Day game street - approaching a girl who is with friends

[MisterX]

In a club or bar it's easier to isolate a girl from her friends.

Even during the day in a cafe or Subway or sth like that, you can take her aside for a moment .
Also in a supermarket/any kind of store you can isolate her - take to another part of the supermarket/store and there are lots or reasons you can give her to come with you for a moment.



But how do you do it during day game street approach?

When you're walking down the street and you see a girl you'd like to talk to, but she'd with a girl friend, a few girl friends, a guy friend, a few guy friends, mixed - girls and guys.


I'm not sure if my usual direct approach and "are you single" would be appropriate.


Can you approach direct?

Can you isolate?

Can you close?



Cause I don't take phone numbers. I go for either a date the same day if she's wandering alone in a mall/somewhere else and she's free/doesn't have somewhere to be.
Or I arrange a date with her for the next day or a few days later.

And only once we've arranged a date will I take her phone number.



I don't like the whole take her number then try to convince her over the phone to go out.. It's harder and the chances are lower that she'll go out with me after I've asked her over the phone, rather than when I approached her in person.



So how do you do it? How do you street approach a girls who's with friends and arrange a date and take her number when her friends are right next to her?





I have something I use in bars/clubs when a girl is with friends:

When I've noticed a girl is checking me out or we've exchanged eye contact, and I know she wants me to approach her. I go and say to her (so her friends can here it): "Oh my god. Hi how long has it been. We haven't seen each other in ages." And right after I say it I give her a hug and whisper in her ear: "play along, like we know each other." And she then says sth to play along. Then you can tell her group : "I'll steal her for a minute from you guys cause we haven't seen each other in ages and so we can catch up for a minute."

I've found that this works amazing for me, when the girls has shown that she wants you to approach her. It's sth she's never experienced even in a club. It's fun for her to play along and keep this your little secret. And she knows you're smooth and socially savvy.




I realize that approaching a girl on the street when she's with friends is higher risk, cause she's with friends and they are going somewhere/doing sth. So it's easier for her to reject you.

So I think approaching a girl in this scenario has to be done only if she's shown you clear interest by checking you out or does sth to let you know she wants you to talk to you.




Can the club approach, I described above, be used in this type of situation?

- you see a girl with a group of friends and she gives you clear signs that she wants to talk to you.
- you go in with the "Oh my god. Hi, how long has it been. We haven't seen each other in ages."
- you give her a hug and whisper in her ear "play along like we know each other"
- you say sth like "lets catch up for a second" and move her a few meters away from her friends and make sure her back's facing towards them so they can only see your face and since you're keeping it cool and are composed they won't suspect anything.
- talk for a couple of minutes and propose a you see each other again "to catch up", arrange it and take her number you can even say "I don't think I have your number, since I bought a new phone." and take her number


If you can pull this off. It will show her that you are really confident. It takes massive balls to pull this off. It also shows massive social savvy.

And you can be sure that no one has ever or will ever, approach her this way.




Do you think this will work? Again you approach a girl only if she's shown you clear interest.





The question is towards Chase, Franco and anybody who has experience with day games street approach.

 

[Chase]

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Moved this one to "General."

It's a neat spin on approaching girls in groups in bars and clubs. I'd imagine you'd really need some hard eye contact / clear signals to approach to use this effectively, or be fairly good looking with very strong fundamentals to do it without an approach invitation. That'd be my gut, but I'd be happy to be proven wrong, not having used this.

Women walking around during the day tend to be a lot more mission-oriented and aren't thinking, "Meet a stranger"; women in groups especially so. It's a rather different environment than the bar or the nightclub.

For daytime group approaches, you can sometimes take a wingman out with you and open up a pair of girls and bring him in once the two of them are sufficiently warm to you and comfortable with you. Aside from that, I haven't seen or found any effective techniques for getting a girl out of a group during the day (and admittedly, don't see a whole lot of these or bother with them when I do).

But if you want to try it, try it. The field is the greatest teacher.

Even if it doesn't work... you might just hit on something else that does in the process.

Chase

 

[lux7]

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Moved this one to "General."

It's a neat spin on approaching girls in groups in bars and clubs. I'd imagine you'd really need some hard eye contact / clear signals to approach to use this effectively, or be fairly good looking with very strong fundamentals to do it without an approach invitation. That'd be my gut, but I'd be happy to be proven wrong, not having used this.

Women walking around during the day tend to be a lot more mission-oriented and aren't thinking, "Meet a stranger"; women in groups especially so. It's a rather different environment than the bar or the nightclub.

For daytime group approaches, you can sometimes take a wingman out with you and open up a pair of girls and bring him in once the two of them are sufficiently warm to you and comfortable with you. Aside from that, I haven't seen or found any effective techniques for getting a girl out of a group during the day (and admittedly, don't see a whole lot of these or bother with them when I do).

But if you want to try it, try it. The field is the greatest teacher.

Even if it doesn't work... you might just hit on something else that does in the process.

Chase

Interesting.
Would you consider "two" a group?

So basically when you're out in the day you only target women by themselves?