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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Since we are constantly in social gatherings and situations we can definitely say although maybe all of us can recall a food moment such as taking a girl home we can also recall moment where situations got heated.

-Whether constantly telling back and forth
-Calling each other out our names
-Getting in each others personal space
-Insult dead or alive relatives
-Throwing stuff at each other
-Causing a scene in front of people
-Actually fighting (physically)

Or whatever we humans do to protect our Ego to protect ours. Now I know we always expressing how we have to be dominant males and be in control of our social circles but, some of us don't have that luxury and may have argue or fuss sometimes often against someone who See's their value higher than yours.

Usually it can start of something small that ends up escalating to something big. Like here is a example

Guy: So, what do you think you can last longer without? Your cell phone or your make up?

Girl: Wow! (Getting Offended) So you think girls are so one sided that we can't live without our cell phones or makeup?

Guy: (Not entirely sure if she's serious or not) I don't know maybe I do maybe I don't

Girl: (Maybe not getting the joke and/or deciding you're not high value enough to tease her like that) Well maybe you should leave/maybe you should stop talking.

Guy: (Still not fazed) Why? Maybe I have something more to say.

Girl: I'd like you to shut up!

Already you see this conversation going sour and more than likely you are caught between making a decision to carrying on with it and hope she folds or shut up and hopes she gives up when you don't argue back. There is usually like a third option like saying something like"OK" then looking away which is pretty much what they advocate on this site. But as you meet different people you realize it's a go to for everything depending on how good in a mood you are, how good your decision making skills are, how persistent the girls are, and how many people are around.

And referring to me or not seeing a situation not handled properly.

-Maybe you like a girl and you accidentally insulted her or her morals
-Maybe you upset a girl cause you ignore her tests constantly
-Maybe a girl you like ends up being combative to you in front of people so you decide to not say anything at all
-You have a situation where a girl gets in you're person space
- A girl punches or slaps you
- A girl throws a drink at you
-Or maybe a girl is teasing and you end up getting serious

I wanna article or at least some advice on dealing with these scenarios to help me and other men. It's getting to a point were a feel alot of males and females are against each other. I constantly see compilation gender equality videos of guys retaliating by striking a girl back by hitting them on YouTube videos and got curious on how one handles these situations.
 
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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I don't see why anyone would want to get in such a fight with a woman. If you are talking to a woman and she acts like that, what could you hope to gain or accomplish if you keep talking to her? You're certainly not gonna get anything other than high adrenaline and maybe a slap or a drink in your face.

So if a girl gets offended or angry or takes something you said seriously, you have a number of options:

-You can tease her and pick on how she can't handle a joke, in a cocky funny way of course. Cocky alone will probably make it worse. You can even act like nothing even happened.

-If you feel that you really did something out of line that hurt her, you can apologize to her and say that it wasn't your intention. There's nothing wrong with that, but don't become a pussy and try to suck up to her. Merely acknowledge that you did something wrong, apologize and change the subject.

-If you're dealing with one of those crazy chicks who seem about to explode at any moment, you can say it was nice to meet you and get out of there. Remember that you are the selector, and if a girl is crazy/disturbed she is not worth your time no matter how hot she might be.

I also want to add that situations like this can probably hurt your ego, but remember that you don't get your validation from women, and if she acted like this it isn't a direct reaction to you as a person, but maybe to something you said/did, or just her being pissed or any other reason.

If this is happening too often, you might want to work on your vibe, and calibrate what you're doing. Like I said before, being cocky without the funny isn't fun for her, and you will come across as an asshole instead of a sexy man.
 
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