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Brazerprime

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there's this older guy "Semi" cockblocking me at this place people take classes at where I go to. he's clearly really close w this girl but he's like in his mid 40's (she's early 20's), balding ugly guy with 0 game... but he's just ATTACHED to her a lot of the time and he clearly does not like me lol (probably knows I'm a threat in some way). Any idea how to approach a situation like this? Had someone tell me just need to accept it and make "An attempt" to play nice but guy is annoying af.. not as a sexual threat but cockblock it feels like imo.. Example is like I want to talk to her after class/walk back with her but he is GLUED to her and if I did walk back with her it would be us 3 in this scenario... and then it gets too much into chasing IMO rather than "it just happened" if that makes sense
 
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Number/social close her, in his face if u have to, then carry on from there.

How does she feel about him btw? Does she seem to be uncomfy?
 

Brazerprime

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Number/social close her, in his face if u have to, then carry on from there.

How does she feel about him btw? Does she seem to be uncomfy?
no she's super friendly with him and talkative etc.. so just mainly a nuisance trying to get 1 on time lol

I've just honestly never seen such a clingy dude
 

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in his mid 40's (she's early 20's), balding ugly guy with 0 game... but he's just ATTACHED to her
why is she allowing him to stay attached?

that is what stood out to me.

an ugly 40 year old following around an attractive early 20s?

wtf?

why is the girl putting up with this
 

Brazerprime

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why is she allowing him to stay attached?

that is what stood out to me.

an ugly 40 year old following around an attractive early 20s?

wtf?

why is the girl putting up with this
because she can just ramble to him about whatever constantly and he is just "mr nice guy" always helping her with everything, almost like a servant lol...

she's also just super nice and (imo) likes male attention so that definitely has To do with it too
 

rr2021 aka DEVENCI

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because she can just ramble to him about whatever constantly and he is just "mr nice guy" always helping her with everything, almost like a servant lol...

she's also just super nice and (imo) likes male attention so that definitely has To do with it too
interesting.

no idea what to tell you then.

never dealt with a scenario like that in my life.

i do not even think i have ever had a conversation with someone age 40+ in my life that was not my parents,family or someone like doctor.lawyer...

i have never in my life had any sort of interaction with someone age 40+ in social/seduction related environment so no idea about this scenario

it's interesting this girl even wants to be seen with an ugly 40 year old in public; im assuming this girl is like a 6 or 7 in looks?
 

Brazerprime

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interesting.

no idea what to tell you then.

never dealt with a scenario like that in my life.

i do not even think i have ever had a conversation with someone age 40+ in my life that was not my parents,family or someone like doctor.lawyer...

i have never in my life had any sort of interaction with someone age 40+ in social/seduction related environment so no idea about this scenario

it's interesting this girl even wants to be seen with an ugly 40 year old in public; im assuming this girl is like a 6 or 7 in looks?
nah she's pretty attractive. I don't know man, she's just a really friendly person. I don't think she cares, she's pretty friendly with everyone if they say hi to her. I'm just trying to obviously move it forward
 

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This is really vague so just a guess.

Usually when they want something women placate the dead weight. Meaning, ideally she'd be taking care of the dude problem for you if he's just a simp circler. To the backburner he goes!

Makes me think she isn't interested in you.
 
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