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[RAFox]

Hey guys, so here‘s a date idea I came up with. The reason I am putting this up herve is because there might be something to improve or a possible mistake I overlook, or just because I also want your opinion on this little piece. I calculated the time because the date is supposed to climax in a sunset kiss.
Start with:
I told you that I had planned a surprise for you, right? Well, the surprise is that I don‘t have a plan at all.“ to get the mood going. Then: “ So, what about you take me to Starbucks? I told you I‘ve never been there before, so this would be my first time.“
1 hour or so at Starbucks and walking around the shopping street, then I treat her to Vegan Ice-cream (she told me before that she is a vegan) and then we head to somewhere else.
I‘ve been walking around places. lately, and one time I came by a canal with a lot of geese, and the view‘s great too, so I‘ll take her geese-feeding. after that, we‘ll sit somewhere with a great view just by the water and I‘ll tell her to draw a picture of me, while I do the same on her, just for the fun of it. Then, I‘ll take everything off her hands and go in for the kiss, whit he technique Franco advised (that one with the fingers on her chin) and after that, I plan on walking her home.
So guys, how‘s that sound? Are there any things I should better not do?

 

[Light]

Hi RAFox,

Do not use the first line about not having a plan at all, especially if you already told her about a surprise.
She will be dissapointed and may even dread the rest of the day with you. First impression always counts.
My advise is, don't mention anything about the surprise at all. If she ask what it is, just say "You will see..."
This helps you stay mysterious, and keeps the girl intrigued and guessing about you. She will want to hang around with you for the whole day until sunset.

Keep leading her to places, you don't even have to tell her where you are taking her.

Hope this helps.

 

[RAFox]

Got it. Anything else I missed guys?
By the way, love your Profile pic

 

[Light]

Yes. Make sure you do a lot of deep diving during Starbucks right away.
That is probably the most important thing, more important than the sunset.
If done properly, usually you can take the girl home without any sunset

 

[Estate]

Also, don't over think things.

The date is very "low key" which is perfectly fine but it's going to rely a lot on you keeping her energy high... i.e. keep her talking, keep her interested, definitely a good time for the "deep diving" as someone mentioned above.
I agree with maybe not mentioning the surprise or the "no plan"... I think if you set out a date girls like the idea that the guy will lead... even if it's just coffee, make the plan and take her there. You don't have to lay out the whole date for her but sometimes if she gets the impression you are just winging it, it might not set the right tone unless you come across really spontaneous and take her from one thing to something awesome on the spur of the moment.

I'm guessing it's a first date so overall, no need to overthink it, keep it simple. You really don't have to make huge grand gestures on the first date, just keep it light and fun and keep her smiling.