date doesn't end in sex i'm getting the fuck out of there and nexting her.

 

[killerman]

haha

 

[killerman]

Wow, she sent me this message this morning. Girl is definitely nexted. Won't even give her a fourth date. This is what she wrote. Haha.

"You know what, I'm really tempted but it really wouldn't be me if I carried on being intimate with someone and I really didn't know where it was going. I had an amazing time with you the first time I came over cause I think you are so attractive, we have crazy chemistry and I felt a bit of a connection that's why I came over in the first place even though that wasn't my style.

Why don't we slow it down a little bit and see where this goes and maybe in future It will naturally happen. Cause it really would be me to keep moving this quickly without knowing where it's going. But I'm up for meeting up and doing something new and exciting xx"

And I replied to her with THIS:

"We're not intimate, we haven't even had sex yet.  Anyway I don't think we should carry on seeing each other anymore.  It's just I don't like taking things slow.  Taking things slow is for people who have too much time on their hands, and my time is valuable.  I like to take things fast.  Also you seem to have all these rules for doing things, and I don't like dating girls who have these silly little rules.  I like girls that are fun and spontaneous ;-)  Anyway I hope you don't take offence. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for   Chris"

What do you think she was trying to do? She'd already been at my place so it shouldn't be a big deal anymore. Seems like she was just using me to just buy her stuff and spend money on her. Fuck that, she can find some boring ordinary beta male nice guy chode to do that. NEXT.

 

[Skid]

Killerman ,


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[Shake&Bake]

Update?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Killerman,

you had more patience than I would have had. She has already voiced her strong frame, and once this frame is out there, it's very difficult to bend it... Although I had once a good surprise, with a girl from conservative upbringing that wouldn't even kiss... And then suddenly flipped, she invited herself at my place for our second date, and swallowed my dick like there's no tomorrow. Interesting to see that behind these strong walls there's just another girl craving a good cock. On our third date, she put on her mask and walls again, and I dropped it.

It's not worth it spending time and energy on one of these strong frame girls when there are so many out there much easier to get.

Plus, what the girl is doing with her frame, she is seeking to control you before you're even in a relationship. It means loads of hard times for the guy who will get into this.

Your text was the right thing to do.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[killerman]

Hey guys, thanks for your help and feedback!

Shake&Bake - yeah I blew her off. I just lost patience with her in the end and there was no point wasting any more time with her.

Also she tried to call me last night lol Obviously I didn't pick up the phone as I had decided to next her and that was that. Clearly she knows she fucked up. Any of you guys experienced this where you cut off the girl and then she comes running back later?

 

[killerman]

Haha she's chasing me haaaaaarrrrrd. Called me last night and now she's just called me AGAIN haha