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Since we are constantly in social gatherings and situations we can definitely say although maybe all of us can recall a food moment such as taking a girl home we can also recall moment where situations got heated.
-Whether constantly telling back and forth
-Calling each other out our names
-Getting in each others personal space
-Insult dead or alive relatives
-Throwing stuff at each other
-Causing a scene in front of people
-Actually fighting (physically)
Or whatever we humans do to protect our Ego to protect ours. Now I know we always expressing how we have to be dominant males and be in control of our social circles but, some of us don't have that luxury and may have argue or fuss sometimes often against someone who See's their value higher than yours.
Usually it can start of something small that ends up escalating to something big. Like here is a example
Guy: So, what do you think you can last longer without? Your cell phone or your make up?
Girl: Wow! (Getting Offended) So you think girls are so one sided that we can't live without our cell phones or makeup?
Guy: (Not entirely sure if she's serious or not) I don't know maybe I do maybe I don't
Girl: (Maybe not getting the joke and/or deciding you're not high value enough to tease her like that) Well maybe you should leave/maybe you should stop talking.
Guy: (Still not fazed) Why? Maybe I have something more to say.
Girl: I'd like you to shut up!
Already you see this conversation going sour and more than likely you are caught between making a decision to carrying on with it and hope she folds or shut up and hopes she gives up when you don't argue back. There is usually like a third option like saying something like"OK" then looking away which is pretty much what they advocate on this site. But as you meet different people you realize it's a go to for everything depending on how good in a mood you are, how good your decision making skills are, how persistent the girls are, and how many people are around.
And referring to me or not seeing a situation not handled properly.
-Maybe you like a girl and you accidentally insulted her or her morals
-Maybe you upset a girl cause you ignore her tests constantly
-Maybe a girl you like ends up being combative to you in front of people so you decide to not say anything at all
-You have a situation where a girl gets in you're person space
- A girl punches or slaps you
- A girl throws a drink at you
-Or maybe a girl is teasing and you end up getting serious
I wanna article or at least some advice on dealing with these scenarios to help me and other men. It's getting to a point were a feel alot of males and females are against each other. I constantly see compilation gender equality videos of guys retaliating by striking a girl back by hitting them on YouTube videos and got curious on how one handles these situations.
-Whether constantly telling back and forth
-Calling each other out our names
-Getting in each others personal space
-Insult dead or alive relatives
-Throwing stuff at each other
-Causing a scene in front of people
-Actually fighting (physically)
Or whatever we humans do to protect our Ego to protect ours. Now I know we always expressing how we have to be dominant males and be in control of our social circles but, some of us don't have that luxury and may have argue or fuss sometimes often against someone who See's their value higher than yours.
Usually it can start of something small that ends up escalating to something big. Like here is a example
Guy: So, what do you think you can last longer without? Your cell phone or your make up?
Girl: Wow! (Getting Offended) So you think girls are so one sided that we can't live without our cell phones or makeup?
Guy: (Not entirely sure if she's serious or not) I don't know maybe I do maybe I don't
Girl: (Maybe not getting the joke and/or deciding you're not high value enough to tease her like that) Well maybe you should leave/maybe you should stop talking.
Guy: (Still not fazed) Why? Maybe I have something more to say.
Girl: I'd like you to shut up!
Already you see this conversation going sour and more than likely you are caught between making a decision to carrying on with it and hope she folds or shut up and hopes she gives up when you don't argue back. There is usually like a third option like saying something like"OK" then looking away which is pretty much what they advocate on this site. But as you meet different people you realize it's a go to for everything depending on how good in a mood you are, how good your decision making skills are, how persistent the girls are, and how many people are around.
And referring to me or not seeing a situation not handled properly.
-Maybe you like a girl and you accidentally insulted her or her morals
-Maybe you upset a girl cause you ignore her tests constantly
-Maybe a girl you like ends up being combative to you in front of people so you decide to not say anything at all
-You have a situation where a girl gets in you're person space
- A girl punches or slaps you
- A girl throws a drink at you
-Or maybe a girl is teasing and you end up getting serious
I wanna article or at least some advice on dealing with these scenarios to help me and other men. It's getting to a point were a feel alot of males and females are against each other. I constantly see compilation gender equality videos of guys retaliating by striking a girl back by hitting them on YouTube videos and got curious on how one handles these situations.