This really pretty woman in a great sundress… fuck I’m re-getting pissed off only to think about it :S is walking ahead of me, one guy turns his head.
She walks a bit too fast, I’m thinking if it’s worth it to speed up, which usually isn't a great beginning, but then luckily an oncoming car makes her stop.
APPROACH
Now I'm by her side
“do you speak English”
“yes” A bit aloof, while she begins walking again
“I thought you were really pretty, (now I look ahead because I don’t wanna come across as giving her too much attention) and I wanted to meet you”
5 seconds and I return my gaze towards her, we slow down and she stops completely, my lucky day I think, now she’s smiling and it seems on
“I am xxx, hi”
“cassia”
“nice to meet you Cassia”
COCKBLOCK
With the tail of my eye I can already see the oncoming friend, she’s very fast approaching and I an already feel it spells trouble.
She hugs her and sticks to her and looks at me as if to say “she’s with me”
I hope you’re dead by now, you childish cockblock
I address the cockblock
“hi, I was just talking to your friend Cassia” (here still very in control, neutral slow voice)
back to Cassia
“are you from here”
"yes"
"are you single"
"yes"
Fantastic, I’d like to meet you for a coffe one of these days
A bit of hesitancy, while the cockblock keeps hugging her and physically moving her away little by little.
"I don't know... I just ended a long relationship"
"God, I don't wanna be your boyfriend, it's just a coffe" (smiling, but I wasn't super relaxed, I could see myself going to lose already)
"I know... "
Cockblock:
"she's not interested"
and now really pulls her away for good.
WHAT COULD HAVE I DONE?
I thought later on about:
1. addressing the cockblock saying something "do you care for your friend? Then you should let her meet some amazing guy"
2. give the cockblock a bit more attention, like asking her name and shaking hand
3. telling the cockblock as she tried to pull her away "can you stop, I'm not talking to you, she can take her own decisions" (this one possibly would push the girl to side with the cockblock though)
4. talk to the girl "look, I know she doesn't like the two of us meeting again, but I'll tell you what, put your number here (hand the phone), I'll give you a call later on and maybe we can meet again. And you can tell your friend here you put in the wrong number"
She walks a bit too fast, I’m thinking if it’s worth it to speed up, which usually isn't a great beginning, but then luckily an oncoming car makes her stop.
APPROACH
Now I'm by her side
“do you speak English”
“yes” A bit aloof, while she begins walking again
“I thought you were really pretty, (now I look ahead because I don’t wanna come across as giving her too much attention) and I wanted to meet you”
5 seconds and I return my gaze towards her, we slow down and she stops completely, my lucky day I think, now she’s smiling and it seems on
“I am xxx, hi”
“cassia”
“nice to meet you Cassia”
COCKBLOCK
With the tail of my eye I can already see the oncoming friend, she’s very fast approaching and I an already feel it spells trouble.
She hugs her and sticks to her and looks at me as if to say “she’s with me”
I hope you’re dead by now, you childish cockblock
I address the cockblock
“hi, I was just talking to your friend Cassia” (here still very in control, neutral slow voice)
back to Cassia
“are you from here”
"yes"
"are you single"
"yes"
Fantastic, I’d like to meet you for a coffe one of these days
A bit of hesitancy, while the cockblock keeps hugging her and physically moving her away little by little.
"I don't know... I just ended a long relationship"
"God, I don't wanna be your boyfriend, it's just a coffe" (smiling, but I wasn't super relaxed, I could see myself going to lose already)
"I know... "
Cockblock:
"she's not interested"
and now really pulls her away for good.
WHAT COULD HAVE I DONE?
I thought later on about:
1. addressing the cockblock saying something "do you care for your friend? Then you should let her meet some amazing guy"
2. give the cockblock a bit more attention, like asking her name and shaking hand
3. telling the cockblock as she tried to pull her away "can you stop, I'm not talking to you, she can take her own decisions" (this one possibly would push the girl to side with the cockblock though)
4. talk to the girl "look, I know she doesn't like the two of us meeting again, but I'll tell you what, put your number here (hand the phone), I'll give you a call later on and maybe we can meet again. And you can tell your friend here you put in the wrong number"
