Why do people fear approaching girls? Rejection.
Simple as that.
So, why is daygame your best way to beat AA?
Because it's you and her. Your value doesn't drop to the rest of the world. In nightgame, when you approach a girl -and other girls are trying to get your attention so you approach them as well (what happens to me all the time)-, if she leaves, your value instantly drops. The other girls will see this (yes, they will still look at you when you approach other girls). This is bad. That's why I had AA (still have some in nightgame). You don't want your value to drop. I hate that. They saw her walking away from you. If you approach other girl you value is not the same.
This is why daygame is soooo good. You will have to practice your conversation skills in a place where girls are not expecting to meet someone. If she leaves, your value doesn't drop, like in clubs, to the other girls. If you get good at having a good conversation skill with a girl at daygame you will feel more confident about approaching girls on nightgame because you will be certain you will be able to have a good interactions with them so your value will rise.
Daygame is your best friend!
Cheers!
PS: One thing I'm doing now in nightgame is leaving the interaction before the girl when I know is going bad. This keeps my value intact, and even higher. Girls will see you leaving. They won't know what happen, they just know you were the one who left. Sometimes a girl might leave you before because you thought it was still going okay and didn't leave. Tough luck then.
Simple as that.
So, why is daygame your best way to beat AA?
Because it's you and her. Your value doesn't drop to the rest of the world. In nightgame, when you approach a girl -and other girls are trying to get your attention so you approach them as well (what happens to me all the time)-, if she leaves, your value instantly drops. The other girls will see this (yes, they will still look at you when you approach other girls). This is bad. That's why I had AA (still have some in nightgame). You don't want your value to drop. I hate that. They saw her walking away from you. If you approach other girl you value is not the same.
This is why daygame is soooo good. You will have to practice your conversation skills in a place where girls are not expecting to meet someone. If she leaves, your value doesn't drop, like in clubs, to the other girls. If you get good at having a good conversation skill with a girl at daygame you will feel more confident about approaching girls on nightgame because you will be certain you will be able to have a good interactions with them so your value will rise.
Daygame is your best friend!
Cheers!
PS: One thing I'm doing now in nightgame is leaving the interaction before the girl when I know is going bad. This keeps my value intact, and even higher. Girls will see you leaving. They won't know what happen, they just know you were the one who left. Sometimes a girl might leave you before because you thought it was still going okay and didn't leave. Tough luck then.
