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I was going to write a how to date post 101 but i have already written about it, again you need to learn this post and this post(with a video replica on how i and student fuck 9 out of 10 women) and field test, so i am not going to work and repeat myself, a lot of you are too lazy to field test or free style too much, like in the last week 5 different post of dudes fucking up in dates, some with coaches, jesus christ!... So i will just do a basic troubleshooting...
1.- Always use the key words QUICK MEET AND GREET, cause you want to take ALL OF THE PRESSURE AWAY FROM THE GIRL, so she does not flake.
2.- ALWAYS do coffee shop (Starbucks, dunking donuts, or any coffee shop), just following #1 above is for the goal to make it as low pressure on her as possible... objections to this:
- she does not drink coffee or i don't drink coffee.
Answer to objection: "me either is just to meet and see if the vibe and chemistry is there before we bounce to were i want to take you" again this answer to objection makes you display higher value, and that you are not 100% into her you still need to see if you are compatible
- the coffee shop it closes at 6 my date is at 9:00 pm ^ answer to the objection same as above: " yeah is just to meet and greet to see if the vibe and chemistry is there, we bounce to another place from there....
- I rather meet at a bar or lounge. Not ideal cause is not as low pressure as coffee shop, plus it eliminates one of the bounce to another location, the bounce from one location to another increases lay chances even if a ridiculous short bounce.
- or at home (this will be address later)... This is ideal for greens and total dtf girls or girls that you have stablish strong sexual frames and high interest, to do this is advance level or you can aim for this, but if is not there and she is hesitating don't plow... "we should split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony" credit pwf. If she does not bite, say "i totally understand to many creepers have ruin it for sexy guys like me it tell you what lets have a quick meet and greet at this coffee shop to see if the vibe is there"...
^ some ridiculous points about not having a coffee shop next to a lounge, bar, i have never witness this in usa, here we have malls and downtown areas or mini downtowns were there is coffee shops, super 1 minute - 5 minute walk lounge or bar, 1 minute to 5 minute walks park, isolated area, beach, lakes, river etc....
^ also a lot of you autists walking distance is not 20 minute walk god damm it... ridiculous....
- in the coffee shop you don't need to do anything special i have even met say hi give a kiss and bounce, the main point is the moving together this create some type of momentum that removes anxiety from the meet... (i have no idea why, but is legit it works). the whole point is to move together this increases odds and compliance.
So how to dating looks like, if a person met from night game and there was a strong interaction and you could not close, you should be able to have sex right away on first date. My own skills oddss is about 9 out of 10.
if is from first time online/apps meet my experience 50% if greens will do right away, another 50% require another encounter(typically yellowish). I have never done more than 2 encounters online or any other game.
I made a post i had to delete from day game, cause the guys in my crew told me it was retarded.... In the post i deleted, I was making the point i never in my life in day game did insta date and is pointless (the guys in my crew disagree and told me to delete), my point was insta date was a waste of time, and that my day game pulls were meet and pulls no dating, and for what i recall from @Bacchus lay reports similar... But they disagree and told me the insta date just works like a 3 bounce and creates massive comfort aka meet (location 1), coffee shop (location 2) and bedroom/closing location (location 3) so it works as a 3 bounce. However, agian i from day game it was for me more of a lead generation and i insta pull if she was dtf, i never did insta dates... @TomInHo would go to cali beach, take them to a coffee shop and ask for a ride home and that is how he bang a lot of day game girls... So in conclusion if the girls i dtf but need more comfort insta date, if not get the number vs wasting time insta dating vs accumulating more leads. (which was my point)
1.- Always use the key words QUICK MEET AND GREET, cause you want to take ALL OF THE PRESSURE AWAY FROM THE GIRL, so she does not flake.
2.- ALWAYS do coffee shop (Starbucks, dunking donuts, or any coffee shop), just following #1 above is for the goal to make it as low pressure on her as possible... objections to this:
- she does not drink coffee or i don't drink coffee.
Answer to objection: "me either is just to meet and see if the vibe and chemistry is there before we bounce to were i want to take you" again this answer to objection makes you display higher value, and that you are not 100% into her you still need to see if you are compatible
- the coffee shop it closes at 6 my date is at 9:00 pm ^ answer to the objection same as above: " yeah is just to meet and greet to see if the vibe and chemistry is there, we bounce to another place from there....
- I rather meet at a bar or lounge. Not ideal cause is not as low pressure as coffee shop, plus it eliminates one of the bounce to another location, the bounce from one location to another increases lay chances even if a ridiculous short bounce.
- or at home (this will be address later)... This is ideal for greens and total dtf girls or girls that you have stablish strong sexual frames and high interest, to do this is advance level or you can aim for this, but if is not there and she is hesitating don't plow... "we should split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony" credit pwf. If she does not bite, say "i totally understand to many creepers have ruin it for sexy guys like me it tell you what lets have a quick meet and greet at this coffee shop to see if the vibe is there"...
^ some ridiculous points about not having a coffee shop next to a lounge, bar, i have never witness this in usa, here we have malls and downtown areas or mini downtowns were there is coffee shops, super 1 minute - 5 minute walk lounge or bar, 1 minute to 5 minute walks park, isolated area, beach, lakes, river etc....
^ also a lot of you autists walking distance is not 20 minute walk god damm it... ridiculous....
- in the coffee shop you don't need to do anything special i have even met say hi give a kiss and bounce, the main point is the moving together this create some type of momentum that removes anxiety from the meet... (i have no idea why, but is legit it works). the whole point is to move together this increases odds and compliance.
So how to dating looks like, if a person met from night game and there was a strong interaction and you could not close, you should be able to have sex right away on first date. My own skills oddss is about 9 out of 10.
if is from first time online/apps meet my experience 50% if greens will do right away, another 50% require another encounter(typically yellowish). I have never done more than 2 encounters online or any other game.
I made a post i had to delete from day game, cause the guys in my crew told me it was retarded.... In the post i deleted, I was making the point i never in my life in day game did insta date and is pointless (the guys in my crew disagree and told me to delete), my point was insta date was a waste of time, and that my day game pulls were meet and pulls no dating, and for what i recall from @Bacchus lay reports similar... But they disagree and told me the insta date just works like a 3 bounce and creates massive comfort aka meet (location 1), coffee shop (location 2) and bedroom/closing location (location 3) so it works as a 3 bounce. However, agian i from day game it was for me more of a lead generation and i insta pull if she was dtf, i never did insta dates... @TomInHo would go to cali beach, take them to a coffee shop and ask for a ride home and that is how he bang a lot of day game girls... So in conclusion if the girls i dtf but need more comfort insta date, if not get the number vs wasting time insta dating vs accumulating more leads. (which was my point)
